Love, Sacrifice and The Raizadas - Page 5

Originally posted by: stafhtad

I am in the mood to disagree with a friend.  You get to be lucky one Priyanka.

Now stop rolling your eyes and start sharpening your claws.😛

 

Arnav does not know how to love anyone including his own Di.  Love doesnt mean, mouthing I will not let anything happen to you and then keep life changing secrets and withhold important information from his precious Di, with which she could have made different decisions.  So CVs have failed in showing his unconditional love.

 

Kushi does not know how to love herself and hence her love for anyone else is in my opinion, seeking validation from people who reject her or seem to reject her.  If she really loved Arnav unconditionally CVs would have shown her have a heart to heart about all he went through with his Di so she is informed, she would tell Arnav what all she went through at the hands of Shyam and she would tell what all Arnav and she went through with her parents.  If she did that, she would be giving a chance for her love for Arnav grow not only inside her heart, but she would be helping avoid lot of heartache for him as well.  Again flawed characterisation.  What they show her have is animal attraction.  I have not seen anything that Arnav did for her, for her to love him unconditionally.  Call me old fashioned or new sadist, but I do not see any unconditional love from her.  All I see is rolling over letting everyone walk over her.  That is not love, but yearning to be accepted.👏

 

I do not want to touch Anjali as that is character reel or real that I can never wrap my head around.  I never sympathised with her and never will and she does not know the meaning of life or love. 

 

Am I really disagreeing.  yes DAMMIT.  I need to disagree.  And you get the honors.😛😉

Originally posted by: Doc_Manaal

I am not giving a f**k these days to Arnav-AnJhalli clingy, puke worthy love story..
I am having a life outside IF n this demented taboo bro-sis love story serial unlike ASR worshippers.. 😛
whatever, when did Raizadas ever sacrifice anything ?? they are the most selfish people in the universe..
about Arnav Cryzada n  AnJhalli I dont feel a bit sad.. rather feeling good that Arnav is hurt.. coz tit for tat.. he destroyed Khushi's life to save his Di's over pampered ass, so Shyam burnt his Di's ass.. very good job..
Khushi is ever sacrificing lamb here.. I only watched the show because of Sanaya.. but now-a-days I dont see her that much becAUSE OF aRNAV-aNjHALLI MELODRAMA.. so I am skipping..
always u guys make very sensible posts and I love it...a big hug to all the cool girls in the gang..

love u all Pri, Vibhs, Swati, La , Hiru n all others ...

hey manaal🤗 glad to see you have moved on I think quite a lot of us are too very much in the process and have more fun dissecting than analysing

Originally posted by: Doc_Manaal

love u all Pri, Vibhs, Swati, La , Hiru n all others ...

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

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You've gone all profound on me Loopy...made me speechless! Hugs to you darling, this is a very thoughtful post.

I don't mind if we disagree about the other two but not Khushi...come on!

Okay I will still defend my stance on Khushi's unconditional love for Arnav...he judged her from day one, abused her, hurt her, blackmailed her, disrespected her, never gave her any explanation for why he's a monster to her...yet when his life was in danger, she didn't think twice before putting her own life on the line to save him. It is true that she doesn't love herself...as much as she loves him! She is willing to do anything, even kill herself (remember that dreadful plot where she was ready to jump off the cliff) for his happiness. She's crazy and out there but when it comes to him, her love is pure and unconditional. As is her love for her family and others, whatever she does for them is from her heart. She never expects anything in return as she doesn't have a selfish bone in her body. I just want her to be loved the same way. I agree she should inform his Di but that's just her not using her brains (what else is new). I can't question her love for him.

Look at my DP.

La, that was a beautiful post. I loved the quotes.

I always felt that both Anjali and ASR are uncompromising. If two people are so uncompromising, it is rather unfair on our part to expect them to understand the meanings of the words Love and Sacrifice.

I see two people who are too wrapped up in themselves to think of anyone else. Though for ASR, we can still argue that for him his sister is his life's driving force. But for Anjali, in spite of her saccharine  sweet smile and too good to be true behavior, she is one selfish B.

Both she and her brother are big manipulators. They have no compunction in taking advantage of other people's emotions. They know how to use other people's feeling for them to their advantage.

For instance, we can see how Anjali had no compunction is back stabbing her brotherand breaking his trust in her, when she very well knew that she meant the world to him, in fact she meant more to him than perhaps Khushi, the love of his life.

And now she has hit the lowest and is grovelling in the dirt with her underhand tactics of emotionally blackmailing her brother to let Shyam into RM again.

I initially felt for Anjali. It isn't easy to pick up the pieces of your life if you have been betrayed. It is difficult to start afresh. But I had faith in her recouping and making a new beginning.

But unfortunately both brother and sister suffer from willful blindness. They refuse to see logic. They refuse to reason.

It is impossible for such selfish characters to show any love or sacrifice. It always had been Existentialism. For both of them it had always been- I, Me and Myself.

They can't see beyond themselves.
Edited by bong.girl - 11 years ago