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EXPECTATIONSfrom CVs of Balika Vadhu

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There is a lot of pressure here on our Anandi………..Every person has expectations from their near and dear ones………Not a single person is spared by this word……..A child expects that his mother gives him food and father brings him toys……..A parent expects that his child should grow up in a particular way, have no bad habits, respects everyone and be a good successful person………Similarly every relationship has their own set of expectations……….Even Singh family had that from their Son…….! But he disappointed them badly………Still he came back and expects that they forgive him for everything and take him back……..! But singh's disappointed him badly this time………So, now he expects Anandi is the only person who can support him and help him………Now his expectations are from Anandi……..!

But what about Anandi………..Since childhood, everyone had some or other expectations from her as well……….

Anandi's parents expected her to marry, and she married and went to her new house with her new family……….Her mother even expected something from her in her death bed, and that is marry once again, so her life would not be lonely………..These expectations are for Anandi's happiness only, but nevertheless, they were their expectations, which Anandi is fulfilling and trying to be happy.……….! Dadi expected she leave her studies and she did……..She expected she should be good in house work and she did………She expected she should be a good wife and daughter in law and she proved she is……….Sumitra wanted a good wife for her son and Anandi tried her best……….Jagya had expectations that she should support him every time he is in trouble and she did……….Which later became a habit I suppose……….She supported him every step of the way, still it wasn't enough………He expected his wife should not be a uneducated girl and she studied, inspite of dadisa's warning……….She did not want to hurt her or dis-respect her dadi, but still she wanted Jagya to have faith in her and be up to his expectations…..….But what about her expectations from others………Somewhere fulfilling everyone's expectations, she forgot how to expect from others………..She has been left in a position, where she thinks only about how she would be able to fulfill the expectations of others……….But never expected anything from anyone……….Just one thing she expected is Bhairon's support to let her study, so she can meet Jagya's expectations………But what did she get in return…….When she topped and the reporters came to interview her, Jagya got all jelous and shouted at Anandi, for keeping this from him and Dadi……….He was angry for doing what she did, inspite of dadi's wishes……….. Even though he himself felt she is not an educated girl, who could match a doctor………..Why, because there was a thief in his heart…………! What a hypocite……!

 

 

Even when she talked to her father in last episode, her worry was if she will be able to able to work up to Shiv's family expectations or not………Why, because they showered love and have trust on her………What a burden to carry, if you really think about it………..Do you think you can live your life so selflessly in real world……….Won't you have any expectations from your husband, from your in laws………? But Anandi is one character who is shown to fulfill others expectations every step of the way…...

So, in some way, Anandi and Shiv are very alike……...Shiv has no expectations from Anandi as well, like Jagya……….But shiv has confidence in himself and his love……….He is trustworthy and he trusts Anandi as well completely………….So, they stand together on at least this one……….

Coming back to the point, what is the limit of a person, to keep fulfilling these expectations……….It is shown that Jagya is really regretting his decision………..But why does he have so many expectations from Anandi once again……..? Just because his family did not forgive him, does he have right to go beg Anandi? The same person, who he had not missed a single moment to insult every step of the way……..? Where is his self-respect………… Why does he feel he has that right, when he himself broke every thread which tied them together…………He did not miss a single moment to tell her that she is not worth him…………He never thought of her when he cheated her, when he married, when he had a child, when he put Anandi responsible for the death of his child, when he went to her parent's house to dis-respect the death of his mother……..Still he has expectations from her…………! Every time he is in trouble, he has expectations from Anandi and Anandi alone…………With what right does he expect all this from her………?

 

And Why? Just because she is a good person? A compassionate person, who had always been by his side? But with what face, he can do this? Gauri just made him a puppet and used him, still he said that he would never forget what she did and would not want to see her face ever again………..But he forgot that even though she asked him to do things, he is the one who did it………Didn't he have a brain of his own? But still after all this, he still has expectations from Anandi, that she will forget all what happened and help him still…………This is the mere weakness of Anandi, he is so sure about………! So, this shows only one thing, being too good also is harmful……..! Because people take you for granted..………..

So, once again she has a huge burden on her shoulders………..! And more over, thinking about Shiv, he may not have any expectations from Anandi as of now……….But there is one expectation, he would wish from Anandi and that is honesty………..

Honesty about her feelings, about Jagya's return and purpose of his return, about her emotions and what she feels about his return and honesty about what she wants to do from here……….Don't you think this is basic thing…………Her new in laws expectations are just that she and Shiv be happy………! But will shiv and Anandi be happy without honesty? Will Anandi be able to fulfill his expectations……….? If she tries to avoid certain subject, will shiv feel as if she was not being honest……….Because there might be hesitations for sure from her side………She might not want to share many of her thoughts with him……….But still she might and as a viewer, we expect it from her…………

But can Anandi fulfill  Jagya and Shiv's expectations at the same time……..?

I know, Anandi is under no obligation to help Jagya, but as a good compassionate human being, we all know that she will………That is the reason, we wanted her not to be there in the house, when he came……..! Many of you believe that after what he did at Anandi's mothers barsi, she won't give a damn to him……….But do you really think she will leave Jagya in this position……..? We have been seeing her since her childhood………..Do you expect or believe that she would bash him and ask him to go away, though we want her to do that………If anything, she would try to knock some sense in him rather than bashing him…….! She won't be happy that he left Gauri and try to make him see his own faults as well, for all we know………..But she won't let him go this way……….. But now there are few questions in the way……….

For one, how can she ask Bhairon, to forget the insult Jagya throwed at him? How will she ask Sumitra to forget the tears her son gave her, till the point of losing her daughter in law she had loved so much to someone else and just hug her son and think everything will be alright like before………Can she tell her Taisa and Tausa to forget their insult……….? He did not even spare his own sister………..Does she have a right to ask them all to forget what they went through……..? And if no, will she not be expecting more of them, than they can do………..But her expectations would be selfless……..She would want the family to forgive Jagya, because somewhere she will feel that she should not let their conflict come in between him and his parents……….She would want them to have their son back, so she could go away from this house finally without any burden………. So, what will she do now………..Whatever he might have done, she would do her duty, thinking of him as a person, once she considered her own……….(Which might increase Jagya's expectations from her as well, which I fear)…….But as a good hearted person, she might do whatever she can………..

But then the question of herself respect comes in………! Now if she helps, people would ask where is her self-respect……….Or if she asks him to go away and not come back, many will think that it is not in her nature…………! So, what options does she have…………Will this expectations lead to another struggle in her life………..?

As a viewer we too have lot of expectations from the character like Anandi……….What messages we want the cvs to send across the nation with the shows like this……..?

We want her to be a good wife to Shiv, forget Jagya, who did nothing but insult her………..Remember the pain he gave her and move forward with the person who loves and respects her………..We expect her to hold her self-respect and show Jagya where he stands in her life now……..We want her to make him realize what love really is all about……….We want him as well as people like him to realize from Anandi's character that life is not a game, that he keeps tossing from one wife to another, and some things just can't be changed, even though we want time to go back, so we can do many things differently…….…We also expect that Anandi shows a stand and look in his eyes and tell him, that whatever happened  in the past is over and that no one can tie the broken relations back like they were before……….And we as a viewer expect her to show men like him, that they cannot behave this way and expect women to take them back………..

We want people to know that no one can help them, if they can't help themselves………..They need to stand up and take their own responsibility, instead of leaning on someone else……….We want people like Shiv, not hesitate to hold the hands of such widows and Divorcee, which will only be possible if Anandi be firm in her decision and try to forget her past and stand by her future and be honest and start loving and respecting him as he deserves…………We want her to show to the people that she can make right choice of her life, and show the nation, how to behave in such a situation……..She should show Jagya what honesty is all about, by being honest to her fiancee' and by taking his help as well if she wants Jagya to have his family back………We would like her to be clear with Jagya about Shiv's stand in her life and see that Shiv's trust in her never shakes………This will in turn strengthen their relationship………..If you remember, she is in the same situation where Gauri was once…………Jagya is waiting there to beg her to forgive him and take him back………Only thing is now he is in front of Anandi, instead of Gauri………! Gauri made wrong decisions at that time, falling under the trap……….But we have many expectations from Anandi and one of them is that, even after all what Jagya did, she will be helping him out to reach out to his family, still she isn't a girl like gauri, who would accept a married man……..! A man who is someone else husband…….! And I am sure, even Gauri and her parents would know Anandi very well after this……….! This will be for good in return………..! Gauri who has negativity for Anandi for once, will be able to open her eyes and know who Anandi is……….And know her qualities………..I want Gauri's parents be ashamed of their deeds and go and ask for forgiveness from Singhs………!

 
 

 Jagya and Gauri accepting eachother come's last and I don't want to go there………Because, if Jagya expects forgiveness from his family and Anandi, then he should be able to do the same, and even Gauri should be able to do it……….So, it is far far away step………But a person like Anandi who is honest, would never do what Gauri did and that makes her character unique………..

We also have expectations from Anandi, to really respect Shiv's love for her and understand him………..We want her to know what true love is and we expect that Shiv will make Anandi fall in love once again and fill her life with happy memories…………We want Anandi, who lives for others happiness to find happiness for herself as well……….Because by finding happiness in her life, she would be able to make more difference in others life, than she is doing now………..We want her to have expectations from Shiv, feel that she has right on him and lead a happy life in future………..

I hope CVs know our expectations, so they show us, what the viewers want……….!

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 11:51pm | IP Logged
Vamita,
 
You've put your thoughts of Anandi's inner struggle in a very nice way...
 
If Shiv could take onus of sorting out J's life ( we all know Shiv is capable of doing it ), do not you think...for such a woman, who always strives to live upto the expectations of others...it would be nice to see some one who will actually DO something for her...would not she feel overwhelmed and loved...
 
Pls do not get me wrong...she doesnot love J anymore...but I'am quite sure, she will not be happy either to see him like this...she will be in a turmoil...whether to reach out and help him or keep quite considering the sentiments of her would be family...
 
If Shiv steps up to this situation...this will indeed be something special that Shiv would be giving her making her accept him wholeheartedly...Smile
 
These are just my thoughts...Its indeed upto CV's what they really have in mind...

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