Clubbing my response to both your posts.
A few questions for you
Karuna & Sankalp are more important for Simar than her unborn child? In that case I am happy that she lost the baby because no mother should put the interests of any one else above her child and thats what Simar said. Simar knew Roli was telling the truth and to keep her baby safe she should have left the house with Prem. Prem would definitely have believed Simar but know because your Dim-Sim chose to be the "Mahaan " one and put other people's interests over her unborn child she lost her baby. Roli has the evidence and Simar stopped Roli from giving it to the family because she does not want to hurt Mataji? What BS is that.
I dont think you are a mother yet because you dont know the sense of loss one feels once they loose a child born or unborn...Once you carry a child you become super attached to it even though its not born yet...for a woman the baby is growing within her and to protect and nurture your child is a woman's biggest responsibility (Your Simar failed there, she deliberately chose to stay with Khushi knowing she is dangerous). How could Roli have helped Simar when Simar does not want to help herself...remember your Simar kicked Roli out of the house knowing that Roli was right and now also instead of blaming Simar Roli is trying to compensate for Simar's loss in the best possible way because when Simar holds her other baby the pain of loosing this one will reduce which is why Roli suggested she would try for another and decorating the room was for convincing Prem who said he did not want a child...seems like you dont follow the show anymore.
Simar did not have to put a gun to Roli's head but Roli thinks more about the family than Simar does which is why Simar put her father and her family's prestige at stake when she went for the dance show on her wedding day and no one asks any one to sacrifice you do that because you love your family and your siblings and Roli has sacrificed for Simar and is continuing to pay for Simar's actions. I can pull up a post wherein you actually acknowledged that Roli has sacrificed a lot for Simar and Roli's love for Simar makes her the victim.
Simar only loves herself. Why should Sid ask Simar? Simar knows Roli is sacrificing for her then its her responsibility if she loves Roli to make sure that everything in Rolis life is hunky dory but selfish Simar will not do that and thats because Simar is thinking what if Sid is against Roli carrying the baby; Simar does not want to loose her scape goat Roli. If Roli can insist on carrying the baby why cant Simar insist that Roli should not be carrying the child; Isnt Simar the older sister plus Simar knows that she has the power to convince Roli but Simar did not do that and why is that...Thats because she is selfish Simar who is only interested in being "Mahaan".
You are right Roli cannot think past Simar and has even put her marriage at stake for a thankless soul like Simar and Sid truly deserves someone better who does not do her "didi jaap" all the time and can focus on him and their relationship. I honestly liked Roli the best when she was against Simar earlier this year. I disagree that Roli is doing all this to be "mahaan" . Roli is not being Mahaan had she been mahaan she would have kept quiet about Khushi like Simar. Roli just plain simple loves an extremely selfish person like Simar
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