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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 6:09pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by anonee

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@anonee I think the CVs are just trying to show that Yash is attracted to Aarti and feels strongly about her. I mean why would he get jealous of Aarti having a male friend, if she was just the mother of his kids? 
In the eyes of society and religion/culture/God she is his wife - is that not why she wanted him to break the Teej fast?
 
So she needs to behave as per those norms at least (and definitely) externally.
 
Edit:  The jealousy is to her inappropriate (read flirting and time spent with Aman) behavior not to her having male friends


But in Mumbai, she was more laid back, and Yash didn't seem to have a problem with that. He's definitely jealous, and I don't think it has anything to her not behaving like an "appropriate" bahu. As you said, Yash is insecure and I agree. He's insecure that she's flirting with someone else and not him. Tongue Why would he be jealous if he only considered her the mother of his kids is what I'm asking. By the way, I forgot to mention this, but I loved your analysis!
As I mentioned in my post jealousy is a power play game between romantic partners - so that aspect of his feeling is covered there.
 
Re: her being mother of his kids - also I have covered in my post.  I am pasting the answer below
 

In my earlier posts I had written jealousy is not an evidence of love rather it is a sign of insecurity.  He is afraid that his place in Aarthi's mind, heart, and life will be replaced by another individual, presumably Aman.  So the basis of jealousy is fear not love.

What is Yash's fear -- based on the last 5-7 episodes I would say it is his lovability Because of his professed love for Arpita he is does not believe Aarti would have been attracted to him nor him to Aarti.  . 



Edited by anonee - 04 September 2012 at 6:10pm

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 6:20pm | IP Logged
Just struck me, I hadnt addressed the pavitrata issue that Gayatri raised...ha, Gayatri how did you propose Aarti prove that? Is there a medical test she should have taken. Or, maybe that quack Dayal can minister the insanity pill and she can then spill? Better idea, please get 3 chastity belts made for your DILs and keep the keys yourself. Now you can control both your sons and DILs. Can I say once more, perverse.

As for Bua, looks like she is made only to resurrect Bua. Anytime Aarti gets annoying, they bring Bua over to perpetuate some bizarre thing to Aarti therefore Aarti wins all our sympathies...

Anybody notice SP after the accusations were made on Aarti? Did he run off with the camera?

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 6:21pm | IP Logged
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Commenting in a few. Let me finish catching up on the last few pages of discussion Embarrassed and then to rewatch the videos.
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 6:28pm | IP Logged
@"Jyo: Secondly How come kids r gone with servants while Aarti and Yash r alone standing somewhere when they came to Mumbai to spent time with kids ??"
 
This is exactly what I said in one of my postings.  Where did the kids disappear to when they came to mumbai to spend time with them...

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 6:30pm | IP Logged
@Alamelu, They are fitting a square peg in the round hole they dug for themselves so not everything will fit...rather, very little will.Wink

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 6:31pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anonee

Originally posted by ilovepyaar

Originally posted by anonee

Originally posted by ilovepyaar

@anonee I think the CVs are just trying to show that Yash is attracted to Aarti and feels strongly about her. I mean why would he get jealous of Aarti having a male friend, if she was just the mother of his kids? 
In the eyes of society and religion/culture/God she is his wife - is that not why she wanted him to break the Teej fast?
 
So she needs to behave as per those norms at least (and definitely) externally.
 
Edit:  The jealousy is to her inappropriate (read flirting and time spent with Aman) behavior not to her having male friends


But in Mumbai, she was more laid back, and Yash didn't seem to have a problem with that. He's definitely jealous, and I don't think it has anything to her not behaving like an "appropriate" bahu. As you said, Yash is insecure and I agree. He's insecure that she's flirting with someone else and not him. Tongue Why would he be jealous if he only considered her the mother of his kids is what I'm asking. By the way, I forgot to mention this, but I loved your analysis!
As I mentioned in my post jealousy is a power play game between romantic partners - so that aspect of his feeling is covered there.
 
Re: her being mother of his kids - also I have covered in my post.  I am pasting the answer below
 

In my earlier posts I had written jealousy is not an evidence of love rather it is a sign of insecurity.  He is afraid that his place in Aarthi's mind, heart, and life will be replaced by another individual, presumably Aman.  So the basis of jealousy is fear not love.

What is Yash's fear -- based on the last 5-7 episodes I would say it is his lovability Because of his professed love for Arpita he is does not believe Aarti would have been attracted to him nor him to Aarti.  . 



Yeah, I noticed and I do agree! Tongue

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 6:31pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Alamelu

@"Jyo: Secondly How come kids r gone with servants while Aarti and Yash r alone standing somewhere when they came to Mumbai to spent time with kids ??"
 
This is exactly what I said in one of my postings.  Where did the kids disappear to when they came to mumbai to spend time with them...
At the beginning of today's epi AarYaa mention that the kids have gone with Chagan and Bhavri for horse-riding lessons/fun ride.

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 6:37pm | IP Logged

@Sammy, after my initial phase of anger at Vidhi, I tried looking at things from her POV and I get how disappointed and hurt she must have felt. To top that she has lived with the Scindias for how long, so I understand she can fall when her trust in Aarti is severely tested especially given the very incriminating evidence against Aarti. And we really don't know what Bhavri told Vidhi, do we?


In fact this is one of the points I loved in your take and that got me to take another look at the Vidhi-Aarti interaction. You are right Vidhi did not walk off like Yash did. Vidhi confronted Aarti unlike Yash. Vidhi after she finished venting stayed back to give Aarti an opportunity to explain herself again unlike Yash. So, I am with you on being sympathetic towards Vidhi yet it is hard to disregard the fact that Vidhi actually accused Aarti of sleeping with someone. Accusing anyone of sleeping with someone is big but especially a married woman in a society like ours.  And that breaks my heart. I have no expectations from anyone else in that family but Vidhi and Yash, if they are to think that Aarti who supposedly was deep in love with her late husband, and who is a very responsible mother, would go out on a rainy night and have sex with a college friend just doesn't sit well with me. I don't think I would have had an issue if Vidhi had just been severely disappointed at Aarti for keeping all this from her. But to accuse Aarti of such a lowly act even in a moment of passionate anger, was very very cruel of Vidhi. And as always, I trust these CVs. There will come a time when Vidhi will be filled with remorse. 


I am going to leave Yash out of this because I don't think he thinks that Aarti "physically cheated" him (at least I hope not). His issues are completely different but it is his choice of words that has let the other family members draw these conclusions about Aarti which I hope Yash will regret about for the rest of his life. 


@Anonee and Saffi, thank you my friends. Embarrassed



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