4/9 Dragon Club : Uss Raat ki Subah Nahin :P - Page 45

@Red, wow what a comparison list between two👏.. Love the one line review, Aman ate him for breakfast..

@Red, I am so with you. Loved your last line. Everyone deserves each other. Just that the poor viewer deserves better...they have them all hostage on the promise of a good next phase for these two but the dragging is insufferable.

@Indu, thanks :). You make it real easy to be nice and quite simply put, I love all noble thought . Also, while your sensibilities and mine are quite the opposite, I find it refreshing to read them, helps me hold mine with no fear of ceding sentiment...

UFF!!

@Indu, as usual beautiful take. I never compared Vidhi's anger with Yash, but said it well there..

@Kirthi: I know infidelity is a big accusation, but part of me thinks that Vidhi just wanted Aarti to prove it wrong that badly. She wanted there to be no ambiguity because try as she might, those photographs and what Bhavari said about Aarti coming home at 3am were just a little too clear for comfort. I think she put it out there so Aarti could defend herself on all counts and completely clear the air. What I especially loved and forgot to mention though, was that when Bua was accusing Aarti, Vidhi stood in between them, facing Bua as though she was protecting and shielding Aarti. Basically, in her own way, I think she wanted to prepare Aarti for the accusations that were bound to come and give Aarti a chance to explain things to her, thereby giving Vidhi a chance to defend her when the matter came before everyone else. I could be being optimistic, but hey, why not?

@Red: It is really weird, but before reading your take I felt the same way you did about Yash vs. Aman in the episode but now that I have read your thoughts it makes me want to defend Yash. How'd that happen? Anyway, poor Yash is at his worst right now. I would not say he is an immature person, but he acts immature when things come down to feelings and emotions that  he doesn't want to confront. After all, this is the same man who reasoned that no woman who would leave her child behind for a second marriage could be a good mother to his girls, the same guy who defied his family to bring Aarti back intot he house because she was the right mother for his girls. There is Shobha's "suljha hua insaan" somewhere down there, but he is lost in a situation where he doesn't know what to do, that is stressing hard on all his biggest weaknesses as a person. So in the end, we agree that Aarti needs a Yash and not an Aman. She needs someone to ground her, a steady wall to bounce off of, and some cool shade to give her relief from her own sometimes blinding radiance. Aarti and Aman kind of remind me of Jo and Laurie from Little Women, if anyone has read that.

@Indu: I loved the fact that you compared Yash and Vidhi's reactions and came to the conclusion that in both their anger, lies their love. Only while Vidhi is ready to show her love and wants Aarti to absolve herself so she can help her fix the mess of a situation, Yash on some level does not want to hear Aarti's side of the story, does not want to accept her innocence which he knows of already somewhere deep down. Because if he accepts that she is innocent, he can't hate her anymore and if he can't hate her then the way he really feels will be revealed. I guess that is why he keeps running because he knows she will make it all better, but he doesn't want her to.

Special mention to the point about Yash not believing his love to be his own! That was beautiful! Now that you put it that way, it further clarifies his stance that he could never love anyone but Arpita, and why he hasn't even tried to come out of his grief over her death: he doesn't believe he is capable of coming out of it.

@Aparna: The viewers seem to be incidental at this point.  

@Sam - Brilliant post my friend. I absolutely loved your take on colors. It was very interesting and unique that you had looked at it from a friendship perspective. Again loved it. You can tell that I was clearly angry at Vidhi in my earlier post but your post calmed me down and brought out an entirely different view about her 😃

It wasn't based just on the images. The bigger fish frying was the 3am return home, I think. When Vidhi saw the pictures her first reaction was, no Aarti is not like that. It was only when she got the call that her top blew off.

@Priya: Thanks! I think that Yash's feelings for Aarti are a lot of undefined things right now but the one concrete label that fits is friendship. Aarti is Yash's friend, and I think at this point that was even more important than being his wife in the traditional sense. She was just being there for him, laughing with him and having fun, and I think he needed to take her for granted for a little while longer to feel comfortable and confident in their relationship. He had barely started accepting this new level of comfort with her when Aman came on the scene.

@Red, so true. Maybe the TRPs are rising or some such overwhelming indication of this maniac's approval by their audience. Whatever. I find I cant appreciate any character these days no matter how much I try. The only one I can seem to tolerate is SP. Even Pankaj seemed to have emerged as quite the passive aggressive dolphin 🤣

Good nite folks. Work is done and want to shut down on that happy sentiment.