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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 12:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by surabhi01

what a cruel mother

true and should say mothers as gauri aur uski chudel mom dono cruel hai...

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 12:14pm | IP Logged
ya apni khushi ke liye aur kisi aur gussa unborn child pe nikalna cruelty hai

Edited by surabhi01 - 04 September 2012 at 12:15pm
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 4:29pm | IP Logged
get aborted
move on
marry someone else
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 7:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by shamar

 Well i think ideally the family should forgive both jagiya and gauri , especially on coming to know of her pregnancy - am sure if anandi gets to know, she will push them towards it.


However i'm far more disturbed about this idea that its wrong to abort a child if you are not ready for any reason. There is a reason for which abortion rights were bestowed on women. Here a man who declared his love for her , broke his other commitments  simply on getting to know about a lie about her education decided to abandon her and go back ! As if he had never lied to her right from the beggining about his being single - a far bigger lie, yet she accepted him out of love . But after 8 years of marriage , the spoilt kunwar one fine day decided to live this life he chose and happily go back to his past - mind you a thirty year old man , not a 20 something who had just consummated a bal vivaah. I would like to see which other man would behave like this at such a stage instead of talking, negotiating, discussing first ...

She was always deeply insecure and this ofcourse has driven her inner insecurities further. If not being sure whether jagiya would ever be back, she thinks of aborting because she does not want to bring up this child on her own without a father - she has commited no crime. Birt control and abortion are there to ensure children are given birth to only when they are wanted, when the parents have the resources and desire to do so. Abortion of accidental pregnancies under such circumstances is hardly a crime - its much worse to bring a child for whom you are not ready and whose future you cannot ascertain !! I would say even if this breakup with jagiya had not happened, if she and jagiya felt the time was not right, they had a right to abort the child.

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  1. Why Singh family should forgive a girl like Gauri who ruined their Son and Legal DIL's 16 yrs of marriage and intentionally insulted them again an again and again... Women like Gauri is only a home breaker not a home maker. what if tomorrow Jagiya will sleep with another woman(call girl type) and accidentally she will get pregnant then Singh family should accept her also bcoz she is carrying their son's baby? Gauri is not Jagiya;s wife till date that's why after the big fight they separated without any hassle but Anandi was the actual wife. He had to go thru the legal process for separation with Anandi.
  2. He was not angry bcoz she lied for her education. She went to insult his father and other family member and told him that she went to see her cousin.
  3. Jagya and Gauri was only living together for 2 years and they had so called affairs for about 5 yrs. Anandi is marred for 17 yrs.

She is a successful surgeon so she is capable to raise a child  all by herself with the help of her parents but this woman is selfish she won't give birth untill she sees any Phayda.

This is my person POV. I got married at the age of 15 naturally got pregnant early too everyone including hubby and in-laws told me to abort it but I didn't. I am completely antiabortion unless rape child.


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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 9:54pm | IP Logged
As per kataupanishad, we always have 2 options to choose in our life...(1) the one that attracts senses (that binds us) & (2) the one that attracts the intellect(that frees us)...
Going by this, we hv 2 options for Gauri...
as per the first one,she shd feed her ego n move ahead single to pursue her own interests...letting jagat n his child lose...n face the society just like Anandi had faced...
So far she never faced her colleagues n society...

As per the second one,she shd realize, repent , repair n resume her bharpur samsar ...to lead the rest of life hassle free...

Wish Mr.33 inject some sense into her as she is not open to any one in the world... N she had no guru ...as guru wards off the darkness of ignorance by switching the light of wisdom on("gu" karo andhakarasya , "Ru"karaha thannivarakaha)

Happy Teachers Day...

Without guide our journey is merely a blind pursuit of dreams...



Edited by sreevask - 04 September 2012 at 10:09pm

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 10:24pm | IP Logged
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whatever she did, she still has a right to decide what to do with her unborn child under the circumstances when she has been left behind by J on something as mino as that lie about her education even if she lied about where she had gone - yes she has made any mistakes but for all of them he was there. he was the one who lied about being single, who declared his love for her, who also insulted his family despite being their son while gauri was an outsider etc etc ..this is really a man's world that after all the crimes  he commited he thinks he can leave her for such lies and one episode of anger...we've gone through this enough no of times, 17 years with anadi were as children largely - and this serial is against child marriage - they had only 6 months together as adults. ...they lived together in an adult relationship for 7 years which counts for something , not years when u are married as children and have no choice in the matter...

Anyways my point still remains, whatever she did , only she as a mother has a right to decide whether she brings a child under the circumstances into the world. Your decision was yours and should be respected but you should also respect other woman's decision about their children.  Children should be brought into this world only when people are willing , have the desire and resources to do something like bring another human being onto this earth and be responsible for him. Otherwise it is far better to abort accidental pregnancies - for god's sake this is the same logic patriarchal and religious authorities all ove r used to force woman to keep on having children irrespective of their desires. Family planning, abortion are rights given to modern woman after a lot of struggle - its a matter of choice so please respect other woman and their decisions - noone is forcing anyone to abort, u cannot force anyone not to abort  where accidental pregnancies are concerned.

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 10:38pm | IP Logged
ThanQ 4 supporting the choice of Gauri's illegal decision of foeticide...

Ofcourse we have bn supporting her allthrough her illegal n immoral choices ... What's wrong now?

Here the question is her inability to meet herself...


Edited by sreevask - 04 September 2012 at 10:43pm
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 11:42pm | IP Logged
Oh my god !!   So many woman talking about abortion i the way mullas and pandits talked about it , forcing women to have one child after another, getting single mothers married off at young ages tied to childbirth and marriage and ghar grihasthi. It is not immoral to use birth control and abort accidental pregnancies - WHICH WORLD ARE WE LIVING IN ??? children have to be brought up in happy families where parents have the time, resources, wish, energy to do so , so that no unwanted child is brought onto this earth and no woman goes thru unwanted pregnancies...people should just stop having sex then if they dont want a child because till date no fullproof method of contracaeption exists - there is a reason after long , hard sustained struggle , woman were allowed these rights to abort !!!

As for gauri's immorality - even if she commited adultery - what would you have happen - we go back to stone age or like taliban decree all adulterous women are sinners and need to be stoned to death ??? For god's sake - nobody is supporting wrong decisions , but several woman who are ordinary human beings get involved in adulterous relations - BREAKUPS are part of human relationships, they are difficult and break someone's heart but they happen and MARRIAGES are not SACROSANCT either - a marriage is a social and legal contract and a commitment to try and live together - and everyone shd make an attempt to make that commitment work . Despite that marriages sometimes dont work - people fall apart - divorces happen !!! Forcing dead marriages doesnt work for anyone - it would make the wife most unhappy, but wives should demand proper rights and entitlements , alimony etc if forced to break up marriages .

and if this serial was against child marriage - they had to show J moving away at some point. Ok so J and G behaved badly - but they do not become criminal s after that . G would have been the scheming woman if she thought of getting J back under such pretesxts , here she just thinks of aborting a child for whom she cannot garauntee that the father will be around. She's depressed also . But no, G haters will think of whatever she does - getting pregnant despite the fact that no woman has full control over pregnancies was her fault. If she'd kept the child and thought of reconciling - then she was using the child . If she decided to abort - she is selfish. Really this is Taliban style condemnation of incidents which might occur in anyone 's lives - but ofcourse G haters want her stoned to death if possible otherwise every decision of hers should be a butt of ridicule for having plain fun !!!!

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