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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 4:08am | IP Logged
Good point.

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 4:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Armu4eva

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I do not think she meant .. JUST the PHYSICAL aspect... as a wife. .she cooks. takes care of the family .. fulfills her obligations as a daughter in law..! There are varied roles a woman plays.. n physical aspect is a part of it..!

When a persons wishes.. n opinions r not considered .. they r bound to feel neglected n hence the whole thing!



Tanu...I don't think any of these roles were imposed on her...she did them voluntarily and gladly...if she had said but the word, I am sure her husband earns enough money to hire people to do all of this...

People do things for each other and their families out of love...if we started reading into this, then I would say all of us are using each other...we are using our parents, our parents are using us, friends use each other and so on...

Going by this yardstick, when Nidhi went shopping, along with his credit card, should Ashutosh have also felt used?

Yes, I understand that she feels that her emotions are being considered,...and she is right in feeling so...but does not justify saying she feels used...

When a wife says she feels used by her husband, I am sorry but it leaves a very, very bad taste in the mouth...

I am a married woman who has probably has a hundred fights with her husband in a day...there are times when both of us hate the sight of each other but the thought of being used in any way has never risen!

I m explaining what she meant.. n not ..whether she was right in meaning what she did..! 

Coming to the credit card thingy... yes ofcourse he was annoyed with her fizul kharchi .. but can u compare.. MONEY with relations??? come on LOL

And ... i think .. this feeling used thing is very common in marital places.. esp i have myself heard the words 'u dun care' 'u act as if i dun exist' etc.. amongst couples.. so it wasnt anything that was so serious that we hv to get into discussing morals here! None of us lead a perfect life.. so lets not expect our heroes/ heroines to act such! Atleast i dont! 
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Tanu...whether it is money or emotions, they are both currency of different sorts...and you can feel used on account of both...

While we should not expect perfection, let us not justify imperfection either...let us accept it as an imperfection and move on...this is all I say!

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 4:27am | IP Logged
Nope i dont think it was for physical aspect of marriage she referred too..she said it clearly...Meri ichchaon,rehne na rehne se unhe koi fark nhi padta...so its clear..she said about mental connection and her importance in Ashus life..

Edited by rabzonedge - 04 September 2012 at 4:28am

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 5:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Armu4eva

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Originally posted by Armu4eva

I do not think she meant .. JUST the PHYSICAL aspect... as a wife. .she cooks. takes care of the family .. fulfills her obligations as a daughter in law..! There are varied roles a woman plays.. n physical aspect is a part of it..!

When a persons wishes.. n opinions r not considered .. they r bound to feel neglected n hence the whole thing!



Yes agree she was reffering to all the aspects. But these are very hurting words , good that Ashu didn't listen to her talks.



Its the most common dialogue of frustu wives.. no hubby takes them seriously .. after a pointLOL

[ m just kidding .. the married women in here pls dun murder me]Embarrassed


u mean to say Husbands don't take feelings of there wife's seriously . It means Husbands are fully aware of pscycology of womens . They know it's just there Mood swings .and this tsunami won't last for long ,
interesting.

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 5:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Sujatha.rao




Tanu...whether it is money or emotions, they are both currency of different sorts...and you can feel used on account of both...

While we should not expect perfection, let us not justify imperfection either...let us accept it as an imperfection and move on...this is all I say!

I wish life were so simple that u can simply call emotions as currencies..  even today. .they r more valuable than anything else.. or so i have been taught by my parents!

And regarding imperfections ..i dont think it was one.. n i will say that..! Lets MOVE ON?? Tongue

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 5:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by kaks0211


<font color="#0000ff" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">I dont think Nidhi meant the physical aspect at all...What she meant was that her feelings were not cared for as if she was an inanimate thing..as if she was just there - taken for granted...</font>


Thanks for sharing your views.
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 5:23am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Blushsarika


u mean to say Husbands don't take feelings of there wife's seriously . It means Husbands are fully aware of pscycology of womens . They know it's just there Mood swings .and this tsunami won't last for long ,
interesting.

It wont last for long.. wait n watch Smile
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 5:32am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Armu4eva

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iam fine as long as there is no ashu hai haing. Embarrassed


LOL there will b Ashu hai haing too ... who is better. AshNi or Aamar-NidhiROFL

that we can manage.coz ashu is d lead n amar a side character.

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