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It must suck to be Sidhi

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 1:35am | IP Logged
Even though it is usual for soap opera heroines to have a perennially hard time with everything, I was just thinking how crappy Sidhi's life really has been. Again, some of it has been her own (cvs) doing, but still:

  • She fell in love with a very nice guy, and went through lots of turmoil and opposition from her family and his family about getting married to him
  • Just as they were finally going to get married, the guy dies in a freak accident for no real fault of his or her. Extreme trauma
  • Yet sense of righteuousness and duty brings her to serve the guy's mother, for whose sake she actually marries her fiance's much older brother, who hates her, doesnt really work, drinks and is lost in love n betrayal of someone elee for five yrs
  • She marries him, brings him out of his darkness, falls in love with him, and generally makes everything right for others
  • Yet she fights misunderstandings at every junction from her husband and others in the family, making their life better. Nobody really truly shows trust in her
  • She fights for her husband in a false rape case, going to all kinds of humiliating levels, gets kidnapped, almost dies
  • She's pregnant, has no time to savour it with her husband because of another fraud case logged by the same estranged ex-lover of her husband. she goes to jail, then is worried would lose her husband, and eventually is forced into a corner where she sacrifices herself to save him.
  • Her super-loving husband is heartbroken but does not have enough trust in her to 'know' how she really is, and try to investigate real cause for sudden change in her behavior for NINE years. in fact he takes her spurning to heart and never wants to see her again for these many years. Also he believes shit lies from that ex-lover creature, who he knows tried to frame him and kill his wife
  • She's suffered alone in jail for nine yrs, neither her husband nor her own brother and sister have bothered to see her. Her husband's mother for whom she made all the sacrifice is actually the most venomous for her. And her sister-in-law who knows a lot more truth than the rest actually says nothing because she is NOW happy in her own life.
  • Worse, none of her two sons actually loves her or knows about her. Even when she gets out and is living with one of them, he's a total spoilt brat that never knew of and doesnt care about his mother. She is humiliated by her son, and the fact that he calls someone else his father and listens to him, and from the woman who effectively stole her son and kept with him for all this yrs as a grandchild for the sake of her own son. At least Kunal was living at home with his loving family and a son who can die for him. Sidhi actually is made to believe one of her children died and her husband does not care about the other and has married the same ex-lover witch because of whom she's suffered
  • Sidhi is alone, does not have a career or family she could have had and is not loved by anyone inc her sons, and has been denied any decent chance of living on her terms because she married a guy whose ex-lover was obsessed with him. 
Totally sucks to be her. She doesnt even get the sympathy and care/support Kunal gets. She's alone. Mahaan nari of EK's soaps

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 2:14am | IP Logged
Isn't that just the way it is??!!

And the question is...will she continue to be mahaan & silently dote on her husband & his family while he now derides her for double crossing him or worse?? Or will the poor witless husband get a chance to see the light of dawn & prove his worth?

BTW, that was a rhetorical question...having sat through many of the earlier tracks, I already know the answer to itWinkLOL

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 2:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Fariyal

Isn't that just the way it is??!!

And the question is...will she continue to be mahaan & silently dote on her husband & his family
while he now derides her for double crossing him or worse?? Or will the poor witless husband get a chance to see the light of dawn & prove his worth?

BTW, that was a rhetorical question...having sat through many of the earlier tracks, I already know the answer to itWinkLOL
Of course that is what an ideal bharatiya nari should do!Whatever happens she is going to say 'Richa ka Kunal mera parameshwar hain' and go about indulging in stupidity that she bawls and names 'sacrifice'!
 
 
That never happens in BT soaps just like you pointed out Fari! As per them if a man is virile that is good enough!Angry
 

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 2:29am | IP Logged
Originally posted by chitsss

Originally posted by Fariyal

Isn't that just the way it is??!!

And the question is...will she continue to be mahaan & silently dote on her husband & his family
while he now derides her for double crossing him or worse?? Or will the poor witless husband get a chance to see the light of dawn & prove his worth?

BTW, that was a rhetorical question...having sat through many of the earlier tracks, I already know the answer to itWinkLOL
Of course that is what an ideal bharatiya nari should do!Whatever happens she is going to say 'Richa ka Kunal mera parameshwar hain' and go about indulging in stupidity that she bawls and names 'sacrifice'!
 
 
That never happens in BT soaps just like you pointed out Fari! As per them if a man is virile that is good enough!Angry
 

@Red Tch Tch Chitss you expect too much don't you Tongue A man has only so much blood in his body. Now it can either go his head or ...Wink

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 2:32am | IP Logged
Here's a question

Even if there's some logic to explain why she did what she did all those years ago and silently went to jail. Why can't she NOW go and tell the whole world (or at least Kunal) what really happened?

Even if he is married to the WITCH, does he not deserve to know his current wife is a big scammer and lied and did hazaar crimes in the past just to marry him? Can she not now question why (according to her) did he disown his own child? Now that she's already been to jail for Rohit's murder, what's stopping her from confessing to people Richa's blackmail. Sidhi has nothing to lose, while even one of the many hidden truths can totally expose Richa. 

Oh wait, she wants to maintain her "mahaan" image. People CANNOT know how she sacrificed basically the best years of her life. So she will let the husband and family be on the mercy of a woman who cannot be trusted and can harm anyone and do anything for selfish motives.

Yeah, right.

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 2:49am | IP Logged
Originally posted by teekay

Here's a question

Even if there's some logic to explain why she did what she did all those years ago and silently went to jail. Why can't she NOW go and tell the whole world (or at least Kunal) what really happened?

Even if he is married to the WITCH, does he not deserve to know his current wife is a big scammer and lied and did hazaar crimes in the past just to marry him? Can she not now question why (according to her) did he disown his own child? Now that she's already been to jail for Rohit's murder, what's stopping her from confessing to people Richa's blackmail. Sidhi has nothing to lose, while even one of the many hidden truths can totally expose Richa. 

Oh wait, she wants to maintain her "mahaan" image. People CANNOT know how she sacrificed basically the best years of her life. So she will let the husband and family be on the mercy of a woman who cannot be trusted and can harm anyone and do anything for selfish motives.

Yeah, right.

Hey, how can she go and disturb the happy couple with her nonsense?Angry No matter whom Kunal is with, even if the woman is a murderer and the biggest scammer in the world, he is happyDead No mahaan bahu will go and disturb the peaceful life her husband is leading by dumping all the crap on him. She will take on all the crap and give him a glorious future with a psychopath without him knowing about how much she didDead

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 2:51am | IP Logged

Being mahaan and forever sacrificing comes in the job description of all BT bahus. Keep putting your foot in everyone elses business, then be misunderstood by one and all, let  the glycerine tears flow uncontrollably and ultimately apear mahaan in front of all. Then fall in love with the one you hate, after a tug of war confess your love, then be tormented by the scathing ex-lover, then make the ultimate sacrifice by becoming the queen of all evil in front of the ones you supposedly love and give your amaanat to the psychopathic anatagonist and bahaao aanso for the next 9596856787 years of your life until you run into your lover again and then the new series of mahaanta begins. What an exotic life...LOL. Poor Siddhi really got NOTHING out of this whole thing. Nau saal baad, beta bhi mila tha aur woh bhi ek number ka badmaash nikla. After so much crap she should just retire to the Himalayas and become a sannyasin and start running in the opposite direction if she ever sees any of the Chopras around.. :P

 
 
 
On a more serious note, the BT shows defy all common sense. They survive on the push and pull of love and hate between the leads so everything logical is put on the back burner, its the only way they can drag the show out infinitely.

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 3:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by teekay

Here's a question

Even if there's some logic to explain why she did what she did all those years ago and silently went to jail. Why can't she NOW go and tell the whole world (or at least Kunal) what really happened?

Even if he is married to the WITCH, does he not deserve to know his current wife is a big scammer and lied and did hazaar crimes in the past just to marry him? Can she not now question why (according to her) did he disown his own child? Now that she's already been to jail for Rohit's murder, what's stopping her from confessing to people Richa's blackmail. Sidhi has nothing to lose, while even one of the many hidden truths can totally expose Richa. 

Oh wait, she wants to maintain her "mahaan" image. People CANNOT know how she sacrificed basically the best years of her life. So she will let the husband and family be on the mercy of a woman who cannot be trusted and can harm anyone and do anything for selfish motives.

Yeah, right.
Aree bhai kya kisi ne samaney rahete huae siddhi par barosa kiya tha jo ab karenge. Sanakari ritcha will teach some other lesson to all and they will accept it. All persons are dumbo. Having no sense of humor.

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