Nice post! I liked all your points except for the last one π!
Healthy or Unhealthy, comparisons between two people of equal/unequal values, are meaning less! Why wud one compare their loved ones! Be it good or bad, shudn't we just focus on them and nurture them directly, instead of trying to make them inspire/aspire with/for the other! I am not for it! π
As a simple example, kids get really offended if we compare them with the neighbours! And among our own kids, comparisons are still more horrible! In the name of inspiring the other we are actually bringing down the self-confidence of the one being compared!
Sometimes a wife/husband keep comparing their spouses with their mom/dad! Height of irritation! This is my opinion!
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