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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 1:22pm | IP Logged
@Jyo: Thank you very much Hun! I hear ya...It's just that the way she was in the promo and after her phone convo with Shawari but Samana made me see it from another POV so I'm much calmer now and if she proves me wrong tomorrow i'll be the first to say Vidhi for doubting her Wink


Now that i would like to see...Why is it always the woman that's been questioned?...I want Aarti to Vidhi that she put her heart out there to yash in Mumbai and he looked like he was about to kill her so she said it was a joke...How could she imagine that Yash could be jealous??? Tongue 


I'm off to read your take now! 

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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 1:27pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Samanalyse

@Zet: Great take! I agree. The Scindias just love jumping the gun, but Aarti seems to have built some form of trust within the household. Though Vidhi is angry at her, I did not see blatant rejection there. Vidhi was angry with her for doing something wrong, which I think she was justified for. Aarti is naive and though I can understand why she didn't think of the Aman thing as a possibility, I think it was pretty stupid of her not to.

In a way, Aarti did promise Yash the moon and take it away, actually. In those few days in Mumbai she made him feel special, strong, involved and loved and that is why I think he was ready to come out of his shell. She showed him how full of light his life could be and made him comfortable in his own skin, and then she "took it away" by bringing someone like Aman into their lives, perhaps making Yash feel less special and more like this is how Aarti is with everyone.

@Jyo: Precisely. It is actually a trait of Aarti's from the very beginning. She sees things through her mind's eye alone and almost refuses to let other possibilities in. It was the same with Prashant, which is why it took her so long and so much humiliation to accept that it was really over.

@Priya: I agree with you. Vidhi has every right to be angry with Aarti here. She was downright stupid, and while I love her and understand where she is coming from, it doesn't take away from her stupidity, unfortunately. I do hope they justify why Aman was suddenly discovered in Mumbai. My best bet is that she and him maybe lost touch after the Dubeys moved from Indore to Bhopal after the divorce.

@Veena: But I mean, coming home at 3am without prior warning is irresponsible by any standards, which is why I said Aarti is looking at it only from her perspective of innocence. She herself established that she has "itni si jagah" in Yash's life, so shouldn't she act it? I really hope there is some valid justification behind her being out that late, rather than just forgetting the time or something. It would be much more plausible if she were stuck somewhere without signal or something

love all your replies but i love the bold best.. that is her irresponsible act that makes Yash really angry.. Wink

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need to go now.. good nite/afternoon/morning all.. Smile

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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 1:32pm | IP Logged
It was a pretty good episode. My favorite part was Aman telling Aarti that Yash is in love with her. I can see why Aarti would think hanging out with her friend (even so late at night) wouldn't matter to Yash because she thinks he doesn't think of her as his wife but rather just as the mother of his children. However, Aarti should have tried to understand what the situation looked like to people who didn't know about her and Aman's relationship. Bhavri was quick to think that Aarti was having an affair from what she said to Vidhi and Vidhi also thinks the same. Although Vidhi has been a huge support to Aarti and I love her sisterly bond with Aarti, I think she was too quick to jump to conclusions, as it is a Scindia trait. 

I recall the scene where Aarti sees a lipstick mark on Yash's shirt and is confused as to whose it could be. She could have accused Yash and told him "This is a lipstick mark on your shirt, you were out with Neelam, therefore this is Neelam's mark. What the hell were you doing with her?" However, she hadn't fallen in love with him at the time and also realized that she didn't share that kind of husband-wife relationship with Yash. Instead, she gave him the chance to explain why he had a lipstick mark on his shirt even though he didn't answer and left it at that. 

Here Yash is thinking the worst of Aarti and assumes she knows what it is. He should have outright asked her but instead he keeps it t himself making Aarti look like his culprit. The same with Buaji, G3, Pankhaj, Prateik, and Vidhi. 

Prateik was quick to suspect Paridhi thinking she was having an affair with that producer (it may be heading towards that). Pankhaj is quick to believe that it's Aarti's fault that Yash is in this condition. G3 too wants to believe that her Yash can't be at fault, it's certainly Aarti. Bua just like holding Aarti and by extension Ansh responsible for everything that is wrong. 

And now Vidhi. Yes it looks like Aarti's having an affair, but couldn't she wait to ask Aarti about it rather than just assuming Aarti betrayed Yash like this? 

Thank God SP isn't as judgmental as G3, otherwise he probably would've turned the car around to tail Aman and Aarti. G3 looked like she was ready to do so. 

I have great hopes for Aman. He's a great friend to Aarti. Even if he thinks that Yash is "sadoo" he's trying to make Aarti see things from Yash's point of view regarding that night. I would love it if Aman sticks around longer even after he completes his mission of clearing up Yash's misunderstanding regarding Aarti. He would be a great support to her when her truth about her divorcee status comes out. I also hope he makes Aarti realize that her hiding the truth about her divorce from Yash isn't a good idea. I don't want Aarti to tell the rest of the Scindia family since they are judgmental and SP's faith in her will crumble but if she tells Yash then Aarti can rest easy knowing that Yash is on her side. I'm sure Yash will be all angsty when Aarti tells him about Prashant but then he'll come around. 

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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 1:32pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Samanalyse

@Zet: Great take! I agree. The Scindias just love jumping the gun, but Aarti seems to have built some form of trust within the household. Though Vidhi is angry at her, I did not see blatant rejection there. Vidhi was angry with her for doing something wrong, which I think she was justified for. Aarti is naive and though I can understand why she didn't think of the Aman thing as a possibility, I think it was pretty stupid of her not to.

In a way, Aarti did promise Yash the moon and take it away, actually. In those few days in Mumbai she made him feel special, strong, involved and loved and that is why I think he was ready to come out of his shell. She showed him how full of light his life could be and made him comfortable in his own skin, and then she "took it away" by bringing someone like Aman into their lives, perhaps making Yash feel less special and more like this is how Aarti is with everyone. 

 
 
 
Just felt like jumping in for a second...
 
@bold: I think this is right on the target, Samana! If those pictures are anything to go by, I'd say that Yash could have perceived Aman as being "more special" to Aarti because of her comfort levels with him (which of course stem from their long, close relationship as friends). Aarti is friendly and accepting by nature, so if Yash feels a bit alienated by the sudden appearance of Aman and the realization that Aarti has a relationship that is one-upping her relationship with Yash, in a way, I wouldn't blame him. Plus, it took Yash and Aarti a while to get to the sort of comfort that they achieved in Mumbai, so the sudden appearance of someone like Aman, who has shared that open, friendly rapport with Aarti since long before Yash ever married her, might have shaken him a bit.
 
Okay, that was a whole bunch of talking in circles...LOL I hope I made sense somewhere.

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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 1:37pm | IP Logged
@Borna: I loved that dialogue of Aman's about Yash being a human being! That is something that Aarti needs to be reminded of from time to time and unfortunately she didn't have anyone to contradict her worshipful stance thus far. Everyone thinks Yash is some sort of god/miraculous divinity and so Aarti just hopped on the boat. But I am so, SO glad that Aman is here to make her understand that Yash is a human and all humans, no matter how "suljha hua" have insecurities and petty thoughts when they are in love, and I can only imagine more so when their love entails such gross complications as Yash's does for Aarti.

@Jyo: Awesome take! I completely agree with you about Aarti's POV. She is thinking specifically of the things that can make Yash angry, and hence everything related to Arpita. Not once does it cross her mind that something she did, independent of Arpita's shadow could cause him to go ballistic the way he did. In all this, I am very glad Aman is here with a clear head and a heart full for Aarti. He is also a quick action taker which I like, as well as the fact that a confrontation with Vidhi will happen almost immediately. The focus will be on solving the issue rather than protracting it, or at least I hope so.

From the spoiler that Aman won't succeed in solving the differences between Aarti and Yash this week, I am suspecting that this 3am thing is not the reason behind Yash's anger. Whenever Aarti has thought something was the reason, she has been wrong, so I think this might go the same way. Aman might explain to Yash or one of the brothers and then Yash won't even care. I think it has something to do with Aarti alone. 

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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 1:39pm | IP Logged
@Samana, coming at 3:00 is not right by any standards, but then why he didn't ask for reason and most important thing is, did he give her chance to explain?
 
He stormed out of Mumbai next morning, and if she was stuck inncocently in rain and when she came back and saw him sleeping, is she wrong? It seems like he was pretending he was sleeping and all seem OK to her.
 
And if not then Aarti is wrong, then we will attack her to no end. First forgetting fire and now thisConfused, just don;t know how we would justify her character thenDisapprove
 
 
@Jyoti, nice observation with the cap. Someone was talking those caps and was aware of their friendship, so why Bhanwari made it as if he was other guyOuch

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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 1:40pm | IP Logged
@Borna : Even I m happy to see Pankaj and Vidhi issue is finally brought again in the picture .. It was good to see Pankaj finally pouring his heart out about how he wants Vidhi to give him some time .. awww Embarrassed
 
And yes Aman is certainly bringing a man's angle here .. Yash's possessiveness or jealousy once he is in love something which Aarti will never know unless she is made aware of it .. Embarrassed...I think Aman guessed it from Yash's reaction only that Mumbai night when they came home late but Aarti could not guess it since she has already taken for granted that Yash can never love her , so she has stopped thinking about all those things from a twisted angle LOLEmbarrassed...
 
I m really looking forward to a heated Yash-Aarti and Aman confrontation tomorrow .. Tongue
 
 
@Nina : Thats a good point about Aarti's jealousy seeing the lipstick mark on his shirt  and today Yash's possessiveness seeing her with some other guy Embarrassed.. I remember Aarti too was equally restless when she saw that lipstick mark on Yash's shirt but she kept her trust on him and went with the flow whereas Yash too is going restless and it seems he does hv trust issues somewhere ,reason why rather than trusting Aarti here , he starts doubting her Ouch... Somewhere CVs r trying to show a basic difference between a man's trust and a women's trust mayb Confused

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