As a normal viewer, I have never understood Ashu's character either as Dr. A or as Mr. A. Honestly, Sujatha Raoji's analysis is the base(as well as building
) for me to get convinced with Ashu's behavior. And even after having been given all data of his complex psyche, I cant understand, why cant he embrace happiness now, why live in the haunted past and spoil today's happiness, why keep cribbing over things when he has got everything at its best?
As a normal viewer, the whole concept of Ashu-Mallu friendship is the biggest blunder for me. Mallika's sins are "F'ship ke naam per kala dhabba" when I look at it as a normal viewer. Forum posts hv helped me redefine the normal notions of "F'ship' that I had been holding tlll then.
Nidhi was never serious about her Daktari. Suddenly unko pata nahi, kaisa keeda kat gaya, tabse she is having only 1 agenda: Main kaam karna chahti hoon, achchi dr. banna chahti hoon. As a normal viewer, I couldnt think much about this evolution except her need to be financially self-sufficient and career-wise independent.
The whole idea of Ashu's paternal instincts - suddenly arisen is rendering me flummoxed. One fine day, on Rangie's wedding, Ashu's fatherhood desire, all of a sudden got kindled
Before marriage, didnt he realize that baby issue will be there after marriage, given their age-gap. He is planning ahead, thinking for future kinda person, so, how come he forget such an imp. issue? If I had not been on forum, I never would hv known his need to hv his own family given his orphanhood. His own flesh & blood legacy thought would never hv crept in my mind. I would hv thought it to be related to his advancing age only.
The icing on the cake like confusion: as a normal viewer, I can never ever tolerate Ashu supporting mallu, preggy or not -- not just even for a second. Since, directly he couldnt agree his wife for baby, so, he has found other ways... soothing his fathrhood pangs with Mallu's child under the name of insaniyat... ridiculous and disgusting.
If I had not been on forum, I could never hv understood that given Ashu's complex, layered personality, its not wrong for him to practice "pretend fatherhood"
When I heard mallu saying to Maxi about Ashu "I like him too". As a normal viewer, I cannot believe that Mallu has changed and now she isnt obsessed with Ashu. Forum mein padha, KPji ka announcement about Mallu "hriday-parivartan", tab jake pata chala...
In the current MU track, as a normal viewer , frankly understood nothing. Forum made me understand the grave reasons.
Now, few things for which answers aren't yet revealed on our forum. So, I am left with no choice but to remain a normal viewer:
1> As a normal viewer, I do not understand that when Mallika is a qualified doctor, then why cant she be self-supporting? 35 yr.s isnt that big an age for preg. woman, that with the help of a maid, she cant work. If she can go to market in rickshaw, why cant to a workplace?
2> When she herself knows about her condition and is a doctor herself, then why doesnt she heed another doc--her OB/GYN? Why she doesnt rest properly and eat healthy and do good karma? Moreover, why cant she keep Maxi by her side, when she has to get up? That way, she could have survived her falling on the bare floor.
3> Here in US, I see many women bearing child as long as they dont come to their menopause, some women, get child even after that with HRT. At, 35 yr.s many women have their 1st or 3rd or 4th kid and they deliver a healthy baby with healthy preg. span. Also, my knowledge states, late preg. is more vulnerable in later stages - mostly with preg. induced diabetes and all that. Then, I really cant understand why Mallu's preg. is hyped as late-age @35 and complicated one? That too in its initial stage?
4> When in prev. Mallutrack, Ashu slapped Mallu and asked to leave from there forever, he and BB had arranged for her job as a resident dr. at a hospital in Lucknow . means, she had her job+resi. quarter both. But, upon revelation of her preg., it also got revealed that Mallu had left that job just within 4 days. Why? Didnt she need money & safe abode?
5> When fallen on floor, Mallu bade Maxi to call the hospital. But, Maxi called Ashu instead. Why?