Originally posted by: CDlove
My response is in red
Why khushi is always considered as scapegoat or doormat in forum????
Agreed that Arnav gave her lot of pain but tell me was he happy in doing that??? It is always said he forcefully married.
Who asked him to marry her forcefully? No one and I stress, absolutely no one has the right to change another one's life and take life altering decisions just becuase he 'thought' she was at fault. So what he wasn't happy? he should be hitting his head on the rocks for his ill judgement and lose of rational thinking.
If khushi wud hv told him the truth of shyam will still be the same scenario. Why khushi hasn't told Arnav the real face of shyam????
She wanted to keep Anjali's married life intact! She wanted to save another woman's life and home.
The answer is she was sacrificing. Who asked her to sacrifice????
No she wasn't! She went to tell her the truth but changed her decision when she saw how emotionally unstable Anjali was! She didnt tell it to her because she was scared she would loose her head!
Why was Arnav forced for 6 mnths contract marriage??? Bcoz he didn't knew nethg before that night and to save his di and the baby he had to forcefully marry khushi otherwise shyam was upto killing Anjali. If u remember "ab humare beech sirf ek rukawat hai, Rani Sahiba".
Excuse me? And that was the only option to save his sister? He couldn't have asked her about what he saw before dragging her to a run down temple? I repeat, he had no right to sacrifice Khushi for the sake of his sister and her child (how much wrong he thought khushi was)
Then telling her to sleep at poolside. Who wants to sleep with the person who beteayed his love and was in affair with di's husband????
So banishing her to the winter night was the right thing to do? She might have an affair with his BIL but that doesn't mean you deprive her of the basic human needs. She might have been wrong in his eyes but that is no reason for exerting cruelty. Even criminals in prisons get better facilities than that. It was absolutedly unacceptable
Khushi was in pain...correct. But was Arnav happy???? Do u all remember the restlessness which Arnav went through.
haha and we are suppose to feel sad for ASR because he wasn't happy? bechara ASR! he wasn't happy leaving a woman out in the cold dark night! How very magnonimous of him!
They are two different characters and was reacting in accordance with their characters. If u can't imagine khushi to react like ASR so even ASR cannot be turned as Khushi.
Khushi has done swami act, GH act, killing him with knife...there are many which I can also write here to increase the number but that's not my intention.
Increase what number? Not clear what you are trying to prove here but if you are trying to compare these silly antics with what ASR had done to her, you are on a loosing battle.
Arnav has done so many thgs to say her sorry. Helped her evrytime even say sorry from heart but still khushi a scapegoat, a doormat. Is this the way u fans maintain the dignity of a fiction character whom u all love so much???
who maintained what? how can us fans do anything about khuhsi's dignity? It's upto the writers to do whaterver they please. I might remind you, none of us like or support her self sacrificing nature and we want a Khushi who stands up for herself. But that;s how her character is and we wont be hating her for it becuase there are many things positive about her that would negate that effect.
I am not taking nebody's side. I love the leads from the core of my heart. I will always watch IPKKND even if this forum has zero members.
Enough of this scapegoat, doormat, redemption thg. The show has moved ahead with the next phase of relationship of love - understanding n standing together in all thick n thins. We better come out of our logical stagnancy and njoy their new love.
what stagnancy? We ask for a logical cause of events. We need a man who has owed up for his mistakes and ask for a heartfelt apology. If that wasn't delievered according to our satisfaction, we will complain. No one can stop us.
P.S - Sometime this thg irritates so much that I feel like hating khushi, I am afraid soon I will be if this thg won't stop.
No comments on this line since it seem to be the case anyway
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