Posted: 13 August 2012 at 8:33pm | IP Logged
I'm back with another opinionated post!
The topic of concern is what Toasty is compelling the Chaturvedis to do...
Is it right of her to ask them to do all these things?
Firstly she's faking her death, which by its own is already unnecessary, but on top of that, she still wants them to celebrate her death?
I think she should respect their feelings!
Don't mind me, I'm a huge fan of this show... But I don't like what they are showing..
It's true that you shouldn't cry too much for someone's death because their soul will be troubled by your grief (at least that's what we believe), but you should mourn for their death otherwise you can never get yourself rid of that pain and sorrow
In this situation, imagine how Tej must be feeling!
He loves Toasty, and Toasty knows this... Therefore here I feel as if she is taking advantage of it, with good intentions, but still!
By saying that it'll make her happy if they celebrate her death, she knows the Chaturvedis won't decline going to the movies/ restaurant and being happy
Already they are in such distress, on top of that now they can't even cry for her
If they cry, they'll now keep thinking that Toasty is unhappy! Toasty's happiness is important, but you can't just celebrate the loss of someone who is so close to you!
I used to love watching this show for it's realistic dimension to it...
But I'm losing my connection and attachment to its story
I personally have experienced the loss of someone very close to my heart...
But I was encouraged to cry for their loss!
Only once you get rid of that grief from your mind can you truly reminisce their memories and relive the good times, therefore only remembering happy moments rather than feeling sad
I'm talking about my grandma... And let me tell you, I cried so much
But now when I think about her, it brings a smile to my face because I remember her warm hugs and kisses!
I just don't think Toasty is particularly right in what she's doing
The Chaturvedis will move on in life... Life never stops for anyone, and that is true
But she shouldn't take it in her hands to ensure that...
This is a long post I know... But I just wanted to share what I thought...
Hopefully, unlike in my last post, more people comment
I'd love to hear from you and hear of what you think about this!
Do you think it's right of Toasty to ask of this from the Chaturvedi parivaar?