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Posted: 29 October 2004 at 11:55pm | IP Logged

First of all point taken abt the warning. Now some clarifications required:

1. Is it ok for one 'coolbie' to call a 'newbie' a despo cuz she posted 4 messages? Instead of taking part in the discussion started this person started personal attacks. Why was he not reined in? Becuz he is an older member? Or becuz he posts 'funny' updates? Or becuz he is a fan for Purab Mehra(most mods I have seen till now are his fans too). Mind u it wasnt me who first started personally attacking people. So why wasnt this person warned against? Strangely even now this person has got a 'promotion' while I get a warning and a ban threat. So fair!

2. But when I make a comment on someone why am I instantly attacked as trying to spoil the 'peace' of this place? Is 'peace' in india-forums site equivalent to one-sided discussions? Are the older lot here so intolerant of new views that new views are equated w/ war mongering.

I hope I get a reply on this post from the moderators (not members). Esp the owner and this post isnt deleted.

 

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Posted: 30 October 2004 at 12:40am | IP Logged
Kshreya...if u want only the moderators to respond to this post, why not send them a PM instead.....
Meenakshii Groupbie
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Posted: 30 October 2004 at 1:04am | IP Logged

shreya, just saw this message of yours at the JP group. cld u plz walk the talk and stop causing trouble here first...

 

yr message at JP:

From:  "kshreya2002" <kshreya2002@y...>
Date:  Sat Oct 30, 2004  12:01 pm
Subject:  Imp note to the moderators!


I have made the membership to this group as 'restricted' ie any new member will need approval from moderators b4 they can join. this is to help keep out unwanted members who just come here to create
trouble. There is no effort required for this on our part. we just have to check the pending members link.

 

 



Edited by Meenakshii - 30 October 2004 at 1:07am
radha_18 Senior Member
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Posted: 30 October 2004 at 1:11am | IP Logged
Shreya is the mod of JP. She can do whatever she wants to in that grp. Why bring JP in this discussion? and another thing, exactly how is Shreya creating trouble...
hydroxide00 Newbie
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Posted: 30 October 2004 at 1:54am | IP Logged
first of all...i think this fight is on a stupid topic...cum on ppl cant u be sporty enough n ignore da comments jammy makes on armaan cum on take it light heartedly..even i am an armaan fan..this doesnt mean i cant laugh at him..n neways armaan will b da winner in da end so y do v bother in da end v will b da one laughin at purab n purab fans...so lets take sum jokes rite now....n ya callin a person despo..well i dunno wat 2 say coz wen i first came here even i personal attacked a lot of ppl(i've changed now)n they banned me..but they dint ban tht female who called deadly despo..huh talk bout injustice...
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Posted: 30 October 2004 at 3:45am | IP Logged

Originally posted by kshreya2002

Is it ok for one 'coolbie' to call a 'newbie' a despo cuz she posted 4 messages?

NO, it is NOT ok...hence Jammy was the first person to be given a warning in my first post directed to everyone involved in the argument. You were given extra warning because in spite of 3 moderators putting up messages NOT to retaliate to personal attacks, you chose to ignore the message and retaliated anyway! Mind you, he was quiet after the warning and did not continue.

Originally posted by

Strangely even now this person has got a 'promotion' while I get a warning and a ban threat. So fair!

This decision had been already taken by the entire moderator board before these arguments took place. Also, we do not ban anyone unless we are forced to. Even ppl who were previously banned have been welcomed back and are settling down nicely.

Shreya, Please calm down and continue with the discussions. All views are welcome as long as they are not personal attacks towards other members or are graphic in nature. 

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Posted: 30 October 2004 at 3:54am | IP Logged

Originally posted by hydroxide00

first of all...i think this fight is on a stupid topic...cum on ppl cant u be sporty enough n ignore da comments jammy makes on armaan cum on take it light heartedly..even i am an armaan fan..this doesnt mean i cant laugh at him..n neways armaan will b da winner in da end so y do v bother in da end v will b da one laughin at purab n purab fans...so lets take sum jokes rite now....n ya callin a person despo..well i dunno wat 2 say coz wen i first came here even i personal attacked a lot of ppl(i've changed now)n they banned me..but they dint ban tht female who called deadly despo..huh talk bout injustice...

Hydro you got your facts wrong big time. And as for being banned. You were banned when you kept repeating your behaviour. Yu made lots of personal attack on lot of different people !!!

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Posted: 30 October 2004 at 5:26am | IP Logged

Originally posted by kshreya2002

1. Is it ok for one 'coolbie' to call a 'newbie' a despo cuz she posted 4 messages? Instead of taking part in the discussion started this person started personal attacks. Why was he not reined in? Becuz he is an older member? Or becuz he posts 'funny' updates? Or becuz he is a fan for Purab Mehra(most mods I have seen till now are his fans too). Mind u it wasnt me who first started personally attacking people. So why wasnt this person warned against? Strangely even now this person has got a 'promotion' while I get a warning and a ban threat. So fair!

As Mystica said we do not support name calling or any personal attack of any kind. As of posting more messages is no offence just make sure you do not post the same thing on 2 different threads as one might be deleted by the moderator to keep each thread unique.

Well Jammy has been made Coolbie for his involvement with the forum and regularity of the Updates he provides and he have already been served a warning for the post he made against you. Please take it as 2 different events.

India-Forums might have got good amount of people Purab but do not forget we also got some heavyweight Armaan fans too like Minnie, Hydroxide, Jodi, Heyeon and me too LOL so you be rest assured that till we are in some healthy discussion and give good reasoning for what ever we say on the forum it would be welcomed by all.

Originally posted by kshreya2002

2. But when I make a comment on someone why am I instantly attacked as trying to spoil the 'peace' of this place? Is 'peace' in india-forums site equivalent to one-sided discussions? Are the older lot here so intolerant of new views that new views are equated w/ war mongering.

As Mystica said:

Shreya, Please calm down and continue with the discussions. All views are welcome as long as they are not personal attacks towards other members or are graphic in nature. 

So lets start afresh ... and enjoy!

Cheers,
Vijay

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