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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 12:59pm | IP Logged
Edit: LOL I thought I said it but looks like i did not...I agree khushi should imp .


For a minute I am going to ignore Anjali and Arnav history and write my reply...

Ok I see a lot of people saying sibblings and spouse are equally important etc. Ok in emotional terms tat is true.  But realistically if you look at it. After a certain age your spouse becomes more important. See as we grow up responsibilities change ultimately u do not live with your siblings, ur spouse is the one who is going to face the thick and thin with you. Whatever happens in our lives the first and the maximum impact will be on the spouse. Be it financial problems we face, physical problems or even emotional issues as ultimately end of the day u do share ur most private space with your spouse daily.

Now coming to Arnav and Anjali. Anjali is most imp to Arnav but is Arnav getting equal imp in Anjalis life. No, she is giving imp to her husband and she is not trusting her brother. A brother who has gone to great lengths for her. So why should we not expect Arnav to give the same imp to Khushi.Ultimately in dealing with shyam who helped him it was not his sister it was his wife. Who know tomorrow Anjali may leave the house with her husband who will remain to support him then, his wife.

My answer is just based on realistic expectations, no matter wat after a point ur spouse is the only one who can truly be there for u... as parents get old we share our happiness with them but  we dont even share half our concerns so as not to worry them in old age...it is the spouse then on whom we lean.


Edited by memyselfandrshi - 10 August 2012 at 1:54pm

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 1:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Harshitha

Originally posted by vellainsaan

Originally posted by ..Kirann..

I was gunna point this out. He still says she is the most important. I have a strong feeling, we will get rift between bro-sis and that's when he will set his priorities right!

& People no one is comparing their love. It's about the importance. No one's asking him to forget his DI but constantly chanting "DI is the most important" is irritating and shows what importance Khushi holds in his life. NO girls don't forget their families when they get married but they don't keep chanting their families importance either. If Khushi starts chanting her parents' in her in laws, ASR won't think twice before blasting her off. 

@bold : THIS. I'm not getting into who is more important in ASR's life debate but IF Khushi had a brother and God forbids she even uttered a word of praise about him over ASR, she would've been blasted.
Garima told Khushi that she should go back to RM, bcuz a bahu shouldn't stay at parent's place for this long... errmm what about Anjali? She seems to be living with her brother for more than a year now.. 
Dadi will kill Khushi if she stays in her maayka but she wants Damaadji as ghar jamaai? 
A guy must think of wife and sister equally but a girl should always give priority to her husband. Kya bakwaas hai yeh? Confused

Hypocrisy. Sigh!

Sorry it came out as rant Ouch

dadi, anjali & ASR all 3 have double standards big time


Dadi proved she is ASR and Anjali ki dadi in hypocrisy LOL
She happily blamed Arnav's mom - she was a weak woman - and WHAT is Dadi herself??? She ran off leaving 2 kids alone to survive on their own just after they lost both their parents? Such a strong woman.. nahi?
Baat karti hain... Dead

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 1:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by memyselfandrshi

For a minute I am going to ignore Anjali and Arnav history and write my reply...

Ok I see a lot of people saying sibblings and spouse are equally important etc. Ok in emotional terms tat is true.  But realistically if you look at it. After a certain age your spouse becomes more important. See as we grow up responsibilities change ultimately u do not live with your siblings, ur spouse is the one who is going to face the thick and thin with you. Whatever happens in our lives the first and the maximum impact will be on the spouse. Be it financial problems we face, physical problems or even emotional issues as ultimately end of the day u do share ur most private space with your spouse daily.

Now coming to Arnav and Anjali. Anjali is most imp to Arnav but is Arnav getting equal imp in Anjalis life. No, she is giving imp to her husband and she is not trusting her brother. A brother who has gone to great lengths for her. So why should we not expect Arnav to give the same imp to Khushi.Ultimately in dealing with shyam who helped him it was not his sister it was his wife. Who know tomorrow Anjali may leave the house with her husband who will remain to support him then, his wife.

My answer is just based on realistic expectations, no matter wat after a point ur spouse is the only one who can truly be there for u... as parents get old we share our happiness with them but  we dont even share half our concerns so as not to worry them in old age...it is the spouse then on whom we lean.

lovely response, i had similar thoughts but you put it so nicely

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 1:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Harshitha

i agree with u
Anjali is a selfish sis i have ever seen
ASR needs to change this attitude soon

i feel so bad for Khushi

in real life this logic doesnt work, it leads to divorces very soon
Khushi is being portrayed like a dummy doll, anjali some bimaar gudiya & ASR like the only messed up person in life

Exactly in real life in someone's hubby keeps chanting like this it leads to divorce. No woman in her right mind would love a man unconditionally IF the same man keeps saying that DI is the most imp person in my life.
If Arnav is there with Anji all her life, so did Anji. Not only that Arnav protects her financially as well but she never ever declared her love for Chhote openly. She never said that he is most imp to her.
Arnav leads a hard reality check soon and suffer otherwise he would never learn.
Khushi needs to run away from this mental asylum ASAP and let Arnav stay with the most imp person in his life.

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 1:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by vellainsaan

Originally posted by Harshitha

Originally posted by vellainsaan

Originally posted by ..Kirann..

I was gunna point this out. He still says she is the most important. I have a strong feeling, we will get rift between bro-sis and that's when he will set his priorities right!

& People no one is comparing their love. It's about the importance. No one's asking him to forget his DI but constantly chanting "DI is the most important" is irritating and shows what importance Khushi holds in his life. NO girls don't forget their families when they get married but they don't keep chanting their families importance either. If Khushi starts chanting her parents' in her in laws, ASR won't think twice before blasting her off. 

@bold : THIS. I'm not getting into who is more important in ASR's life debate but IF Khushi had a brother and God forbids she even uttered a word of praise about him over ASR, she would've been blasted.
Garima told Khushi that she should go back to RM, bcuz a bahu shouldn't stay at parent's place for this long... errmm what about Anjali? She seems to be living with her brother for more than a year now.. 
Dadi will kill Khushi if she stays in her maayka but she wants Damaadji as ghar jamaai? 
A guy must think of wife and sister equally but a girl should always give priority to her husband. Kya bakwaas hai yeh? Confused

Hypocrisy. Sigh!

Sorry it came out as rant Ouch

dadi, anjali & ASR all 3 have double standards big time


Dadi proved she is ASR and Anjali ki dadi in hypocrisy LOL
She happily blamed Arnav's mom - she was a weak woman - and WHAT is Dadi herself??? She ran off leaving 2 kids alone to survive on their own just after they lost both their parents? Such a strong woman.. nahi?
Baat karti hain... Dead

this is why i have no respect for dadi, anjali respect i dont feel for this character any more
even im a sis but not like the way she is being portrayed sheesh

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 1:07pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -CoolChick-

Originally posted by devipalli

i think there should be no comparison between sibling and life partner relationship.As a sister she is the most imp and as a love khushi is the most imp for him...this is my opinion...Smile


i second u...Smile

even though i do feel very irritated by his constant chanting of diii...diii...but actually one cant draw any comparison...when the whole Raizada family is concerned...Anjali comes first...n when love comes...his Khushi comes first. That's my take.Smile


sometimes i feel...poor Arnav is just sandwiched between his sister n love...how he balances off both together without any of them feeling left out will surely be a TEST for him..Smile
That's what this drama is about!

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 1:09pm | IP Logged
No point in comparing a siblings bond with that of a couple!!

With that said , a man has many roles to play just like any woman.. A man is a husband, yes, but he is also a son, a brother, an uncle, a father and if he fails to manages all his relations- that man deserves no respect at all!!

Arnav has NOT done right as a husband but one cant deny that he is getting there!

Today he was talking about Di, yesterday he was siding khushi- a perfect balance!


Edited by Jameelah52 - 10 August 2012 at 1:12pm

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 1:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by trina2010

[QUOTE=Arshi-licious01] Khushi and Anjali are in different positions' One is his sister and one his wife' In their own respective positions, each one is equally important' But Khushi is stronger and knows her importance in his life so she does not needed to be repeatedly reminded'
It does not matter whether she is stronger or not. After what she went through for this man she should be his TOP PRIORITY that's it. He should constantly remind her the same whether she needs it or not.
[/QOTE]
I agree. Although the loves are of different types.

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