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Di is still MOST IMPORTANT? (Page 10)

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 1:46pm | IP Logged
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Arnav still says that Di is the MOST IMP person in his life. Khushi has no problem with that. She is ready to spend her life as the second lead. I mean is it possible for any girl to accept that she is and will be the second most important person in someones life? I mean in general.
Now IF Di is most important next her kids would be important too right? I mean They are after all Arnavs Dis kids so second lead is not actually second lead here. It depends on how many kids Di choose to have in her life. 
I feel this kind of persons should never fall in love or get married in REAL life. They should just sacrifice their life for their loved ones and stay single .Because that way they can be devoted to their relative without having any burden of their own family.
I am not against Arnav but unless or untill he gets his priorities straight I DONT HAVE MUCH RESPEST FOR HIM YET.
A mans first priority should always be his wife and later his kids. 

like others said..Khushi is way stronger than Anjali..plus Khushi knows Anjali and Arnav are brother and sister...so obviously they will not share physical and sexual relationship like Arnav do with Khushi...so as long as Arnav doesn't share any relationship sexually, Khushi is happy...and please stop comparing relationships...it would be another story if it would be lavanya instead...but since it's Anjali..a sister who took care of him from very young age like a mother...can't compare the relationship with wife...in fact Khushi would fight with Arnav if he goes against his Di...I mean she would tell Aranv that he is not doing right by distancing himself from Anjali...many pleple even assume whether Arnav-Khushi are half sister- brother...seriously..they should stop spoily relationship...both..Arnav-Anjali and Arnav-Khushi are two different with different relationship...I highly prefer not to compare and give its receptive value to both relationship and also hope others do as well...

Just because Khushi is understanding and stronger she doesn't deserve importance. Even Khushi has risked her life for him and rescued him from kidnapping. If not for Khushi he would've been dead by now. Doesn't she deserve first priority? Who wants him to distance from Anjali or not take care of her? The problem is we don't needa hear every single day about his Di's importance. Do we hear the same thing about Khushi? NO! Then why should he keep chanting about his Di? Don't his actions speak louder?

you are not understanding the situation here...Arnav told Dadi today that Di is important because they were arguing regarding Shyam's matter...so when dadi told him that he is wrong and Shyam is right like his dad, he said that no, Di is important and whoever hurts her..he can't let her to get hurt or something...so here they were talking about Anjali-Shyam and his mom-dad..and if he would have said Khushi and Anjali are important, do you think Dadi would be like oh okay...dude she would be more irk...she hates Khushi nyways..and didn't you see how he stood up for Khushi yesterday? He clearly and loudly said that Khushi is his wife and she can do anything anytime...this means he has already given her importance in his life even before he slapped Shyam saying he (Shyam) has hurt two important people in his life...so, Arnav said di is important in front of his Dadi as he told her about Shyam...and anyways he hasn't said about Anjali being important in his life everyday nowdays..as he is busy wooing and flirting his wife...he has really balanced his relationship with both Khushi and Anjali...on the day of Raksha bandhan, he made both Anjali and Khushi happy...by wearing Payjama and gifting Khushi Channa and all...the important, he shared his past, about his mom to Khushi...now what you think...till now he has not opened up to anyone other than Anjali about his parents, but he did to Khushi..what does this means?? meaning, Khushi is too important in his life...yeah his ways of expressing is different, but Khushi understand and that is why she had accepted Arnav hugging him after getting the pearl neck less...yeah that's the another thing, that Khushi has to be treated equally, but not from only Arnav, but from all other Raizadas! I hope you are getting What I am saying...

I think you are not getting my point. Yes nowadays he's giving Khushi that importance and Anjali is getting her importance. Both are getting their importance then what's up with the constant reminder of one's importance only? Yesterday and day before yesterday he was defending Khushi as well, why couldn't he talk about Khushi's importance just like he was talking about Anjali's importance?

but dear today when he said that it was about Anjali -Shyam and his parents and not Khushi...why would he put Khushi in between all...I mean she was no where there in that discussion...and now days...I don't think he is consent reminding of only once importance...when it comes to Anjali, he only talks about Anjali and when it comes to Khushi he does the same thing...he even defended Khushi in front of Anjali..didn't he...then, what's the point of putting Khushi in between in all these...

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I respectfully wanna say this that I DISAGREE! Just because Anjali (his sister) is most important to him doesn't mean Khushi isn't. Everything is not about competition. People should just accept others the way they are and this is the way Arnav is. He has been through a traumatic experience in his life with both his parents committing suicides and him having only his Di with him at that time. It is natural for him to develop such strong feelings for his only remaining/ alive sibling/ member of the immediate family.

There is nothing wrong for Anjali being the most important person in Arnav's life. It just shows how in depth and mature his character really is. Ek larki pay marnay wali laakhon aashiq mil jaayen gay: Romeo, Majnu, Farhaad, Ranjha etc... but have you ever seen brothers like that? I think that's very unique to Arnav.

As far as Khushi is concerned. I find that the place that she has in Arnav's life in terms of being a wife/ her proximity to him/ the way he showers his love on her in his own style, I don't see him doing that with any other female. Not even Lavanya. Khushi has her own importance in his life which is unmatched by any other girl. He can't love another girl in the way he loves Khushi (gal and guy type of love). He is a rich businessman and stays surrounded with beautiful women but the feeling that she evokes in him can't be found in him being with any other girl.

After marriage only wife+ kids shouldn't be most important for a guy, but a guy who creates a balance between his own family (parents, siblings, relatives) and his wife+kids is the really MAN.


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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 1:51pm | IP Logged
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@Ankita: Nothing in the show is without purpose. Everything gets two-three readings at least before getting enacted by the actors. True she cannot get importance over night but after what she has been through and she almost gave her life for him, does she not deserve importance? From last few days when he was defending Khushi in front of dadi that dialogue would've been added there as well, No? Something like Khushi is my wife and she's the most important or atleast important in my life and where she cannot come I don't think I'm needed there. Would that hurt? Today when he was talking about Anjali he didn't take a second to remind us and dadi about her importance. So comparison obviously kicks in especially one is giving everything for him and the other one is not giving a damn about him and is busy playing her hide&seek game!

All I mean is that I don't think Khushi was involved in that scene, not literally but even the situation being discussed didn't have her involved at that moment, so he probably couldn't mention Khushi there. As far as Anjali goes she IS a very important part of his life, also because he takes her as his mother. And till now he has no reason to think that Di can be any less important than she has always been for him.

I love Khushi as much and want to see her getting her due respect and dignity but with all due respect to others I definitely feel for Anjali too, because if the past affected Arnav it has affected Anjali too..

Anyways my opinion is nothing short of what yours is, I just don't feel the love between two siblings and couple can be compared. 

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I think you are not getting my point. Yes nowadays he's giving Khushi that importance and Anjali is getting her importance. Both are getting their importance then what's up with the constant reminder of one's importance only? Yesterday and day before yesterday he was defending Khushi as well, why couldn't he talk about Khushi's importance just like he was talking about Anjali's importance?

but dear today when he said that it was about Anjali -Shyam and his parents and not Khushi...why would he put Khushi in between all...I mean she was no where there in that discussion...and now days...I don't think he is consent reminding of only once importance...when it comes to Anjali, he only talks about Anjali and when it comes to Khushi he does the same thing...he even defended Khushi in front of Anjali..didn't he...then, what's the point of putting Khushi in between in all these...

Did I say he needed to mention Khushi today? NO! I meant either he should've said that same thing Khushi when he was defending Khushi or today he shouldn't have mentioned that line while talking about Anjali!

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@Ankita: Nothing in the show is without purpose. Everything gets two-three readings at least before getting enacted by the actors. True she cannot get importance over night but after what she has been through and she almost gave her life for him, does she not deserve importance? From last few days when he was defending Khushi in front of dadi that dialogue would've been added there as well, No? Something like Khushi is my wife and she's the most important or atleast important in my life and where she cannot come I don't think I'm needed there. Would that hurt? Today when he was talking about Anjali he didn't take a second to remind us and dadi about her importance. So comparison obviously kicks in especially one is giving everything for him and the other one is not giving a damn about him and is busy playing her hide&seek game!

All I mean is that I don't think Khushi was involved in that scene, not literally but even the situation being discussed didn't have her involved at that moment, so he probably couldn't mention Khushi there. As far as Anjali goes she IS a very important part of his life, also because he takes her as his mother. And till now he has no reason to think that Di can be any less important than she has always been for him.

I love Khushi as much and want to see her getting her due respect and dignity but with all due respect to others I definitely feel for Anjali too, because if the past affected Arnav it has affected Anjali too..

Anyways my opinion is nothing short of what yours is, I just don't feel the love between two siblings and couple can be compared. 

I didn't say he needed to mention KHushi today. I'm saying same thing could have been added about Khushi yesterday or day before yesterday  while he was defending her. Obviously it was about Anjali today so it was about her only & I didn't want Khushi's  mention either. That line about being important could've been avoided or the same line could've been added about KHushi too when yesterday he was defending Khushi!

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Also I want to add that Arnav is not a VOCAL lover. He shows his love and his hate, his intensity and his passion only through his actions. He is not gonna give a bhashan or speak words like "Khushi is very important to me". His actions like believing Khushi over Shyam PROVED that.

So plzz try to read into his actions to understand him. Arnav Singh Raizada does not need words to describe him or his feelings.

Plus Anjali I believe is very very damaged from within and only uses religion to hide her insecurities and her inner damage. She needs psychiatric help as she is refusing to look at reality/ true face of her husband and wants to live in her PERFECT fantasy world. I won't blame her cause I just can't blame a victim/ sick person.


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I think you are not getting my point. Yes nowadays he's giving Khushi that importance and Anjali is getting her importance. Both are getting their importance then what's up with the constant reminder of one's importance only? Yesterday and day before yesterday he was defending Khushi as well, why couldn't he talk about Khushi's importance just like he was talking about Anjali's importance?

but dear today when he said that it was about Anjali -Shyam and his parents and not Khushi...why would he put Khushi in between all...I mean she was no where there in that discussion...and now days...I don't think he is consent reminding of only once importance...when it comes to Anjali, he only talks about Anjali and when it comes to Khushi he does the same thing...he even defended Khushi in front of Anjali..didn't he...then, what's the point of putting Khushi in between in all these...

Did I say he needed to mention Khushi today? NO! I meant either he should've said that same thing Khushi when he was defending Khushi or today he shouldn't have mentioned that line while talking about Anjali!

but dear like I said before..his ways of expressing with Anjali and Khushi are different...like how he confessed his feeling for Khushi to Anjali..he said it openly with his heart, but when it comes to Khushi, he cannot express it..he said I Love you on the phone..that's it...further he cannot...even when she left RM he did all the drama to bring her back, but didn't say or expressed his feelings apart from asking her whether it is all easy for her to end the marriage...so what he didn't said the same thing to Khushi when he was defending her..it same thing meant for him as he is not so good with expressing it when it comes to Khushi...and you know what..I can't explain you further if you can't understand...so just read this...I hope you can understand that...

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