Originally posted by -Mais-
Am I the only one who isnt that much pissed off at
Ranveer's words last night? Shocked, yes. Angry, not that much.- No.."Main hu na"No kidding,I'm not pissed
to be clear, I hated the way Panchi's tears fell without warning. The
girl was hurt very much! Actually the scene didnt play out the way I
thought it would. When Panchi was in the corridor saying that Ranveer
will only take her to the party, I was impressed at her level of
confidence. The girls' with her were almost rolling their eyes at her
confidence. But she didnt care like she was in her own little happy
world.- Ditto! That was how they showed it..Panchi was (Don't kill
me) if Ranveer takes her for grated,she too for a moment was doing the
same.. anyway this is how friendship is waise bhi..that we can take our
friends for granted,then they can hurt us,we can get angry & then
Then, when she saw Ranveer with that girl flirting
away, she was just waiting for him to be over. The girl said that
comment of not wanting to compete with anyone for him, specially Panchi
who is always around him. That time, my mind was with Panchi. I honestly
thought that Ranveer would say something like yeah, you are you but
Panchi is special or something like that. And he replied with the 'I
love when girls compete for me' kinda statement. That only made me
surer. But that didnt happen.
The girl went on to somhow insult
Panchi and Ranveer rolled his eyes. Panchi's confidence was admiring
when she was worried that Ranveer might grow extra protective here and
insult the girl. But he didnt. He just called Panchi his "fav teddy
bear" and flat out said that he didnt want to go to a party like this
And that, I guess, is the thing which is agressing everyone.
would like to point out something here. Ranveer was and still is
protective of Panchi. His moti. He gets all angry when anyway says
anything that would hurt Panchi. To him the word synonym to "fat" is the
major thing that would hurt Panchi. Why is that? I believe that he has
been with her since childhood and comments like these hurt more than a
piercing arrow when one is a child. Ranveer still thinks that Panchi is a
child in that respect,
similarly, when they were kids (just for
argument sake) Ranveer always protected Panchi most probably from
bullies. Mean kids who picked on her because of her size. He, being her
friend, always defended her and she liked it. But times change. Panchi
is still under the influence that Ranveer would always protect her from
anything and everything. What she has failed to understand that
priorities change with time. When you grow up, the ways of bullying
change and no one can always protect from bullying of all kind. In the
scene, it clearly felt that the girl was trying to be all cute and
flirty with Ranveer when she said those words. And Ranveer brushed them
off because he felt that she didnt mean it. Or maybe he knew. He is
experienced with those kind of girls so he knows their tactics. Panchi
is too innocent, she doesnt.
I would have hated if Ranveer had
said something like yeah, I have to take Panchi with me because no else
would. That would have been completely wrong! But at least he was
honest, he said that he wont be able to enjoy to his fullest with Panchi
as he deems her misfit for such parties. Because honestly, best friends
or not, there are somethings which we'd rather do alone. This is just
one of them. Ranveer aint the most sensitive guy, he wants to enjoy the
time. And if he feels that he would enjoy more without Panchi by his
side, I dont find anything wrong with it.
Panchi's hurt was more
due to the fact that her glass of blind trust was broken that Ranveer
didnt protect her more so than the fact that he wont take her with her.
Deep inside, Panchi still has those childish feelings that Ranveer would
be with her always and forever. He has sorta moved on from that phase
while she is still stuck there. He still adores her, respects her,
regards her as someone special in his life - his best friend! And that
is the sole reason he wont take her to the party. Like Samar said, the
party is the kind where you enter with one and leave with someone else.
Wont that be super wrong and more hurtful that Ranveer only uses Panchi
as an entry and then completely abandons her?
So yeah, the fault
lies within both of them for not realizing that they have grown up.
There is a reason why growing up sucks because things change. They just
have to learn to deal with it now. This was just the start...
I am excited the way things will shape up now. As per the promo, RaHi
are together in the party. But how will that happen? Panchi has heard
that Ranveer is not interested in taking her, so how will all this
happen? This really was a major twist because it has happened so early
in their relationship! Hope the writers wont disappoint!
P.S - sorry for the long rant! :P