Posted: 10 August 2012 at 7:37am | IP Logged
Am I the only one who isnt that much pissed off at Ranveer's words last night? Shocked, yes. Angry, not that much.
Just to be clear, I hated the way Panchi's tears fell without warning. The girl was hurt very much! Actually the scene didnt play out the way I thought it would. When Panchi was in the corridor saying that Ranveer will only take her to the party, I was impressed at her level of confidence. The girls' with her were almost rolling their eyes at her confidence. But she didnt care like she was in her own little happy world.
Then, when she saw Ranveer with that girl flirting away, she was just waiting for him to be over. The girl said that comment of not wanting to compete with anyone for him, specially Panchi who is always around him. That time, my mind was with Panchi. I honestly thought that Ranveer would say something like yeah, you are you but Panchi is special or something like that. And he replied with the 'I love when girls compete for me' kinda statement. That only made me surer. But that didnt happen.
The girl went on to somhow insult Panchi and Ranveer rolled his eyes. Panchi's confidence was admiring when she was worried that Ranveer might grow extra protective here and insult the girl. But he didnt. He just called Panchi his "fav teddy bear" and flat out said that he didnt want to go to a party like this with Panchi.
And that, I guess, is the thing which is agressing everyone.
I would like to point out something here. Ranveer was and still is protective of Panchi. His moti. He gets all angry when anyway says anything that would hurt Panchi. To him the word synonym to "fat" is the major thing that would hurt Panchi. Why is that? I believe that he has been with her since childhood and comments like these hurt more than a piercing arrow when one is a child. Ranveer still thinks that Panchi is a child in that respect,
similarly, when they were kids (just for argument sake) Ranveer always protected Panchi most probably from bullies. Mean kids who picked on her because of her size. He, being her friend, always defended her and she liked it. But times change. Panchi is still under the influence that Ranveer would always protect her from anything and everything. What she has failed to understand that priorities change with time. When you grow up, the ways of bullying change and no one can always protect from bullying of all kind. In the scene, it clearly felt that the girl was trying to be all cute and flirty with Ranveer when she said those words. And Ranveer brushed them off because he felt that she didnt mean it. Or maybe he knew. He is experienced with those kind of girls so he knows their tactics. Panchi is too innocent, she doesnt.
I would have hated if Ranveer had said something like yeah, I have to take Panchi with me because no else would. That would have been completely wrong! But at least he was honest, he said that he wont be able to enjoy to his fullest with Panchi as he deems her misfit for such parties. Because honestly, best friends or not, there are somethings which we'd rather do alone. This is just one of them. Ranveer aint the most sensitive guy, he wants to enjoy the time. And if he feels that he would enjoy more without Panchi by his side, I dont find anything wrong with it.
Panchi's hurt was more due to the fact that her glass of blind trust was broken that Ranveer didnt protect her more so than the fact that he wont take her with her. Deep inside, Panchi still has those childish feelings that Ranveer would be with her always and forever. He has sorta moved on from that phase while she is still stuck there. He still adores her, respects her, regards her as someone special in his life - his best friend! And that is the sole reason he wont take her to the party. Like Samar said, the party is the kind where you enter with one and leave with someone else. Wont that be super wrong and more hurtful that Ranveer only uses Panchi as an entry and then completely abandons her?
So yeah, the fault lies within both of them for not realizing that they have grown up. There is a reason why growing up sucks because things change. They just have to learn to deal with it now. This was just the start...
Anyway, I am excited the way things will shape up now. As per the promo, RaHi are together in the party. But how will that happen? Panchi has heard that Ranveer is not interested in taking her, so how will all this happen? This really was a major twist because it has happened so early in their relationship! Hope the writers wont disappoint!
P.S - sorry for the long rant! :P
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