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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 3:33pm | IP Logged
I don't no. I want to say. Ashu pls don't cry. 

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 4:06pm | IP Logged
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 nidhi will be the bali ka bakra..for dear KP jee to elevate mallika as the perfect woman of yesteryear who will have a kid,sympathize with ashu,understand him and maybe fill his lonelinesss tooo...afterall she is THE soulmate...

I dun mind it... please.. do that KP ji.. i want to see the praise that will be showered on Mahan Ashu ji.. n his greatness.. Embarrassed
 
 Your wish will be fulfilled next  week when Mallu enters.His each and every action will be worth bashing. Have fun dear

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 4:19pm | IP Logged
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 Your wish will be fulfilled next  week when Mallu enters.His each and every action will be worth bashing. Have fun dear

I will .. eagerly waiting ... yaar Cool ... bachcha prem to Mallika with bachcha prem ... Dancing

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 4:21pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Armu4eva

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 Your wish will be fulfilled next  week when Mallu enters.His each and every action will be worth bashing. Have fun dear

I will .. eagerly waiting ... yaar Cool ... bachcha prem to Mallika with bachcha prem ... Dancing
dear god.. help me !

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 4:22pm | IP Logged
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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 9:18pm | IP Logged
I just feel, that Nidhi should have thought what she was getting into when she went into this relation. There was a reason Ashu was pushing her away from himself. The most important thing in an age gap relation is the time sensitive baby decision as the guy's clock is ticking 18 yrs ahead of her. But Nidhi does not want to consider this, and wants to live according to her age like her other girls. She has not married like other girls, so her life will be different. Even if Ashu wasn't an orphan, even if Mallika wasnt in his life ( those are not age related), the child issue would have remained. So I feel Nidhi is lacking in feelings there. Whatever she did for Ashu was out of her love for him. One cannot say how did Ashu forget what all she did for him. When we do something for someone we do because we want to, out of love, its not a bargain. But now, she wants him to wait for 2 years, he agreed to that though his heart isnt in it, but he is not allowed to be sad either. He never forced her to agree to his wishes, nor did insist, just expressed his strong desire which I feel is fair enough.

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 9:29pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ssktlk

I just feel, that Nidhi should have thought what she was getting into when she went into this relation. There was a reason Ashu was pushing her away from himself. The most important thing in an age gap relation is the time sensitive baby decision as the guy's clock is ticking 18 yrs ahead of her. But Nidhi does not want to consider this, and wants to live according to her age like her other girls. She has not married like other girls, so her life will be different. Even if Ashu wasn't an orphan, even if Mallika wasnt in his life ( those are not age related), the child issue would have remained. So I feel Nidhi is lacking in feelings there. Whatever she did for Ashu was out of her love for him. One cannot say how did Ashu forget what all she did for him. When we do something for someone we do because we want to, out of love, its not a bargain. But now, she wants him to wait for 2 years, he agreed to that though his heart isnt in it, but he is not allowed to be sad either. He never forced her to agree to his wishes, nor did insist, just expressed his strong desire which I feel is fair enough.


Perfectly phrased...the issue is not Mallika for sure...and it is not all about Ashutosh's past...it is about the fact that Nidhi does not recognize the uniqueness of her situation or the possibilities of dealing with it...and Ashutosh is unable to help her understand...

If this track is about helping them understand each other, then I can't think of a worse way of doing it...bringing in the other woman, with baby in tow, to remind a woman of her creative responsibilities...is this couple incapable of resolving differences internally..I feel like saying they don't deserve each other, if this is the case!

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 9:41pm | IP Logged
No , i dont think that Nidhi was selfish !! ya few of her behaviors were unlikable in y'day epi ( in the cabin scene with Ashu & DB ) , but she was not selfish at all !! 
but am not saying that Ashu was wrong either , i think both AshNi r right in their places Smile as we can understand Ashu's desire of having kids bcz he is getting aged n as Shyama aunty said , he wants to get his familly back through his kids Embarrassed but Nidhi is also right , bcz she wants to live her life n enjoy her married life with Ashu bfr being a mother n get more responsibilities Smile
i jus wanna say 1 thing to Ashu , ( itne saal intizar kar saka Pyaar k liye , toh sirf 2 saal intizar karlo Bache k liye ! what the big deal !!! ) Wink

Originally posted by ssktlk

She was sitting at home since long, not thinking of internship, and now at this juncture she has suddenly become so dedicated, seems like an escape from responsibilities. 
about this thing , i kinda disagree with u ! ya Nidhi was sitting at home since long without working again in a hospital , but she had many reasons ..
as bfr marriage :- firstly , some how Ashu was responsible for that .. bcz he fired her bcz of his anger n stupidity Angry but after that Nidhi at least tried to get some jobs but she was rejected as she was fired frm her ex job !! ( remember that day when she went for IV , n Rohan went to take her frm there for the 1st time n both repaired her car's wheel ) !
n yes she also got a job at Dr.Sunil's hospital but it was bcz of Ashu's recommendation !! so it was next to impossible for Nidhi to get a job as doc bcz she was fired frm her ex hospital .. n fired ppl doesnt gets job easily !! n after breakup , i dont remember if any 1 frm her family encouraged her to get back to work .. its only Ashu who suggested Rohan , n Rohan took her to jevan sandya ! ( n Nidhi got accepted there bcz they needed a doc n it was not a hospital ) ..
n as after marriage :- in the first days of her marriage Nidhi dint thought about it as she was a new dulhan n she wanted to spend her time only with Ashu Embarrassed but after few days Mallu came Angry so Nidhi was only thinking about her n dint got to think abt any thing else !! n Ashu was there in the home all that long so she dint missed him ..
but after Mallu's exit , n Ashu resuming his duty , the home was suna suna so she felt lonely n started missing Ashu !! n she knew the value of the work so that y she rejoined the hospital Smile
NOT to escape from responsibilities !!!

thats my POV Wink


Edited by Ahlaweya - 09 August 2012 at 9:44pm

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