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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:13pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Sujatha.rao

I don't know about selfish but I found her thoughtless today on two occasions...

She is either not seeing or refusing to see that Ashutosh's consent to her desire is not wholehearted...what DB is able to ses, she is not for whatever reason...the minute she sees his face drop on the meniton of the B word, she says how can you be this way when we agreed not to talk about it for two years...and when he says he is unable to hide what is in his heart, then she says let us talk...which part of what she said is he supposed to take seriously...no wonder he said she won't understand...

The next morning, she sees him upset...and taunts him by saying that he was probably regretting not having driven a harder bargain...if this is not insensitive, then I don't know what is!

you are right sujatha, but try and see it from her pov also.  last night ashu hurt her a lot, and pushed her away emotionally. next morning she was probably still hurting, that cant go away overnite either.  and it is only human to strike out, so she did. who can blame her yaar.  she has put up with a lot of crap from and for ashu, koi toh limit hoti hai na.
ashu ki baat maane to everything is all peachy, and na maane toh he punishes her. not fair.

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:15pm | IP Logged
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Not at all .. she gave him enouf opp to disclose his pain and anguish.. but he said.. 'she wont understand' !! Two years are not so long that Ashu has to react like Devdas..! I found the whole thing from his side.. so lame... it made the entire previous weeks of romance from Ashus side appear to be  fake and superficial display .. of feelings for Nidhi than real ones..! Thumbs Down

Its simply as Sujatha said in another thread a matter of bruised Ego.. Ashu ji cant hear the WORD NO! LOL

I only found Nidhis taunt in the morning about bargaining for the no. of years .. not in good taste.. rest Nidhi was fine..



Tanu, I corrected you even there...I did not say Ego...I said rejection issues...they are two completely different things...I don't think Ashutosh is egoistic!

Oh its ok.. u dun hv to correct me... i FEEL its EGO ... Embarrassed


Tanu, I am not correcting you on what you feel...I only said that I did not imply ego...and you had quoted me here...otherwise we are entiltled to see it either way!
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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:17pm | IP Logged
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Oh its ok.. u dun hv to correct me... i FEEL its EGO ... Embarrassed


Tanu, I am not correcting you on what you feel...I only said that I did not imply ego...and you had quoted me here...otherwise we are entiltled to see it either way!
 


Yh thts what i was meaning that.. i mite hv written wrongly quoting u.. but i personally feel its Ego.. Smile

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:18pm | IP Logged
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I don't know about selfish but I found her thoughtless today on two occasions...

She is either not seeing or refusing to see that Ashutosh's consent to her desire is not wholehearted...what DB is able to ses, she is not for whatever reason...the minute she sees his face drop on the meniton of the B word, she says how can you be this way when we agreed not to talk about it for two years...and when he says he is unable to hide what is in his heart, then she says let us talk...which part of what she said is he supposed to take seriously...no wonder he said she won't understand...

The next morning, she sees him upset...and taunts him by saying that he was probably regretting not having driven a harder bargain...if this is not insensitive, then I don't know what is!

you are right sujatha, but try and see it from her pov also.  last night ashu hurt her a lot, and pushed her away emotionally. next morning she was probably still hurting, that cant go away overnite either.  and it is only human to strike out, so she did. who can blame her yaar.  she has put up with a lot of crap from and for ashu, koi toh limit hoti hai na.
ashu ki baat maane to everything is all peachy, and na maane toh he punishes her. not fair.


Anu, I can't digest her putting up with crap then...

So, that cannot justify her brattish behaviour now...! She was being a brat. And like I said, after saying you don't want to talk for two years, what is the point in asking the guy to open his heart to you...why would he do that?

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:21pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Sujatha.rao

Originally posted by Libra

Originally posted by Sujatha.rao

I don't know about selfish but I found her thoughtless today on two occasions...

She is either not seeing or refusing to see that Ashutosh's consent to her desire is not wholehearted...what DB is able to ses, she is not for whatever reason...the minute she sees his face drop on the meniton of the B word, she says how can you be this way when we agreed not to talk about it for two years...and when he says he is unable to hide what is in his heart, then she says let us talk...which part of what she said is he supposed to take seriously...no wonder he said she won't understand...

The next morning, she sees him upset...and taunts him by saying that he was probably regretting not having driven a harder bargain...if this is not insensitive, then I don't know what is!

you are right sujatha, but try and see it from her pov also.  last night ashu hurt her a lot, and pushed her away emotionally. next morning she was probably still hurting, that cant go away overnite either.  and it is only human to strike out, so she did. who can blame her yaar.  she has put up with a lot of crap from and for ashu, koi toh limit hoti hai na.
ashu ki baat maane to everything is all peachy, and na maane toh he punishes her. not fair.


Anu, I can't digest her putting up with crap then...

So, that cannot justify her brattish behaviour now...! She was being a brat. And like I said, after saying you don't want to talk for two years, what is the point in asking the guy to open his heart to you...why would he do that?

sweety, i was not disagreeing with you, i was agreeing with you.

but at the same time i was trying to justify her BRATTY behaviour.  just trying to put things from her perspective, thats all.Smile
her statement was insensitive yes, but was it unjustified. In my opinion, it was Not.


Edited by Libra - 09 August 2012 at 2:22pm

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:22pm | IP Logged
i dont think she is being selfish...
but i think she should be lil bit extra sensitive towards ashu..
a. she shouldnt have said how much i love babies 
b. shouldnt have given bargainin taana 
c. shouldnt have forced him 2 say 2 yr thing to DB ...
its written all over ashu's face that he is tryin hard to accept nidhi's wish ..so she should help him as well !

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:25pm | IP Logged
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i dont think she is being selfish...
but i think she should be lil bit extra sensitive towards ashu..
a. she shouldnt have said how much i love babies 
b. shouldnt have given bargainin taana 
c. shouldnt have forced him 2 say 2 yr thing to DB ...
its written all over ashu's face that he is tryin hard to accept nidhi's wish ..so she should help him as well !

the night convo came before the ...

bargaining tana
db 2 year expose  ... hun Embarrassed

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:26pm | IP Logged

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sweety, i was not disagreeing with you, i was agreeing with you.

but at the same time i was trying to justify her BRATTY behaviour.  just trying to put things from her perspective, thats all.Smile
her statement was insensitive yes, but was it unjustified. In my opinion, it was Not.
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Do you respond to insensitivty with more insensitivity...isn't marriage about giving in by one or the other..she has gotten her way...what about letting the guy deal with his issues...instead of expecting him to do the rumba...Ashu has given in to her wishes...so can't she put up with sulking for a bit?


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