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Was Nidhi being Selfish?

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 12:49pm | IP Logged
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Please don't throw eggs at meTongue, but after seeing today's episode, I wondered if Nidhi was thinking just of herself today. Though Ashu's sulk and loneliness hurt her a lot and it shouldn't have been so. He shouldn't be feeling lonely again only because he has to wait for the child. He might have insecurities about age, longing for the baby, etc, but wish they would have talked over it. Nidhi did have an idea about this though, and she never tried to break those barriers. Ashutosh has always been like that, closed in himself, but Nidhi has managed to get him out of his shell. So why couldn't she get to his heart, make him talk. or maybe she feared, if she prodded more, she might melt, or Ashu might influence her and change her decision. She is just trying to avoid the whole thing. She was sitting at home since long, not thinking of internship, and now at this juncture she has suddenly become so dedicated, seems like an escape from responsibilities. Anyway, I felt, Nidhi should have understood Ashu more, when she married an older person, there are some sacrifices she should make. Am not saying she should give up her career, but she could have tried to manage both which is possible, asked for Ashu's help. In love, one is supposed to live for the other person, his/her happiness. Ashu is trying to do that, but as he said, his face is showing his feelings. One has no control over emotions. But Nidhi is not trying to live for Ashu, his dreams, at least now. Just my pov

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 12:58pm | IP Logged
sorry i disagree..nidhi is not being selfish...she tried to make ashu talk abt his feeling to b his partner in his grief but ashu did not allow...are at least there was smeone for ashu who wanted to wipe his tears..but was dere any one for nidhi when she had to shed tears during the mallu track no one was dere for her...not even ashu..in fact he was busy blaming her...

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 1:04pm | IP Logged
Relationships are not calculations that we keep count of who did how much for whom. When Nidhi n Ashu separated during the Kerala episodes, Ashu had shed a lot of tears alone while Nidhi stayed firm on her decision. The mallu incident can never be forgotten n forgiven, but one can never do tit for tat like this.  Nidhi tried to talk to Ashu  and he did not allow, true. But Nidhi did not persist, as probably she knew where it would lead to. Sorry for disagreeing again.

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ssktlk

Relationships are not calculations that we keep count of who did how much for whom. When Nidhi n Ashu separated during the Kerala episodes, Ashu had shed a lot of tears alone while Nidhi stayed firm on her decision. The mallu incident can never be forgotten n forgiven, but one can never do tit for tat like this.  Nidhi tried to talk to Ashu  and he did not allow, true. But Nidhi did not persist, as probably she knew where it would lead to. Sorry for disagreeing again.

and true she is not that young and she have db hariman kaka for help i also think is little bit selfish as she had joined hospital after she started missing ashu...
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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:06pm | IP Logged
Not at all .. she gave him enouf opp to disclose his pain and anguish.. but he said.. 'she wont understand' !! Two years are not so long that Ashu has to react like Devdas..! I found the whole thing from his side.. so lame... it made the entire previous weeks of romance from Ashus side appear to be  fake and superficial display .. of feelings for Nidhi than real ones..! Thumbs Down

Its simply as Sujatha said in another thread a matter of bruised Ego.. Ashu ji cant hear the WORD NO! LOL

I only found Nidhis taunt in the morning about bargaining for the no. of years .. not in good taste.. rest Nidhi was fine..

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:07pm | IP Logged
I don't know about selfish but I found her thoughtless today on two occasions...

She is either not seeing or refusing to see that Ashutosh's consent to her desire is not wholehearted...what DB is able to ses, she is not for whatever reason...the minute she sees his face drop on the meniton of the B word, she says how can you be this way when we agreed not to talk about it for two years...and when he says he is unable to hide what is in his heart, then she says let us talk...which part of what she said is he supposed to take seriously...no wonder he said she won't understand...

The next morning, she sees him upset...and taunts him by saying that he was probably regretting not having driven a harder bargain...if this is not insensitive, then I don't know what is!

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Armu4eva

Not at all .. she gave him enouf opp to disclose his pain and anguish.. but he said.. 'she wont understand' !! Two years are not so long that Ashu has to react like Devdas..! I found the whole thing from his side.. so lame... it made the entire previous weeks of romance from Ashus side appear to be  fake and superficial display .. of feelings for Nidhi than real ones..! Thumbs Down

Its simply as Sujatha said in another thread a matter of bruised Ego.. Ashu ji cant hear the WORD NO! LOL

I only found Nidhis taunt in the morning about bargaining for the no. of years .. not in good taste.. rest Nidhi was fine..



Tanu, I corrected you even there...I did not say Ego...I said rejection issues...they are two completely different things...I don't think Ashutosh is egoistic!


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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Sujatha.rao

Originally posted by Armu4eva

Not at all .. she gave him enouf opp to disclose his pain and anguish.. but he said.. 'she wont understand' !! Two years are not so long that Ashu has to react like Devdas..! I found the whole thing from his side.. so lame... it made the entire previous weeks of romance from Ashus side appear to be  fake and superficial display .. of feelings for Nidhi than real ones..! Thumbs Down

Its simply as Sujatha said in another thread a matter of bruised Ego.. Ashu ji cant hear the WORD NO! LOL

I only found Nidhis taunt in the morning about bargaining for the no. of years .. not in good taste.. rest Nidhi was fine..



Tanu, I corrected you even there...I did not say Ego...I said rejection issues...they are two completely different things...I don't think Ashutosh is egoistic!

Oh its ok.. u dun hv to correct me... i FEEL its EGO ... Embarrassed

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