9/8 Dragon Club: Joru ka Ghulam, Finally! - Page 27

Aah Jyoti- thanks for those pics! Kamal hasan is one of my all time favourite actors. He is in a class of his own. Feels great to see that my other favourite actor's expressions are equally enjoyable.

This content was originally posted by: DMKJ_VB

Kirthi- I agree with everything u said except the pushing thing. Thats one part where I feel otherwise. Yash and aarti both had set rules.Agreed her feelings have changed. But that doesn't mean she should expect Yash to change the rules. And I think she isn't expecting either. She knows they had set some boundaries , and now her feelings have changed and she doesn't want to stick to those boundaries anymore. But she is fair on Yash. She realizes that she should not expect the same with Yash because he had never promised her anything of the kind. 

Nice discussions @ALL that I dont know what to add in actually.  Edited by phal - 11 years ago

I hv noticed one thing that most of these shows suffer post couple's confession with the overall story and thats when it goes haywire

Aarti is acting very strangely indeed. On one hand she acts like a lovesick puppy by throwing Yash secret looks (so cute btw), and on the other is almost trying to railroad him into this vision of familial perfection that G3 Shobha & Co., have hammered into her heard. She wants that vision, and come hell or high water it will be that way. Her husband will pick her bangles for her, if that is what husbands do. She will make him karela and also eat it herself, if that is necessary.

There are moments when she is in control (like the chooriyan scene, and the karela scene), and then there are those where she seems to have lost her mind (like the bra shopping scene).😆
I might be wrong. But I see a division line along these scenes. I'm not so sure Aarti wants to be loved in return. I'm with Samana on this one. It seems she enjoys the feeling of being "in love". She likes the magic and the music that only she can hear. She does try to get closer to him as she promised, but then an opportunity appears to create real intimacy (i.e.: let Yash in on a Aarti secret for once) and she's angry that he dared step foot inside that shop. Don't get me wrong. I loved that episode. My previous essay is evidence 😆.

There's this Mumbai Aarti, who wears the prettiest anarkali suits, lovely lipstick, and talks ever so sweetly. I'm not saying she's not real. Just that there is a definite divide in how Aarti is acting. Maybe it was just because it was so early in the morning, but I made a little (and maybe completely irrelevant) observation about Aarti's dress during that bra shopping scene. The one where she had not intended to take Yash along. She was wearing one of those plain Aarti nightwear sari's. I took it as further ammunition for my divide theory, ofcourse 😃. Basically, a pretty girly Aarti for Yash who loved pretty girly Arpita, and a serviceable tried and true Aarti (that goes shopping for serviceable bra's that are only sold in boxes 👍🏼), who gets the job done when there is a job in need of getting done. Both parts complete her. Maybe Yash isn't too far off the mark. Maybe Aarti is unconsciously trying to give him what she thinks he wants. Its sad. Because he likes her well enough. Do you remember the pre-wedding boast he'd made to Pratiek about Aarti and her handy hockey stick? I wish I could jump through the screen and tell her the one thing that would keep Yash's eyed glued to her. Her slightly loud uncontrollable laughter that always slips out during the strangest times. My god, why are these two so bloody adorable???👏⭐️

Somewhere along the way her own mission and the mission that was given to her gets blurred. Her genuine attempts are what draws him close. But there is always an element of "lets wrap Yash in a spell so he will try to get closer to me, because that is what needs to happen". That's why I hate G3 and Shobha interference. They fill her head with garbage. Aarti was doing just fine in the first days of their marriage, when G3 hated her, and Shobha was absentee. Yash checked her out more often than not then. Omg I just remembered the bachelor party lift and carry😳 *Faint*
All she needed help with was the children, and G3 was no help there.

Even though she is in love, and even though she knows it, I don't think Aarti understands (or values) romantic love in the way Yash does. I don't think she has any idea of the type of love that will be needed to have a real relationship with a man like Yash. He is a very all or nothing type of guy. And she's so used to control. Not the fun, I'm an independent woman type of control. But the suffocating, this is how it will be, and no you can't use the bathroom while I'm in the shower (because those things are private) control. She's interrupted Yash time and time again. And he's gotten quite cool about it. But what about her?  She is so very guarded. Am I making any sense at all?? Probably not. Nothing new😎 It's just weird that she is wielding this control while she is in, what she assumes to be, the heights of love. I know that bra scene was cute. But the more I think on it, the more I realize how suspect her reaction was. 

Basically I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop. And I'm pretty sure it's going to be Aarti that closes up this time. She reminds me a bit of a teen crushing on her favourite actor. Dream and sigh in contentment all day long, but as soon as he appears in the flesh, you are guaranteed to act a fool and then wish the ground would swallow you whole. 😃 Or you just faint dead away and wake up with a headache, and the memory of a dream that somehow became a nightmare.

I wouldn't be surprised if she froze up at the slightest signal from Yash that he loves her back. Or even if she threw his love back in his face. Saying something along the lines of "Please don't ruin this. We are such a good team. Why do you have to ruin it with I love you's?😕 "

But then again, most of my predictions have been wrong in this show lol. And thank you to any who read my essay⭐️

Edited by Charishma - 11 years ago

This content was originally posted by: jyoti06

I hv noticed one thing that most of these shows suffer post couple's confession with the overall story and thats when it goes haywire

 

So somewhere I m happy that in PV , CVs r not really rushing up with the confession

@Jyo Awesome A/R🤣Poor chuddiwala couldn't understand Arya's code language.

@All Interesting discussion guys.But I am totally blank,I really don't know what to say.But I seriously want Aarthi to question her love for Yash or I genuinely want Aarthi to get hurt or get into her shell big time and be sad and lonely.
This happy go lucky Aarthi is now irritating me(and she reminds me of a dilogue of Saif in 'love Aaj kal' where he says "I cannot be sad for a long time,I am a defective piece."), though it is increasing Yash's curiosity to know more about her but she is not making him feel needed and, as I said before Yash needs someone who needs him.

One thing that irks me the most is that Yash never thought that how Aarthi is so happy go lucky even though he knows that she too lost someone she loved.
Edited by Pearl_27 - 11 years ago

@Jyoti love A/R post..

@Veena : Yess thats what I want to say in my A/R too .. Yash too does not know what he wants 😉😆...when she wears pink , he goes for blue and when she was wearing bluish green nailpaint , he wanted pink 😆...its the same in the show too , his mind is confused between Arpita's memories and Aarti's Mumbai sudden changed attitude 😆😳...so I m trying to equate my A/R with whats going in the episodes 😳...

This content was originally posted by: Allbut1

It truly was tragic to see the quality of the show deteriorate so much and so quickly and it's come to the point where I have lost all interest in the show because the magic and spark that used to define it is now all gone!

And this is all Colors fault, this is the second show that they have destroyed (that I watched anyways) and it's because of their thirst to magically add more TRPs. Channel intervention is the worst thing that can happen to a show, it forces it to change the story line, the directors, character sketch, everything and slowly the show becomes completely unrecognizable! And these gimmicks always backfire because the audience can't connect anymore!

Yes, yes and yes. I agree. Colours should've stayed out of it. Its one of the reasons I can't trust Star Plus either. To be honest I didn't watch the newest episodes. I watched every episode until just after Riddhima was introduced. I was in the process of watching that porch scene, where Mohan and Riddhima are standing in his porch and holding hands, and Megha is washing clothes on her porch. And then Manav comes out. I just stopped right there. It was so twisted and gross. And it ruined it for me.

I all of a sudden stopped trusting the writers and the direction of the show. I immediatly visited the IF NBT page (which I hadn't done before because I didn't want the story spoiled), and wow. I feel a little betrayed . Pathetic I know. But there you have it. It was written with so much beauty and feeling, and acted with so much understanding. Mohan may be a little lovelorn and unlucky in love (poor chap), but he is no spineless bigamist. He would never do that to her. More importantly he would never do that to Nahni. Spiderman is a loveable and loyal superhero geek.

My god.😆😆 I've lost my mind.  Anyways, thank god for shows like PV. I drop out of it for a few days, drop back in, and its the same feeling. The 20 minutes a day thing kills me. So I often wait for a few episodes to be out and watch them at once.  😆 But yeah, I'm going to read the plots of shows fully before watching now. No more trusting the writers (except for in PV).