@Indu, @sam: Interesting thoughts re: the Paridhi situation...
Like Indu said, no one is at fault yet everyone seems to be too.
@Sam...To me it seems Prateek has no plans, whatsoever! He's like a rudderless ship not knowing how to handle two headstrong entities pulling in opposite directions - his parents on the one side and his wife on the other.
He's been the baby of the house and still relishes that position. No pressures, no expectations, and no demands. He'd happily sail on that boat into the horizon. It is the same freedom that he had, that allowed him to pick Paridhi as a mate. The fact that she was out working was also the reason for his meeting her and enabling their love affair to flourish. I think, more than Prateek, it was Yash and the girls that the Scindia family was concerned about. So, despite their misgivings, they may have given the go-ahead to Prateek since they themselves were overwhelmed with the tragedy of Arpita's loss and with Yash carrying the torch so that none could forget. And if his marriage facilitated Yash's marriage in some way, all the more, better.
Prateek, by constantly reassuring Paridhi that he himself has no issues with her working is the only support he's offering her. But, he himself is clueless about how to deal with his parents. And in my view, if he stood up to his father on that particular day, I felt it was more to show Yash and others than really standing up for Paridhi. Yash had in a way, challenged his 'manhood' by saying that he'll go talk to SP on Prateek's behalf, and he ended up lying to save face. And then when unfortunately and ironically, just when he was chasing his new Bhabhi up and down the bridge, his father drags his wife in. Faced with multiple onslaughts simultaneously, he spoke up to his father. What does his father do? Raise his hand.
Ever since that moment, Prateek has realized that he needs to tread carefully not for Paridhi's sake, but for his own. His very existence and identity is tied to the Scindia family and house. Without them, he'd not know what to do, where to go, where to start anything. While Pankaj and Yash can choose to walk out anytime, Prateek simply cannot. He's not equipped to deal with the world. When Paridhi and Prateek have that little get together with her friends (when the director sends the note), her friends rib him about his joblessness and having it all too easy. This embarrasses Paridhi more than Prateek. Prateek is completely cool with it. If he takes up cudgels on Paridhi's behalf, he's out the door. I think there are no two ways about that. Hence, the main reason for his hesitation. He's certainly not biding his time to broach the topic. He's only hoping that Paridhi would pipe down. While he knows that Paridhi's tactics are not going to work, he has no solution himself and hence sits there frowning and waiting for the inevitable bomb blast coming their way.
I'd reverse @Indu's statement by saying that if Paridhi has faulted, Prateek has double-faulted. The pre-marriage assurances, followed by inaction for more than 3 months have led to the current desperation in Paridhi's actions. Paridhi wanted to get back to her job on day 2 after the marriage. Since then, there has been no action on Prateek's part. On top of it, she sees that Prateek is not really incompetent. She sees him go to lengthy lengths to achieve a goal. This also shows that he's not all that sold into the idea of a job for Paridhi. I think this has been discussed in the past that Prateek, having no job or a very loose job description is unable to appreciate the concept of a career or ambition. Yes, he could not help fall in love, but how could he have miscalculated his family's stance towards working women. If anything is clear about Prateek, it is that he's unable to articulate. He has zero leadership qualities. Even when helping out his brother and Bhabhi, he needed the guidance of the love-guru or his elder bhabhi. I foresee only one recourse here. Prateek and Paridhi walk out. Unless Prateek comes out of the umbrella of protection of the Scindias, he'll never grow into a man that he wants to be. For guy who's tied to the anchal of the Scindias, no other step will be enough.
It is interesting how you mention about the conflict about Yash. I was thinking of it in a different way. For Yash, Prateek is his kid (he has even verbalized it) and Prateek, ever since he chose Yash's bride and got him married, has felt a deep sense of responsibility to the marriage itself. Hence, he's willing to go the length - lie, cover up, plot and plan to bring the two closer. So, in a way, while Yash has always thought of Prateek as a child, Prateek is in a way redefining his equation to Yash. When Prateek refuses help from Yash in dealing with the job situation, or when he refuses to bow down to his brother's commands, or when becomes the bigger man by not choosing to go to Bombay, and finally, by convincing his parents to put the pressure, he plays the elder . I feel beneath all the love, there's a bit of masculine rivalry as well. When Yash allows Prateek to go to Mumbai, he does the unthinkable (to me at least). He tells Prateek that he'll give him whatever money he needs (is that emasculating or what?) and then when Yash leaves, Prateek plays it back to him. I thought interesting dynamics there...
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