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payalibm IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 1:34am | IP Logged
she has always forgiven pighead...she never remebered about the pain in inflcited upon her ...
and moving on..saying is easy but doing it is quit hard...think...divorce proceding and property mater and  property mater not over  jaitsir and collector sahb entry..and entry has jsut begin and she was becomingcomfy around colector ke marige proposal...and that too on the day of final hearing for divorce...and that not finish kee bhago sick and then her last wish and then her death and death rituals not over ke pighead again with his sick mind scumb bag nusence and that for anandi's own mother death...and now fulfill her dead mother's last wish...  
what do you expcet with a person to go throught all this is a span of 6 months...give her time to recover...but ther is after marrige with shiv she will get soem breath and then slowly with love and lots of care from shiv will bring her back on tracks... give her time yaar...atm remembering..forgivng...thinking..act acording..nothing working for anandi...only working is her mom's last wish...let it all finish..then see the new will be amazing anandi again for shure

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tinoo IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 09 August 2012 at 2:04am | IP Logged
I highly doubt that anandi is nursing a grudge against either jagya or gauri. 
She is really not bothered about either of them.  So she has already forgiven.
Her current mindset is because she is pre-occupied with the upcoming marriage to shiv, and because, as she told shiv, she is ashamed of her role in her mother's death (bhago died while running after anandi).    She is scared of letting herself be close to someone again,  scared of the fact that he is so urbane and polished and sophisticated... and wondering whether she a village girl could really be a life partner to him ... and wondering whether like jagya, one day he too will reject her for being 'gawar'... scared that her marriage may mean leaving behind her professional career and her identity and her goals behind which she so carefully and painstakingly set for herself.
She is not able to move on because of the fears of her future ... she is not clinging to the memories of jagya.
That being said, she is human, and naturally on certain occassions, memories will certainly be triggered off  -- that doesnt necessarily mean that she is invested in those memories or pining away for jagya.   
 On a death anniversary of someone, we may feel more sad, even though we have made peace with their dying seven years ago, and dont really feel the pain in daily life.   We always have milestones in our life that bring us back memories.

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