Posted: 08 August 2012 at 10:32pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ
Sia - thank you for the thoughtful post. I don't think he's realizing anything of any significance with the flashbacks today. He's just comparing and maybe missing his adoring doormat! *his perspective of Anandi not mine*
Yup..fact of the matter remains...Anandi was just a doormat for him. I mean I was shaking my head at his gal when in Belaria, during Khajans accusations, he is looking at Anandi to BAIL him out and support him? REALLY Jagya?!!!
You know I feel the Creatives were never clear about their game plan for the future. I think I read an article that was posted on the forum recently ( a week or two ago) with some sort of an interview with one of the creatives of the show. He basically said that Anandi- Jagyas divorce was not in the original storyline but since their show was on Child Marriage, they realized they HAD to show the evils associated with it rather than depicting a rosier version of the same. Thats why I felt- for the LONGEST time they made us believe Jagya will realize his mistakes and get back. Otherwise there really was NO point in Jagyas being the one to save Anandi from the kidnappers or Jagya leaving his MS exams to be in Jaitser for Badi Masaji. Jagya- Anandi even had 'moments' during that track (When they are decorating the Haveli etc.). Even Sumitras challenge to Gauri had me believe he would get back. So yeah, basically the Creatives were confused about whether Anandi- Jagya would be end game or not. I am glad they chose the latter.
They tried to show he has SOME humanity STILL left in him but for me that was never enough. The way he berated Anandi for being who she was- made fun of her education or rather lack of, hid her from his friends, brought another woman to his house and slept with her by literally shutting the door on Anandis face- these crimes are just not pardonable.
As for Bade Papa truth - I have similar thoughts as you. What will it really change btwn JaGa and why? True change has to come from within and for that he needs to realize and introspect on his own errors nobody elses... at max Gauri's truths can trigger of that self analysis but, that isn't a given...just possibility.
Exactly! Its not like Gauri behaved a different way with the Singhs in front of Jagya and a different way behind his back. Shes not a hypocrite! She has always shown shes not exactly fond of his family. I mean according to me, if Jagya could not realize how selfish she was when she completely disregarded his ill grandmother (Badi Masi) & exposed the truth about their marriage- then why will he now?! Bade Papas truth is not exactly earth shattering! And yes, like you said, introspection needs to come from within. I hope when Jagya finally realizes- he doesn't blame Gauri but rather himself.
Gauri v. Jugat - who is worse? I vote for Jugat everytime. He is parasite who betrayed his bestfriend, his lover, his wife, his family and hometown.
Gauri is just plane selfish.
Agreed! Add insecure to selfish for Gauri. In my eyes- thats wrong- but not as WRONG as what Jagya did.