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One good reason that Justifies Dadi's INDIFFERENCE (Page 2)

sohara IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 3:34pm | IP Logged
I really don't see any valid reason behind this meanness.I don't think she is indifferent to Khushi, but she is very mean, vindictive,racist,envious and of course very much unjustified to Khushi.
There could be two reason behind this hate. It's completely my assumption.

First I think Shyam, may be Anjali also is involved here. Recently we are seeing lots pf suspicious activities of Anjali. May be Shyam went to Dadi and portrayed Khushi as an evil woman. Dadi might talk to Anjali for the assurance.We know in what extent she loves Anjali. So obviously she took her word for granted.They might show her Khushi's photograph also. May be that's why she addressed Khushi as a servant at the very first meeting. No sensible person can call a gorgeous girl like Khushi servant. Her constant quarry about Shyam and unreasonable demand to get him back proves it too.

Another reason could be ,Dadi already knows about Khushis past. she may know Khushi's mom was the other woman in Arnav's dad's life. May be that's why she was strongly mentioned about that woman. She may reveal it later.
 ok, that's my opinion, so does it make sense?

Edited by sohara - 10 August 2012 at 3:35pm

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shali IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 3:36pm | IP Logged thinks dadi ears gave already been filled by Shyamji... it was very clear in today's epi attention to dadi's words...
 plus the past is is adding up to her dislike for khushi...and this might have to do with her status...form servant to bahu off the house...I doubt that dadi is aware who Khushi is..and her connection to the this moment I dont mind her being such a old hack...
oohhh you should try to make on the weakest link "Anjali"...her character is bugging me more the dadi...cause she might not realize it...but she backstabbing her own blood...creating a big gap between herself and arnav...and we should discus her...

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sohara IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 3:39pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Crazy_1001

Dadi's jealous of Khushi one of many reasons:

1. She wishes she could wear those Anarkali dresses, instead of those saris.

2. She wanted Arnav to get married to her brothers wifes sisters husband;s daughter. But he married Khushi instead.

3. Wants to look like Khushi. :]

I know this was meant to be a serious post but I couldnt help myself.

She may jealous of khushi, coz Khushi is so beautiful!LOL

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Arshi2gthr4evr Senior Member

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 3:47pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ILoveHussain

Ok, here is my take. Basically Dadi is doing what the CVs have planned for her to do!

We all were waiting for the great, never-seen-on-television-kind of redemption track. For whatever reason the CVs do not want to show Arnav feeling guilty or saying 'sorry' to Khushi. Somehow they forgot to make Arnav stand for his wife during Shyam's exposure also. (Maybe Barun was not available for the shoot for a day, but it had continued for three days actually. Maybe Aabhas did not want to give another male co-actor a chance to say a dialogue, or maybe they wanted to show Anjali's jealousy be keeping a loop open, but that track did not work.)

Now Dadi's indifference towards Khushi pisses him off. Every time Dadi says/ does something bad to Khushi, ASR stands up for his wife, and Khushi is so overwhelmed with his actions taht she continues to stare at her husband teary-eyed for as long as Sanaya is able to do so without blinking. Anyway, coming to the point,  saying 'sorry' is cliched compared to saying 'So what?' or 'Khushi meri patni hai... blah blah blah..'.

The more Dadi tortures Khushi, the better for Saas-bahu drama audience. Whatever Dadi says to Khushi ASR will come out of nowhere to defend his wife, it will make us - the ASR-droolers happy. Because even if the rest of the family is present, they won't open their mouths to utter a single word to support Khushi. So all I can think of is Dadi is there so that ASR does not have to say the 'S' word. All in all, to keep everyone still in his/ her character, they had to bring in something like this.


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chatterbug Senior Member

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 4:36pm | IP Logged
based on what dadi told ASR today I feel she knows about khushi involvement with shyam being kicked out !

Otherwise why would she say "why punish the innocent ( she means shyam) and not the culprit(she meant khushi)" ! this means according to her there is someone else that ASR supports when he threw shyam out !

so I think she hates khushi for this reason ! So I feel khushi case will come out in the open again next week and hopefully ASR will clear it with dadi ! Followed by marriage and SR Day Dreaming

You see I am sooo disparate to go back to my SKD Embarrassed

I am just guessing LOL

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slanka Senior Member

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 4:41pm | IP Logged
I guess dadi knows something related to Khushi's past or someone who resembles like Khushi:


1. As Khushi was just a 8 year old small girl when dadi went to Ashram, it is not possible for dadi to recognize Khushi after 14years--if Khushi is the reason for Arnav's and Anjali's dark past--(accident/some connection with ASR's dad's extra marrital affair/the one who triggered the parents' suicide)
it can be:
2. Khushi's mother ,or a long lost half sister(may be Shyam's siter--making Shyam Khushi's half brother),,or an aunt (Garima?) who comes to dadi's mind whenever she sees Khushi---
so did any of this lady relatives of Khushi ( who may have similar features like Khushi ruined the happy lives of Malliks and Raizadas?)

3. May be 'that woman' whom they are talking of (if she is not a relative of Khushi) --either:
may have same features--and a look alike of Khushi

4, Or Khushi's behavior   and attitude is what makes dadi remeber 'that woman'
careless-haste-ruining everything (from dadi's eye)

5. May be the way it seems  she entered Raizada mansion (with many excuses to enter before the marriage--from dadi's eye---a servant becoming Bahu) 

6.and the way it seems  she entered Arnav's life (love marriage without any proper wedding) makes dadi find some similarities with a past incident of their dark past---

7. May be it is not HATE what dadi has,, but may be FEAR seeing Khushi,, that she is afraid that the past will be repeated onceagain ruining all of the lives---due to some features she has noticed in Khushi

8.Last, we can not forget the possibility of dadi has been used by Shyam as a mean to enter agian RM-- if this is so, it is obvious dadi to have HATE over Khushi even before seeing her. ( we know what stories Shyam can make to ruin Khushi's Character-he must have put the whole blame on her--and shouldn't forget that dadi kept asking for the Son in Law ever since she had entered  RM)

9. May be she is feeling that Khushi's personality doen't suit to be the bahu of the Mallik's...means Khushi not worthy for Aranav---specailly because it wasn't a proposed marriage with matching this and that!!---even we cannot for get the orthodox minded dadi was enranged to see a non-grownup child like figure,, but not a mature "bahu" in a "saree"!!!

Edited by slanka - 10 August 2012 at 5:06pm

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SaraJL Goldie

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 4:58pm | IP Logged
I can not understand Hindi words, but still replying.
OK, first of all nothing can justify what that GM is doing or saying.
Secondly I think that Shyam already told her his part of story, that's why she was that rude, mean to Khushi... Yes, What's this untouchable? SO RUDE!
If you remember correctly Grandmother blamed Arnav for his past and his present decision. She accused him of picking wrong person both times...I mean if she was away for 14 years, then how in the world she knows what happened to Shyam, and which side Arnav picked? She was clearly saying Khushi is the one at fault hereDead. She knows everything meaning Shyam told her everything, but from his point of view.
I am sorry again, but nothing can justify what she is doing or planning to do. She is horrible!

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Jammy- IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 10 August 2012 at 5:05pm | IP Logged
There is nothing that justifies dadi's actions! First she thinks Khushi is the servant, fine, but is this the way one treats a human being?

Now coming to after knowing the truth! Dadi is definitely hiding something! It could be Shyam is in on it or it could be the past! Remember when Nani asked aapne aisa kya dekha khushi bitiya main? The Cv's dont put random dialouges in the show! Today in the convo with Arnav she says you are again taking the wrong side.. Which clearly states she knows about Shyam fiasco because no one in the house told her the exact truth now did they?

another hint why come now? Who told her Anjali is pregnant? If she doesnt know that Arnav got married how come she knows Anjali is pregNant?

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