Good Morning Dostwa's π
This week we have been getting one "Dhamdaar" episodes after another...Haven't we ?? ...I also apologize for not updating my posts ...Today , A rested, alert mind has come to pick the threads of the episode...I will not go into the episode in detail but will pick up few defining moments for me and my views regarding that ...In between I might foray into the past episodes or refer to the discussions I have had with my friends...so please bear with my meandering thoughts ...π
Kya Humari Shaadi ko aise hi tootne dhogi tum !!
Hum Hamesha aapke saath rahenge
Payal Bhabhi Kuch Dhamdhaar hua hai, Nannav is holding Khushi by the hand n leading her away, Humain Khushi ko wahan bejhna hi nahi chaiyatha, Kuch Gadbhad ki hogi usne *some such thing *
The ascendency of Khushi
The discovery of Shankh
Chahkar bhi hum nafrat nahi karpaye !!
The Love/hate cycle ...
This were the factors running through my mind when I was thinking of penning down my thoughts ...Let me take it in the order of How these factors came into my mind...
It was I think only y'day that on a query by Vedha , I had said that Malik Sr,. is Duryodhan/Shantanu !! It was the obsessive love of Shantanu for Satyavati that set the seed of destruction for Kuru Vamsa ...It was the weakness of Duryodhan that was exploited and lead to Bloodshed ..History repeats again as it tirelessly churns out the same scenario albeit in a smaller scale ..The love/desire of Malik Sr, lead to a spiraling of incidents , His weakness exploited by Shakuni Chachaji for furthering his own gain ...Into this hot combo entered Dadi, The Bhishma and who like the Bhishma of Mahabharat took a wrong call and became the sutradhar . .Bhishma Pratigya was the reason for the fallout between Sons of Pandu & Son's of Dhritharashtra ..Dadi's unilateral decision of the past will now plunge the House of Raizada's into war !!
Lets come to the present leaving the doors of the past open ...
Dadi, the saadhwi, the one who spent 15 years amidst the place of spirituality comes back to the House of Raizada's !! what happens when she comes back, Is she welcomed with Aarti, Is she welcomed with a hug...No, She is welcomed with a tub of dirty water , which drenches her, which fully wets the spiritual lady ... She is covered in the dirty water by Khushi , Pure one ..The righteous one bec irrespective of the fact that Dadi spent 15 years in an spiritual environment, Her past omissions have not been absolved , The sins have not been redeemed , Her decisions which lead to cataclysmic events and lead to the virtual destruction of 4 families and many lives have to be corrected , Dadi has come to trigger the events again, Dadi has come back to redeem herself and she will find her redemption in the hands of Khushi, who will purify her by bathing her in water ...Today Khushi poured the water and wiped the mask of piousness, piety exposing the dark stains residing within Dadi's Bosom...Tomorrow she will cleanse it..
The Ascendancy of Khushi Kumari Gupta ;
Kya Humari Shaadi ko aise hi tootne dhogi tum !!
Hum Hamesha aapke saath rahenge
Chahkar bhi hum nafrat nahi karpaye !!
The Love/hate cycle ...
They say a picture is worth 1000 words ...what better way of expressing the changing dynamics of Arnav-Khushi relationship than this pictures...
Interesting Pictures , are they not ??... The Low classed Khushi and the suave upper classed Arnav Singh ..The superficial, flighty, Khushi and the sober, serious, withdrawn Arnav ..Both from different class be it financially, economically and emotionally ..Yet fate bring them together, Khushi slowly climbs up the steps to be his equal, while Arnav takes a few steps down to meet her ...They meet on a common ground of love, longing, yearning, loneliness !! then there is a subtle switch ..Arnav who was always the oak tree under whom Khushi sheltered now is the sheltered one as Khushi protects him from the blows of the fate, She is the shield who will deflect the pain ..who will stand guard over him ...then will come the Moment of truth , A truth which will shake the roots of her existence, A truth which will devastate her ...there comes a distance as they move away.. her pain too intense ..She will climb onto the lonely citadel, the distance growing between them ..but they will remain connected by the bonds of love that the pain/Past cannot obliterate nor erase !!
In a conversation with Anna, I had said that IPKKND rests on NPAND & MDJND ..The cycle will continue !! but will Arnav be the one who hates her or will it be Khushi ... ..Lets again look at the wordings ...Khushi says, Chahkar bhi hum tumse Nafrat kar nahi paaye !!
Now comes the question in my mind...Why CHAHKAR ? Why does she want to Hate Arnav ?? what makes her want to hate Arnav ??
Could it be that there comes into light something that will trigger the pains, the memories , and will Arnav become the fall guy..The pains of losing her parents, The loss of her world !!..seems like it
So what happens when disaster strikes... Knowing Khushi , she is one of the girls who reacts without thinking, who does not pause to think out all the fall out ..The Marriage may be at stake here , hence the cry of Arnav , the plea of Arnav !!
Lets once again revert back to the opening scene of Y'day's episode ...what do we see ??? Even after Arnav has pronounced his decision ... Khushi is found lingering by the doors of the past, in the Chakravyuh ...while downstairs ...NK is worried as he is confident something explosive has happened and Payal is almost panicky lamenting the fact that they should not have sent Khushi alone into the Chakravyuh ...for what does Khushi do when she is caught in emotional turmoil .. Act rashly, Act without thinking and never pausing to judge the consequence of her actions .... This time too the shattering events will push her into unthinking action, she will be caught right in the middle of the circle , A circle from which she will not know the way to escape or come out...indecisive, weak n hesitant and it will be Arnav , the Arjun who will lead her out of the vicious circle.. who will hold her hand and fetch her out from the toxicity !!
Although Arnav leads her out, Is their bond so strong as to avert the bitter after effects of the past or will their Love succumb to the past and be vanquished ...???
This is where Anjali assumes significance once again, Anjali, the woman who always keeps them together .. Anjali who always was a conduit of understanding between this two orphans and again it will be Anjali who steps forward... When things seem bleak , Anjali sends Khushi to the store room to search for the thing that she had lost ...the thing that was her Mother's, ..Khushi leaves in search of the elusive object, the conch /Shankh !!!
Khushi enters into her heart , in her mind , her heart and mind churning with conflicting emotions , the pureness of her heart tinged with anger ... blows away the dirt/ the hatred / the pain that was rusting her, debilitating her .. she finds her locked heart ..opens it ..to her delight she first finds Ganesha.. who removes the obstacles that prevents her from reaching out to Arnav ... She picks on the silver objects... Silver possessed with the unique ability to ward off negative energy !! .. She finds red colored cloth, the color red, mark of suhagan, the mark of life, of love, of passion ... then slowly comes the conch in the purest white, the whiteness suggesting at the innocence , the restoration of love, Conch which symbolizes purity , the conch which will clear all the noxious fumes from her love...Khushi successfully finds the love that she had briefly lost, Khushi finds herself , her future , her love with the blessings of her Mother in Law and she is lead to the Golden tree by the daughter of the Pure Mother /Pure wife, who helps her in regaining her paradise that she had briefly lost !!
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NK comes up with his Insightful Analysis ; Please enjoy his take here
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/62616382
SUL Is back with a Bang in her lavender Suit, check her out;
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/3138160?pn=21
Read Anu's post here;
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/3138160?pn=16
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