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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 11:21am | IP Logged
Originally posted by suresh555

After all the struggle Gulabia went through to make Sugni realize the truth and each time TVS making her out to be a liar by hiding Riwa, how can anyone blame Gulabia for getting angry after TVS's reality is finally revealed to Sugni.TVS even created a wall between the mother-daughter who were so close at one time.

TVS is less of a victim here than Sugni and Gulabia. TVS has broken the both these women's faith. Sugni trusted TVS more than a god and Gulabia trusted him to make her daughter's dreams come true until she came across his deceit. His intentions may be good for Sugni but his lies have hurt her badly, so Gulabia has every right as a mother to explode IMO





I agree!  I mean, I understand that a lot of people like TVS...I do as well.  BUT what he did was definitely wrong.  Gulabiya is definitely going to be mad...especially since she has pent up frustration because nobody would believe her.  

A lot of people are saying that Gulabiya never said or defended her daughter before...but you have to take the circumstances at that time into consideration.  Rai dance was their mean of obtaining food.  They have NEVER gone without doing it...so they didn't know how life would be if they didn't do Rai.  Also, Gulabiya kept saying that Sugni will dance one day because she pretty much would put it off.  She, at the time, didn't want to actually face the facts and make a decision...so she naturally kept putting it off and telling people that Sugni will dance one day in order to get the people off her back.  When Sugni took Gulabiya's place to do the Rai dance...Gulabiya made the decision that she didn't want Sugni to dance and hence, tried her best to stop Sugni.  Now after all of that...if a Thakur comes and promises to make all of Sugni's dreams come true...obviously Gulabiya is going to have doubts.  Instead of getting rid of her doubts, she comes face to face with a truth that only confirms it...only to have it rejected by everyone.  No one was ready to believe her.  If this was happening to my daughter...I would have probably been even more furious...with my daughter and her so called fiance.  

All in all, I don't see what is wrong with what Gulabiya did.  Sure...TVS is a human and made a mistake...but he broke everyone's trust...you can't expect everyone to just be quiet or be more respectful to him...it makes sense that Sugni throws the ring at him...even if it is his Mom's ring.  At that time, she definitely is NOT going to think rationally.  

After all, EVERYONE is only human...not just TVS, but also Gulabiya and Sugni.  


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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 11:27am | IP Logged
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I have been irritating by G for a while. Now that truth is out she can go back to her dancing job and what future does S has now. She is stupid. She was acting like she is thakuran herself. Truth is she slept with thakur for money to feed her family. Now it is strange hearing parvachans from her. She needs to get lost and take sugani with her.

forget about sleeping for 100rs.
she was ready to get selled again to vikrams uncle
i dont knw what happiness she get by getting selled to difft men for money but cant c her daughter getting married to a guy who loves her,respects her,supports her and fights with whole society for her daughter but still she prefers getting her daughter do rai and sardakai but not marriage.
shame on gulabiya
hope no one in the world get such type of mother


Really?  Gulabiya chose to get sold to save everyone from starving to death instead of having her daughter sold...which is the custom in their culture...and you are saying that she is a bad Mother.  After the way Sugni treated her Mom...most people would expect Gulabiya to stay quiet...and say "I told you so!" after the truth was out.  She definitely does NOT want Sugni to be sold...she won't even force her to do the Rai dance.  Gulabiya does not want her to become a secondary wife.  A second wife in society is considered to be illegal AND they refer to her as a rakhel...which is the same as getting sold.  

I hope everyone gets a Mother like her...including you.  I hope all of the Mothers think of their daughter's happiness even after enduring all of the disrespect  that everyone, including the daughter, has given her.  

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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 11:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by pyar-ishk

Gulabiya stopped showing respect Vik the moment he confess his love for Sugni, so am sorry he didn't break any trust of Gulabiya. As mom and daughter relations breaking again that was all Gulabiya doing not Vik

Oh please Gulabiya didn't do anything to bring Reva out at the wedding it was all Vik. Tell me who in that place would've believed a bedni over a Thakurmaalik. Even Adi & Gulabiya was shock Vik actually brought Reva out.

No here is questioning Gulabiya love for Sugni but the point here now go console your daughter from this heart break, by hugging Sugni and letting her know she's there and love her no matter what. Not screaming I told you so and shouting at TVS like he owed her something .

I'm glad Vik answer by saying he doesn't care what anyone think and the only ones he owes explanations is his love & responsibility.

Vikram only brought Reva out because of Adi.  He had no intention of doing that before Adi pretty much forced him.  His only choice was to tell the truth himself...or have Adi tell it.  

Also...Adi would have never gotten to Reva if Gulabiya hadn't shown him Reva's purse.  SO Gulabiya is the one to bring the truth out and save her daughter.

AND Sugni made the decision to get married even without her Mother.  Many Mother's would have just disowned their daughters...and now after the truth is out...you expect her to immediately go and comfort Sugni?  and besides...she doesn't get mad at Sugni...which is a huge deal!

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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 11:40am | IP Logged
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I don't understand why people are taking Mama, Mami, and Vikram's sister's sides in their arguments in order to condemn Gulabiya's and Sugni's actions!!  These are the same characters which have completely insulted Sugni and supported those who are wrong (such as Saroj Thakurain).




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I can understand Vikram's predicament...but he took a bad decision of hiding the truth.  I'm not saying that he is evil.  I'm not even insulting him personally in any of the arguments nor am I saying that Vikram and Sugni do not belong together.  In fact, I'm not liking the new Adi.  But what Vikram did...is wrong. 


I am only defending what Gulabiya and Sugni have done.  


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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 11:48am | IP Logged
It was very unbecoming and undignfied to have thrown the ring the way Sugni did in the pre-cap. Granted you are upset with the person who has wronged you but to throw a way the ring of the mother of the man whom you loved is insulting his mother indirectly and that is not OK. Two wrongs do not make a right and this was completely off-putting to me.

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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 11:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Vinnie79

As some one pointed out...maybe Gulabiya is a little jealous of the relationship Sugni_Vickram has, or maybe she dose not understand the concept.  Note the way she was looking when TVS told JIJI he would not stand ANYONE saying anything  bad about  Sugni, she was preplexed., she is constantly  telling Sugni there are only 2 types of relationship between a thakur and a bedini,  convenently forgetting she is standing in a marriage madap?,.  TVS had Sugni in that house for how many days  and he  could have had his way with her a long time ago!
 All she was concerned about was proving to Sugni that "LOOK I TOLD YOU SO!" 
JiJI  made a valid point, where would Sugni be??? Guliabya could not stop her when she went to dance...she could not defend her in front of the panchayat,  she never came out and BOLDLY defend her daughter when the other bedinis asked when she would dance...gulabiya response was "she will ...one day!"  She should have proudly said " MY DAUGHTER WON"T EVER" She went so far as to physically hit Sugni for havinf the guts to talk  Answer Jwala!!!, because he was the one providing them with food, also with that incident, she did not believe that Sugni was at fault , until the girl came to thank Sugni for saving her!!!
  She is so blinded about wanting to be preved right she dose not realized she just took her daughter out of the pot to throw her into the fire!



just my thoughts there...absolutely true Vinnie...
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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 11:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by XAiShBaBy08X

I can't believe that people are taking Mama, Mami, and Vikram's sister's sides in their arguments in order to condemn Gulabiya's and Sugni's actions!!

Have I entered a different world or something?  At least make a decent argument.  AND plz...in order to defend Vikram...do not insult all of the Mothers out there by saying that Gulabiya is a bad Mother.  




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I can understand Vikram's predicament...but he took a bad decision of hiding the truth.  I'm not saying that he is evil.  I'm not even insulting him personally in any of the arguments nor am I saying that Vikram and Sugni do not belong together.  In fact, I'm not liking the new Adi.  But what Vikram did...is wrong. 


I am only defending what Gulabiya and Sugni have done.  
Some people have made some very good arguments. While you might not like them, I do not believe that it is fari for you to judge them so harshly because you do not agree with them. I am rather bothered by your approach towards these posts. In the past if I were to question you in the manner that you have done with others, you have reported my posts.  I think it is unfair that you have chosen to use a such an  approach towards the arguments towards other members whilst not adhering to the same rules yourself. 
 
Aarti, I do hope that you and Ravjot address these posts.
Thank you


Edited by Laila2009 - 08 August 2012 at 11:50am

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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 12:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Laila2009

Originally posted by XAiShBaBy08X

I can't believe that people are taking Mama, Mami, and Vikram's sister's sides in their arguments in order to condemn Gulabiya's and Sugni's actions!!

Have I entered a different world or something?  At least make a decent argument.  AND plz...in order to defend Vikram...do not insult all of the Mothers out there by saying that Gulabiya is a bad Mother.  




NOTE:  
I can understand Vikram's predicament...but he took a bad decision of hiding the truth.  I'm not saying that he is evil.  I'm not even insulting him personally in any of the arguments nor am I saying that Vikram and Sugni do not belong together.  In fact, I'm not liking the new Adi.  But what Vikram did...is wrong. 


I am only defending what Gulabiya and Sugni have done.  
Some people have made some very good arguments. While you might not like them, I do not believe that it is fari for you to judge them so harshly because you do not agree with them. I am rather bothered by your approach towards these posts. In the past if I were to question you in the manner that you have done with others, you have reported my posts.  I think it is unfair that you have chosen to use a such an  approach towards the arguments towards other members whilst not adhering to the same rules yourself. 
 
Aarti, I do hope that you and Ravjot address these posts.
Thank you

True.  Everyone is supposed have the right to say what they want.  I'm not stopping anyone.  It definitely is true that I do not agree with many of the posts...but I guess I got carried away and appeared harsh in this post.  I apologize as I do not mean to upset anyone.  I will change my tone and the wording.  Thank you for identifying my mistake.

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