Posted: 08 August 2012 at 11:21am | IP Logged
Originally posted by suresh555
After all the struggle Gulabia went through to make Sugni realize the truth and each time TVS making her out to be a liar by hiding Riwa, how can anyone blame Gulabia for getting angry after TVS's reality is finally revealed to Sugni.TVS even created a wall between the mother-daughter who were so close at one time.
TVS is less of a victim here than Sugni and Gulabia. TVS has broken the both these women's faith. Sugni trusted TVS more than a god and Gulabia trusted him to make her daughter's dreams come true until she came across his deceit. His intentions may be good for Sugni but his lies have hurt her badly, so Gulabia has every right as a mother to explode IMO
I agree! I mean, I understand that a lot of people like TVS...I do as well. BUT what he did was definitely wrong. Gulabiya is definitely going to be mad...especially since she has pent up frustration because nobody would believe her.
A lot of people are saying that Gulabiya never said or defended her daughter before...but you have to take the circumstances at that time into consideration. Rai dance was their mean of obtaining food. They have NEVER gone without doing it...so they didn't know how life would be if they didn't do Rai. Also, Gulabiya kept saying that Sugni will dance one day because she pretty much would put it off. She, at the time, didn't want to actually face the facts and make a decision...so she naturally kept putting it off and telling people that Sugni will dance one day in order to get the people off her back. When Sugni took Gulabiya's place to do the Rai dance...Gulabiya made the decision that she didn't want Sugni to dance and hence, tried her best to stop Sugni. Now after all of that...if a Thakur comes and promises to make all of Sugni's dreams come true...obviously Gulabiya is going to have doubts. Instead of getting rid of her doubts, she comes face to face with a truth that only confirms it...only to have it rejected by everyone. No one was ready to believe her. If this was happening to my daughter...I would have probably been even more furious...with my daughter and her so called fiance.
All in all, I don't see what is wrong with what Gulabiya did. Sure...TVS is a human and made a mistake...but he broke everyone's trust...you can't expect everyone to just be quiet or be more respectful to him...it makes sense that Sugni throws the ring at him...even if it is his Mom's ring. At that time, she definitely is NOT going to think rationally.
After all, EVERYONE is only human...not just TVS, but also Gulabiya and Sugni.
Edited by XAiShBaBy08X - 08 August 2012 at 1:23pm