Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon


Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

Arnav Cares for Khushi-3 SIGNS

VasantiLad IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 7:31pm | IP Logged
As soon as Arnav walked into the house & he caught sight of his Dadi Angry'his eyes clouded over with pain as he walked up to her. His natural reticence disappeared under the aura of this elderly relative. His reluctance is palpable & he pays his respect by touching her feet. You can almost touch the hurt written plainly on his face whist he is probably reliving past painful memories that revolved around his Dadi.


I wanted to high-light why this episode was so important & why I felt compelled to dissect the positive signs conveyed with actions & words by Arnav. This is what everything is been leading up to. This is how he has changed through the circumstances that he has been placed in. This is how you get to acknowledge his concern & love for his Khushi'''''Heart


HeartFirst Sign ' when Nani encourages both Arnav & Khushi to take the blessings from Dadi & take their arshivaad- the first thing he does when Dadi moves her foot away from Khushi's hand & only touches his head is look directly over to gauge his wife's reaction. At this point he is far more concerned about her feelings than anything else. He somehow cannot believe what has just occurred as he watches the elderly lady walk away.


HeartSecond sign- as he stands in his bedroom very deep in thought & Khushi walks up to him to try & pacify him as she tries to explain away her Dadi-in-law's antagonistic behaviour towards her. She makes a lot of excuses for her behaviour as she feels that this make him feel better as she senses his disturbance. Failing to get any reaction from him she feels that he silently blames her as well ( why would she feel any different if past misdemeanours are anything to go by!!). When he sees that she is genuinely upset after lifting her chin & on seeing her apprehension &  her eyes welling up heavily with tears he immediately sits next to her. Next comes one of the most ground breaking poignant moments ' ASR HAS HEART- moments as he takes full blame for their forced marriage & the fact that he compromised her position

"kisi ko pata ho ya na ho ' me aacha tara se janta hun, ke jis tara hi hamari shaadi huvi- usme tumari koi galti nahi !"  This made Khushi look at him in wonder as she cannot believe that after all this time he has actually admitted that he was at fault ' "Maine tune majboor kiya tha'.iske liye ek second ub sub ko apne apko per responsibility mut thero".


What was really ironic next is that he gives a characterisation of his Dadi in order to explain why she reacted as she did. Behind this analysis you can tell that there is a deep & meaningful past that he refers to. BUT hold on ' as he describes her ' does she not sound like someone ' a carbon copy in fact- you could have been describing yourself there!! Dadi looks at everything solely from her own viewpoint- isn't willing to face the truth- only understands what she wants to- & expects everyone to see things her way only & those that do not adhere to her way then they are immediately in the wrong. We kinda know where ASR gets his autocratic ways from now!!!


Khushi makes a move & actually places a hand on his shoulder once again to placate & comfort him & asks him why he looks as if he is hurting so much!! She tries to dig in & ascertain the reasons why there would be a misunderstanding between him & his Dadi. She pleads with him to confide in her. Then comes the GEM of what all marriages should be about- the sharing of problems & secrets ' about having shoulders to lean on'..& as he walks away she realises that although she is close in certain respects unfortunately though she is still a stranger to him!!


Next as we get the MAHA CONFRONTATION between Dadi & Arnav ' I have to admit that Barun excelled himself & its this scene that has catapulted him back into the good books of all those fans that had been criticising him heavily (hasten to add that this did not include myself!!). This is so well portrayed & emoted just through subtle body language & facial expression & very expressive eyes & a pain filled dialogue. Phenomenal acting.


When Dadi criticises him for his hasty marriage without any relatives' presence he literally throws it back in her face & asks her how she has the right to question him when she refused to see him when he went to fetch her & yet she demands answers today. He challenges her right to ask these questions & why he should supply any answers for his actions. He says all this whilst holding himself in check as he suffers for the pain she has caused him in the past by having refused to even come & meet her young grandson who had suffered the loss of his mother through a very tragic event. Barun plays this scene magnificently by the way- incase you did not notice.


When he gets likened to his father ' again we see that there is cause for another reason that there were rifts between them for past misconceptions. You see Arnav's barely contained anger as he turns around with his back to his Dadi as he clenches his jaw full of angst. One of the boldest bravest statements is made thereafter where he insists that no-one is allowed to mention his father's name in this house under any circumstance. I would imagine that he blames his father for the action that his mother took that made them orphans!! He insists with finality again ' " Dadi shayad apne theek ne suna nahi? Is ghar mein- koi bee unka naam ley ' muje passand nahi hey" ' one of the best delivered lines ever- accentuated word by word ' slowly & precisely whilst the eyes are moist & oozing with pain

 Photo: Dadi V/s ASR...Who will winofcourse our arnie...<3<3
HeartThird Sign ' When Dadi is trying to defend her position & she spots Khushi about to step into her bedroom ' she stops her & Arnav turns his back on her. He makes a bold statement where he choses his wife & wishes to stand next to her OUTSIDE the bedroom. This really annoys Dadi because he has walked away whilst she is in mid-speech.

 Arnav says something that proves to Khushi that he is truly with her ' by her side through thick & thin- that he has always been there for her. She stands there truly amazed & you can see the shock & wonder of the moment for her as she stands & watches him make a stand against his formidable Dadi.

"Jahan meri Patni nahi aasakti- muje nahi lagta ke wahan meri jaroorat hein, main yahin thi sunra hoon 'kahiye"  and when Dadi refuses to discuss anything further in front of Khushi- he retorts  " As you wish" as if he could not care less!!

Photo: ♥♥ DIALOUG OF THE DAY ♥♥Jaha Meri Patni Nahi Aa Sakti,Waha Meri Koi Jaroorat nahi...♥:)Hit like if u love his dialouge...ASR U ROCKED IT...♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
That statement capitalises everything that should have been said after the kidnap & everything else that followed there after. It shows that he has learnt how precious she is to him!!
 I think though that the battle lines have been set & there should be some very interesting tracks to follow. Bravo ' brilliant explanations & acting & dialogue. Great job all round.

Photo: Precap:7/8/2012:.Arnav wakes suddenly from sleep.Khushi gets worried & gets up & asks what happend.Arnav answers nothing & goes from there.Khushi worried..What would be his dream any guesses???(F.arny)



 Please take time to read my post - been a while but felt adventurous today & like &/or comment!!!

Edited by VasantiLad - 07 August 2012 at 7:38pm

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sami_qt Goldie

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 7:39pm | IP Logged
Awesome post...Clap

Their past is drivin me crazy... I'm goin mad... Just want to no...
arhifan_lover Groupbie

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 7:41pm | IP Logged
beautiful analysis...
inajnar Goldie

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 7:48pm | IP Logged
A very beautifully written post. Enjoyed reading !!Smile
innocentgreen Goldie

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 7:50pm | IP Logged
u wrote this so well. Barun sobti rocks as ASR.
Mariam_Sultan IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 7:50pm | IP Logged
Great to see Arnav supporting Khushi!Day Dreaming
 Khushi, indeed a lamb in a lion's den and Arnav will protect her.
so sweet to see his love , care and passion toward his wife ,
this serial are going to make me mad about it ,
very interesting tracks
and talented cast ,
hats of to Arshi .Clap

Edited by Mariam_Sultan - 07 August 2012 at 9:47pm

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Josupra Senior Member

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 7:52pm | IP Logged
beautiful & detailed analysis.. loved the episode
--drama_queen-- IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 7:53pm | IP Logged

hey do u have the link for 2days precap ( youtube link )?????????/

if so, thn can u plzzz give it to me?

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