Daadi - a strong character in IPK. Edit - Page 9 - Page 3

Originally posted by: sree07

Khushi baby - Doncha worry, Stay put. Its not your battle. So don't start with daadi wooing track. You will end up in soup. She is just not your cup of tea. Its arnav's hot cup of coffee.  Hugs 🤗

Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi

Nice post...Swati Chitnis is wonderful, have always liked her. Seen her time and again in stage plays and her presence is capturing.

Coming to ur post. I have to disagree (well not really) abt Nani. What I mean is just want to point a few things out. I think Nani is also a very confident woman but she is not dominating. I think both Devayani and Subhadra devi are confident women. But I feel Nani is more confident than Dadi. Let me explain y . If u for a minute keep aside the body language and look at actions u will see that when the ride was riddled with bumps, jerks and nasty surprises dadi got off the boat. She left two kids Arnav and anjali and left to deal with her sorrows but Nani who also had lost a daughter stood firm on her feet and to support her grandchildren. She did not chose to escape she stood there with them through heart break, sorrow  to give these two a life inspite of her daugthers death. That shows a strong woman she would not have been able to so if she lacked confidence.

In dadi nani convo I liked Nani today not bcos she sided with Arshi but bcos she was looking at a situation in totality. When needed she did not back of from showing a formidable opponent like dadi that she was wrong. 

Her subtle manner and body language to me conveyed a woman who has stood the test of time and knows what it takes to keep a family together.

On the other hand dadi seemed more like my way or the high way person. She would not have it in her too look at all family members accept their faults yet hold them together.

Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi

@ bold I so hope khushi listens to this advice of urs will do her so much good to stand aside for a while

Originally posted by: sprinkle2

good post

Originally posted by: sree07

That was a very nice argument. I think I would have to agree to this.😳

I was considering only the confrontation with ASR. I did not consider the whole picture.

May be Naani they show as a loving and sweet lady, I do not feel her as a strong character as such recently. But after the kidnapping track she is the only one in RM with a sane mind. She confronted arnav to know the reason, she comforted khushi, she showed maami her place many times, she took care of anjali well. Indeed a thoughtful person and a woman with mettle.

But I guess I was referring to that aspect of the character where people stop and listen to what you say. Naani does not have that authority I would say. 

Originally posted by: sree07

LOL No way... Khushi being khushi will defenitely try for world peace and will end up participating in a world war as i said before.😆

Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi

@ bold yes I agree in short term often ppl who are assertive/aggressive do get attention but often times its the subtle confident ppl who look at a situation as whole and do what is right for everyone walk away with the cake and gain trust, tats what I admire abt nani.