My response to Shaheer's reasons (Page 2)

appu_12 Goldie

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 2:00pm | IP Logged

 Smita, Thank You,  this was a much needed post at this juncture of truth & lie, pretence & faith, a point when there is so much turmoil & mistrust' I am at a loss too after reading the conversation that Nimmis source had with Shaheer. Each & every reason that he gave for leaving twitter & deactivating his account was fully justified & was proof enough of fans crossing the fine line between being a true fan and a fanatic.  Somewhere down the line we forgot  the actual meaning of the" love & respect that we pledged to them",  we forgot the  humane quality in us and that each person whether a commoner or a celebrity deserves to be treated fair, & we have no right to take decisions on their behalf."

But what hurt me was that along with all these valid allegations against the fans not even once did he appreciate the love, & support that he got from the fans  constantly  who the least to say used everything in their power to  cheer him up even when he felt low.  At the same time, as Smita said, he could have used this opportunity to clear a lot of confusions amongst fans regarding various 'speculations' about his professional/personal life which he is aware of. & he chose not to. This "not clearing the air" by Shaheer now & also before deactivaing his T a/c leave a feeling of hurt somewhere. However, me, a fan, respect that decision too as we surely don't know the whole story or reasons behind it.  As a fan, who  fully trusts SS2 I would assume that indeed there were some very relevant factors which stopped him to do so.. and in due course of time we would come to know all.

A lot of speculations are going on now even regarding the truth behind the contents of this post. I just think that since I believed the older posts made by the TM where she gave information about SS2 on sets that made us so happy and I chose to believe her that time, now too I should be  not be biased and mistrust her. Moreover, IMO, she would not make such a post using Shaheers words if there was no truth in it  knowing well that the actors visit the Forum sometimes too!

I believe in my instincts & in "Shamya", so instead of trying to give my judgement about them being right or wrong or them hurting/ decieving us or not I would also store my judgement for future till I hear anything from SS2 directly or till my faith is completely disproved by their own words/actions. Till then I would be neutral & keep my faith and hope that all would be fine at the "right time".  So, all said & done I would like to keep my trust on Shamya intact, giving them some Time, Space & Patience which they might be really in need at this moment.

Edited by appu_12 - 07 August 2012 at 2:10pm

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-Divya.S- IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 2:07pm | IP Logged
i agree with ua each and every point smita, but juz a qtn did he knew that his convo wth tht person is gng to b shared here..

Edited by -diva-shamya- - 07 August 2012 at 2:51pm

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-Sara. IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 2:46pm | IP Logged
Agree! Much needed post.

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navanfan Groupbie

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 6:50pm | IP Logged
Thank You everyone. I appreciate your POV.

They say, a person should be assumed to be innocent until proven guilty. Similarly, I believe we ought to give Shaheer & Somya the benefit of doubt until they clear the air themselves & come out clean. I say this not only for the speculations abt their personal lives, but also for the buzz surrounding their future projects.

The truth has to come out some day & it will. It might take longer than we all can wait, but it definitely won't take forever.

All we need to do is try to be more positive, patient, tolerant & open-minded. I know its easier said than done, but this is the only way we can trust them & give them their personal space during the wait & watch period.

Edited by navanfan - 07 August 2012 at 8:21pm

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parul_anya Goldie

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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 12:51am | IP Logged
Thank You, Smita Di, for the much needed post... Yesterday, I shared everything on Twitter... and I wanted to share it because, I have been under a Turmoil of my own thoughts from the past weeks and this had to ooze out one day, and that was Yesterday...
                             I have some, Simple Questions about certain things, Which are difficult to answer...

1. Shaheer says, that he Deactivated his account because Negativity was surrounding him and people were not happy about certain things, concerning with him. My Q is: Positivity and Negativity are a part of life. One needs to face them and Figure out where the fault lies, Just running away from the confusion is not the solution... A single tweet Could have said and done the thing, IMO!

2. Shaheer is not happy about People bashing Smilie Suri and Sana Sheikh. I fully agree with him that no one can take bashing of yourself and your friends... Kudos!! But then, why reacting Today? According to him, Bashing started with the start of Navya, then why kept mum for One and a Half year? If he really care for his friends he would have Stopped the bashing by Fans, in some way or the other... He could have and He should have... Why DEACTIVATING THE ACCOUNT when Navya is no more on air? All of Us know that people or Fans bilndly Follow or Do what Shaheer Tweets, and I am sure they would have stopped Bashing if he would have reacted earlier... Infact, Sana provoked the fans to bash her by tweeting certain things During #SaveNavya1... Instead, claering by himself, Sana Sheikh tweeted and deleted later: "Its unbelieveble about how people can think that On Screen couples can be Real Life couples too." What is this? Cant Shaheer just come out from his shell and Speak out!!!

3. Now comes the topic of Direct tweets to him and Somya... He says that he do not like the Direct Tweets sent to them by fans, under the assumption of fantasy, that they are dating... I just want to say that, Be it Fims or TV, Its always the fans and Media who create assumptions and Speculate about a particular Celebrity couple, and Everytime, the concerned people come out and clarify about the speculations when they come across rumours about themselves...Then Why not here? A certain On Screen TV Couple has denied dating each other and cleared the air recently. If they can, why cant Shaheer- Somya? Why fool the fans then? Why add Fuel to the fire by tweeting and replying on FB that gave us direct hints?? And I m very hurt about the fact that they used to Joke about our tweets on the sets...

Just Deactivating your account or Going Off to Twitter is not the Solution... Instead, come out and put a Full Stop about all the Rumours surrounding your Personal/Professional Life!!!

4. I agree Shaheer Somya have always supported us... right from save navya... and so have we... then why ESCAPING today, when Fans are in need of a Genuine Clarification??? 

5. Now coming to Nimmi's post. Earlier, everyone used to support her when she posted about ShaMya's closeness on the sets and used to celebrate. Infact, they used to wait for her next post, Everyone used to give confirmation that all her posts are genuine and true... and now, the very same clan is denying everything after yesterday's post. Whyy???

I dont know who is at fault here actually... But One thing is for sure, Both Fans and Shaheer Somya are equal Partners in this crime...

I wrote what all I wanted to.. and this is completely my POV... I will not comment anything on Shaheer Somya front... All I can say is... Wait and watch!!! 

Edited by parul_anya - 08 August 2012 at 1:03am

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Noaddict IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 1:04am | IP Logged
Superb Parul! I agree to each n every point u say!

As Karan Tacker said in his TOI interview : "I think it is the media's job to link two people who are close. And it is our job to come out with the truth and the truth is, nothing is happening," .

All those things whether its direct tweets, bashing of Sana n Smilie have been happening for a long time now (By saying this,I don't support them) but my point is, Why now??Why does those things start to bother a person now just coz the connecting factor, the show, Navya is over???Ouch

Like I said, as people who have supported them with all the precious time, leaving aside families n all, I never expected this.Ouch

Edited by Noaddict - 08 August 2012 at 1:12am

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asihaseen IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 1:16am | IP Logged
Thank you so much.This was definitely a much needed one.I am agree with your each and every words.Shaheer and Soumya are very simple and genuine  persons.There might be many other facts that we are unaware of.They will never  want to hurt their fans. please don't come to a conclusion suddenly.and blame them.Let us wait till their clarification.

Edited by asihaseen - 08 August 2012 at 1:40am

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divyasn IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 1:37am | IP Logged
Fully Agree with Parul  .
And he is telling that we didnt respect his friends.  I am asking did he respect . If he had respected or cared he wouldnt have left those 2 ladies suffer all the bashing while he enjoyed all the fan adulation .  Especially when the only reasons they were bashed were his relationship to them .

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