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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 12:31pm | IP Logged
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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 12:33pm | IP Logged
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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 12:36pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by JerryTheMouse

Great post Annie! And eat responses! 

Unfortunately, yes this still does happen! And many times people choose to stay within the familial bonds too and still manage to treat others with respect. 

Growing up, I saw many extended relative treating hired help differently. Making different, cheaper rice for them, the daal being watery, not enough vegetables to eat, having separate utensils... Crappy behavior. I'm proud that my parents never ascribed to that, and they taught me, that individuals who treat others in that manner are not worth my time, meaning i should not put weight in what they say. But I still had to outwardly give them respects, ie when I see these so called elder, touch their feet, and address them with respect. As a teenager I used to balk at that. But I was also shown how I can still treat the said targeted hired help with respect too, and show the "elder" thru my behavior. And I did. And took glee in their horrified expressions. Since it was important to my parents that I don't disrespect their extended family, I didn't. But I was taught to show my displeasure. And I did. 

As for poor daughter in law, that happens too. When the male has the attitude that women are subservient, and that disagreements between mother in law and daughter in law are best left to them, he is giving the power to the so called stronger person. In some cases the mother in law, or the sister in law. And in some cases the daughter in law. The MIL thinks that she can say whatever and the son won't interfere, and she can now show the DIL who is the queen. Or vice versa. 

As for the show, I kind of thought it was very smart of the CVs to bring in  dadi. This way, they can have a hateful character, keep up the TRPs and all. But more importantly, they don't have to show Arnav on his knees, begging for forgiveness. Thei way, they can show the couple working thru their demons together and redeeming himself. Khushi's demons being the treatment meted out to her at RM by all and sundry. And Arnav's past being him demons. Do I like it, not really. Do I want my pound of flesh, well, it would be nice to show that abject behavior has consequences. But, then again, maybe I am hoping do too much. 

At this time, I'll be happy if they show that dadi's attitudes are so wrong, and that they need to be changed. Coz I believe that even shining a light on the issue is one step in the right direction. 

Thank you for the post and the PM! 

P.S. I'm usually not online these times, and hence sporadic in my comments on other posts. Please accept apologies. 
Hi JTM long time no see
Hope you are well.
 
Congratulations and well done on being a good daughter
Your parents are sound and sane people to have instilled such values in you
To juggle both aspects is not easy but you seem to have accomplished it
 
I shudder at some MILs. I would have run away from home I think
At the best of times I am not good at being dictated to
I am very much my own person
That does not mean I disrespect but I do not bow down to anyone
 
Lets hope some good will materialise from the horrendous dadi's presence
We can but hope
 

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 12:42pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by zenjoe

Whoa! Annie you asked too many questions! I am incapable of answering many since I am now watching the show strictly on episode basis and I liked today's 23 minutes enough to speak my mind. I have given up on Khushi, the CVs, even ASR; anything positive is now a welcome change from the frequent crap. IPK is making me practice one more nirvana gyan- Live in the present momentLOL

ASR rising to the occasion was a 'finally dude, you woke up to your manhood' moment. His acceptance of the fact that his marriage to Khushi was not her fault and that he forced her into it was a little too late. Nonetheless, it came and I am glad. I think that was a 'sorry' from him and I don't expect anything more from his so called 'redemption' (after bashing, this is one word I SO dislike!)

Daadi seems to have supported Arnav's father in his wrongdoings and may have meted out injustice to 'woh aurat' she mentioned repeatedly. So yeah, she could be party to ASR's hurtful past.

Star Plus one moment brings out an episode against untouchability and caste system in Satyamev Jayate and the other moment it brings out the same issue on one of it's prime time shows in this way!Confused Nayi Soch it is and I shall leave it at that!Shocked

I shall share more as and when my mind can churn out some sense Smile
Hi zenjoeSmile
 
How else am I going to learn if I don't ask the pertinent questions!!Tongue
 I am convinced there will be no redemption nor any remorse
This story is gathering momento to expose the blighted past that has this family trapped in this manner of reprehensible behaviour
 
Please do continue sharing!

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 12:57pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by enigma17

Originally posted by JerryTheMouse

Great post Annie! And eat responses! 

Unfortunately, yes this still does happen! And many times people choose to stay within the familial bonds too and still manage to treat others with respect. 

Growing up, I saw many extended relative treating hired help differently. Making different, cheaper rice for them, the daal being watery, not enough vegetables to eat, having separate utensils... Crappy behavior. I'm proud that my parents never ascribed to that, and they taught me, that individuals who treat others in that manner are not worth my time, meaning i should not put weight in what they say. But I still had to outwardly give them respects, ie when I see these so called elder, touch their feet, and address them with respect. As a teenager I used to balk at that. But I was also shown how I can still treat the said targeted hired help with respect too, and show the "elder" thru my behavior. And I did. And took glee in their horrified expressions. Since it was important to my parents that I don't disrespect their extended family, I didn't. But I was taught to show my displeasure. And I did. 

As for poor daughter in law, that happens too. When the male has the attitude that women are subservient, and that disagreements between mother in law and daughter in law are best left to them, he is giving the power to the so called stronger person. In some cases the mother in law, or the sister in law. And in some cases the daughter in law. The MIL thinks that she can say whatever and the son won't interfere, and she can now show the DIL who is the queen. Or vice versa. 

As for the show, I kind of thought it was very smart of the CVs to bring in  dadi. This way, they can have a hateful character, keep up the TRPs and all. But more importantly, they don't have to show Arnav on his knees, begging for forgiveness. Thei way, they can show the couple working thru their demons together and redeeming himself. Khushi's demons being the treatment meted out to her at RM by all and sundry. And Arnav's past being him demons. Do I like it, not really. Do I want my pound of flesh, well, it would be nice to show that abject behavior has consequences. But, then again, maybe I am hoping do too much. 

At this time, I'll be happy if they show that dadi's attitudes are so wrong, and that they need to be changed. Coz I believe that even shining a light on the issue is one step in the right direction. 

Thank you for the post and the PM! 

P.S. I'm usually not online these times, and hence sporadic in my comments on other posts. Please accept apologies. 
Hi JTM long time no see
Hope you are well.
 
Congratulations and well done on being a good daughter
Your parents are sound and sane people to have instilled such values in you
To juggle both aspects is not easy but you seem to have accomplished it
 
I shudder at some MILs. I would have run away from home I think
At the best of times I am not good at being dictated to
I am very much my own person
That does not mean I disrespect but I do not bow down to anyone
 
Lets hope some good will materialise from the horrendous dadi's presence
We can but hope
 

Hey Annie! 

Thanks. 

Have been having health issues. Hence sporadic here. Thank you. 

Now, after being married, and having a child of my own, and living on my own, I won't tolerate this either. When I was younger, it was important to my parents. So I did it only for them. And I wasn't happy, but I made a choice. Confused

You are right, we can but hope that something good will come out of this... 

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 1:33pm | IP Logged
Hi Annie and everybody,

Awesome post and I love the title. It was a clash of titans for sure. (By the way, Titans is our state's official football team's name, so I love that name)

1) A big round of applause for Naniji for telling Dadiji about responsibilities today. She was absolutely right in saying that ASR and Anji were her responsibilities. She just nailed it today.ClapThreeStarStarStar for Naniji- woman of the day.

2) A big round of applause for ASR for telling Dadiji that he tried to meet her so many times but she just shunted him. She didn't want to see his face and now why is she asking these questions? ClapClap for ASR too.

3) I loved how he admitted to KKGSR that she is not to be blamed for this marriage. Smile Haven't we waited for this moment? However, I just loved it more when he went up and stood up next to KKGSR when Dadiji was talking. That was rude but rudeness beateth rudeness here. After that, the dialogue which ASR gave in favor of KKGSR was my favorite moment.  Thumbs UpThumbs Up KKGSR's expressions were superb at this moment and the way she looked at his face was Wink

NK was sweet as usual and what a friend he has been to KKGSR.Clap

Looks like we are finally going to know about ASR's past.
Well, the good thing is he doesn't have to deal with it all alone. He has KKGSR at his side who will help him to deal with this nightmare.

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 1:36pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by JerryTheMouse

Originally posted by enigma17

Originally posted by JerryTheMouse

Great post Annie! And eat responses! 

Unfortunately, yes this still does happen! And many times people choose to stay within the familial bonds too and still manage to treat others with respect. 

Growing up, I saw many extended relative treating hired help differently. Making different, cheaper rice for them, the daal being watery, not enough vegetables to eat, having separate utensils... Crappy behavior. I'm proud that my parents never ascribed to that, and they taught me, that individuals who treat others in that manner are not worth my time, meaning i should not put weight in what they say. But I still had to outwardly give them respects, ie when I see these so called elder, touch their feet, and address them with respect. As a teenager I used to balk at that. But I was also shown how I can still treat the said targeted hired help with respect too, and show the "elder" thru my behavior. And I did. And took glee in their horrified expressions. Since it was important to my parents that I don't disrespect their extended family, I didn't. But I was taught to show my displeasure. And I did. 

As for poor daughter in law, that happens too. When the male has the attitude that women are subservient, and that disagreements between mother in law and daughter in law are best left to them, he is giving the power to the so called stronger person. In some cases the mother in law, or the sister in law. And in some cases the daughter in law. The MIL thinks that she can say whatever and the son won't interfere, and she can now show the DIL who is the queen. Or vice versa. 

As for the show, I kind of thought it was very smart of the CVs to bring in  dadi. This way, they can have a hateful character, keep up the TRPs and all. But more importantly, they don't have to show Arnav on his knees, begging for forgiveness. Thei way, they can show the couple working thru their demons together and redeeming himself. Khushi's demons being the treatment meted out to her at RM by all and sundry. And Arnav's past being him demons. Do I like it, not really. Do I want my pound of flesh, well, it would be nice to show that abject behavior has consequences. But, then again, maybe I am hoping do too much. 

At this time, I'll be happy if they show that dadi's attitudes are so wrong, and that they need to be changed. Coz I believe that even shining a light on the issue is one step in the right direction. 

Thank you for the post and the PM! 

P.S. I'm usually not online these times, and hence sporadic in my comments on other posts. Please accept apologies. 
Hi JTM long time no see
Hope you are well.
 
Congratulations and well done on being a good daughter
Your parents are sound and sane people to have instilled such values in you
To juggle both aspects is not easy but you seem to have accomplished it
 
I shudder at some MILs. I would have run away from home I think
At the best of times I am not good at being dictated to
I am very much my own person
That does not mean I disrespect but I do not bow down to anyone
 
Lets hope some good will materialise from the horrendous dadi's presence
We can but hope
 

Hey Annie! 

Thanks. 

Have been having health issues. Hence sporadic here. Thank you. 

Now, after being married, and having a child of my own, and living on my own, I won't tolerate this either. When I was younger, it was important to my parents. So I did it only for them. And I wasn't happy, but I made a choice. Confused

You are right, we can but hope that something good will come out of this... 
Hope you are on the road to recovery.
Congratulations on your marriage and the baby
A very good philosophy to adhere to
Take care
Pop in and say hello when you can

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 1:42pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Tennessean

Hi Annie and everybody,

Awesome post and I love the title. It was a clash of titans for sure. (By the way, Titans is our state's official football team's name, so I love that name)

1) A big round of applause for Naniji for telling Dadiji about responsibilities today. She was absolutely right in saying that ASR and Anji were her responsibilities. She just nailed it today.ClapThreeStarStarStar for Naniji- woman of the day.

2) A big round of applause for ASR for telling Dadiji that he tried to meet her so many times but she just shunted him. She didn't want to see his face and now why is she asking these questions? ClapClap for ASR too.

3) I loved how he admitted to KKGSR that she is not to be blamed for this marriage. Smile Haven't we waited for this moment? However, I just loved it more when he went up and stood up next to KKGSR when Dadiji was talking. That was rude but rudeness beateth rudeness here. After that, the dialogue which ASR gave in favor of KKGSR was my favorite moment.  Thumbs UpThumbs Up KKGSR's expressions were superb at this moment and the way she looked at his face was Wink

NK was sweet as usual and what a friend he has been to KKGSR.Clap

Looks like we are finally going to know about ASR's past.
Well, the good thing is he doesn't have to deal with it all alone. He has KKGSR at his side who will help him to deal with this nightmare.

Thank you TSmile
Knowing nothing about football , are the Titans any good?
 
Sounds like you enjoyed today's episode
I am yet to watch with subtitles
Read the written update
 
It does seem like the story is about to unfold about ASR's past
Dadi seems to have been a big part of this upheaval
ASR does not seem to like his father much
Interesting times ahead of us

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