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Posted: 08 August 2012 at 12:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ArabellaPearl

Originally posted by paayaal

Clash of the Titans...   

Amazing isn't it, two powerful personalities, separated by a whole generation & still so similar, not only in nature but also their words & actions, especially to that one person...Khushi!!! 

Dadi has prejudged Khushi & is not likely to change her opinion about her any time soon, as witnessed by her actions today!!! Even after being informed that Khushi is Arnav's wife, her grand daughter-in-law, a Malik bahu, her animosity didn't lessen...doesn't her actions remind us of a certain someone, who had prejudged Khushi on first impression & then proceeded to make her life a living hell on every occasion they met!!!!Wink

The fact that Arnav has taken Khushi's side over his dadi is not going to endear Khushi to her any further. Though it has definitely added a feather in the repenting ASR's hat!!!

After today, Khushi has not only her loving husband Arnav by her side, but nani, Payal, & NK are in her corner too!!!! In coming days, when the true strength of relationships would be put to test, these people together, would be the ones who'll act as anchors for those who will need them the most; Anjali, dadi, and prob mamiji too (b'coz of Anji)!!!

Today's episode would be incomplete without the mention of Mrs.Devyani Singh Raizaada, naniji, Childhood friend, samdhan, & BFF to Subhadra Malik, dadi.



Again, two different women, of the same generation, but look at the difference in their outlook towards life!!! 

One, who hasn't emerged from her past, neither has she let go of all those old repressed customs, a rigid, set in her ways lady, for whom it's either her way or its the highway!!! One who has once made an opinion would not change it, she's full of ego & prejudice.

Another, a matriarch, who, though rules her clan with an iron hand, it is gloved in love, care, & concern for everyone's happiness!!! She is the lady of today, who is a keen judge of character, & is a fair person.

What raised nani's estimation in my eyes were the following pts:

1. She introduced Payal & Khushi as the new bahus of the house.
2. She was disturbed by dadi's non acceptance of Khushi as her bahu & knew Arnav would blow a fuse, so she went to handle & explain the situation.
3. Dadi blames nani for her grand children's misfortune!!! Nani looses her cool & drives a few home truths of her own. She reminds dadi of how she had abandoned her grandchildren after that incident 14+ yrs ago, & had left them in nani's care without a backward glance. She had refused any contact for years or even acknowledged them, so blaming nani was not justified!!!
4. She didn't let dadi railroad her in accepting her (dadi's) faults...it seems to be dadi's habit, blaming others for her own poor judgement & decisions.
5. Nani understood Arnav's pain, sorrow, confusion, & anger, all directed towards his dadi. She comforted him, & also calmed him down.
6. When dadi stopped Khushi from entering the room, nani got very angry.
7. Arnav's decision to walk back towards Khushi, & his declaring her 'his patni' & demanding equal repect & acknowledgement of her status for her, from dadi, earned a praising gaze from nani.
8. There was rebuke in her gaze too when ASR was confronting his dadi...nani has raised better mannered kids!!!

Edited:

Points to remember Dadiji:

1.You can't walk back after 14+ yrs & demand rights on relations, esp when you were the one to walk away from them.
2.You might be living & operating in the Dark Ages, but the world has moved on a long time ago.
3. You are now in Shantivan, Raizaada Mansion, home of Mr.Arnav Singh Raizaada & NOT in Sheesh Mahal, Malik Residence, home to a generation of Maliks!!!

Did you Notice:

On Monday, on seeing dadi, an emotional Anjali ran & hugged her, dadi on the other hand didn't even lift her arms, except told Anjali that she was unaware of her pregnancy!!! When Anjali hugged her again, she awkwardly lifts her arms to pat her back.
On Tuesday, on seeing Arnav, dadi, removes her hands from Anjali's shoulders & steps forward & open her arms to beckon & then embrace Arnav!!!

Ques: why did she do that?? Is it another of her old prejudice regarding male child & female child, or is it something else???? 


What a mind blowing episode, on so many levels!!! A complete amalgamation of a range of emotions from anger, prejudice, sorrow, blame, confusion, to love, affection, trust, camaraderie, care, understanding. The time has come to loosen the shackles of the past & move forward towards the future, unhampered!!!

Pics credit: Saaru...Hug& Pearl.





The Entire post ..beautifully written !!! loved it ...
most loved : 1.Again, two different women, of the same generation, but look at the difference in their outlook towards life!!! Clap
2.  two powerful personalities, separated by a whole generation & still so similar, not only in nature but also their words & actions, especially to that one person...Khushi!!! Clap

luv n Hug !!!






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It's nothing but a venting out of  a  frustrated Khushi fan...I've been a fan of his write-ups but sorry..Couldn't agree with his points here...
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He is right in some ways but could have worded it better. From an woman's pov..I hate khushi being treated as a punch bag..but if u look at the story..it is probably needed so that arnav realises the extent of khushi's hurt at his hands..not saying he has not realised..dadi's actions seemed a reflection of his own till sometime back..this can taken as another step towards correction of mistakes ..

Maverick is right about the doormatish attitude of the woman in Indian soaps.the modern woman seems to put off audiences..or is it that writers have created stereotypes that have imprinted itself in ppl's brains..anyway u look at it there is a need for change in the way writers approach the woman characters

 

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That I agree..But somehow he's too acerbic and I couldn't connect to his diatribe...It's a pity that writers can't do away with the doormatish attitude of women on Indian TV...It seems they deserve a sadistic pleasure projecting women as bechari...And I was disappointed...In view of the fact that no one in RM has behaved with Khushi in this way...It has been such a balanced and sensible household...To see such a Daadi...They could have taken another path!!

And he irked me with "redemption"...That one word is enough to boil my blood,period!!

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Originally posted by sarithaipkknd

another prediction****************


i think for last 2 months he is trying to kiss but at present i guess kushi wil giv and say this is wt u want..and ur shrath...ho gayeee...Big smile


*rishta wohi tune mein*...
 
Sharth wohi... kare koi...

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It's not that television world hasn't seen love stories or the Mills and Boons drama earlier; in fact such romantic tales have always scored over the regular saas-bahu drama.

Be it the love-hate tales like KutumbKitni Mohabbat HaiKaisa Yeh Pyaar Hai or the purely love based dramas such as Geet Hui Sabse Parayi or Dil Mill Gayye, they all have left a mark in the hearts of all and people still talk of the leads' chemistry from these shows.

However, one is left all stunned wondering as to why Barun Sobti aka Arnav Singh Rayzada and Sanaya Irani aka Khushi from Star Plus' Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon have turned out to be so exceptionally well as a couple on screen. The show, which has completed more than a year now, is growing leaps and bounds. The unique love tale of the arrogant business tycoon Arnav and that of the chirpy and vivacious Khushi has won hearts across the globe. Fortunately, this is one show which has even gained popularity on international grounds.

While the makers Four Lions indeed deserve accolade for the same but one can't deny the fact that the success of IPKKND is more due to the sizzling on screen chemistry between Barun and Sanaya. People in town are in complete awe of these two as a jodi and their scenes together turn out to be a treat for all. Whether they romance or fight, there is something in their chemistry which sets it apart from all.

And guess here we know what makes them so perfect on screen. Barun Sobti says that it is majorly because of the brilliant rapport they share off screen. Both of them are extremely comfortable with each other and this is what reflects in their on screen acts too. Their compatibility plays a vital role in bringing perfection to their on screen stint.

Not only Barun, the makers too agree on the same and feel that the actors being simple and modest in approach do full justice to their respective roles. Their simplicity and dedication to work is what working fine for this TV jodi. And we hope it continues to do so.

Long live this favorite Jodi of ours!

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Chalo have to leave now to pick up my son.will be back after a little while
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Chalo have to leave now to pick up my son.will be back after a little while
Bye
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It's nothing but a venting out of  a  frustrated Khushi fan...I've been a fan of his write-ups but sorry..Couldn't agree with his points here...
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He is right in some ways but could have worded it better. From an woman's pov..I hate khushi being treated as a punch bag..but if u look at the story..it is probably needed so that arnav realises the extent of khushi's hurt at his hands..not saying he has not realised..dadi's actions seemed a reflection of his own till sometime back..this can taken as another step towards correction of mistakes ..

Maverick is right about the doormatish attitude of the woman in Indian soaps.the modern woman seems to put off audiences..or is it that writers have created stereotypes that have imprinted itself in ppl's brains..anyway u look at it there is a need for change in the way writers approach the woman characters

 

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That I agree..But somehow he's too acerbic and I couldn't connect to his diatribe...It's a pity that writers can't do away with the doormatish attitude of women on Indian TV...It seems they deserve a sadistic pleasure projecting women as bechari...And I was disappointed...In view of the fact that no one in RM has behaved with Khushi in this way...It has been such a balanced and sensible household...To see such a Daadi...They could have taken another path!!

And he irked me with "redemption"...That one word is enough to boil my blood,period!!
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k I've some thoughts on Dadi's characters:

1. Shez probably from a small town in UP, where in her times the cast system was still prevalent spl in states like UP. So she has grown up seeing it & accepting it as a way of life...
2. Also she's been hibernating in an ashram for 14+ yrs, where usually people are separated from the real world, existing within the confines of the ashram without any wordly influences...so she isn't aware that the world has moved on...
3. Since she left for the ashram straight after the incident 14+ yrs ago, she might not have channelized her inner anguish & is using her attitude as a cloak to mask her real feelings!!! 

Have u noticed a similarity in dadi & Anji:Wink

Dadi firmly believes that it was 'the other woman' responsible for the incident 14+ yrs, refuses to even consider her sonz role in it...hez above reproach...
ANji has the same tunnel vision about Shyam...hez above reproach...


Edited by paayaal - 08 August 2012 at 1:03am

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