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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 11:07am | IP Logged
anandi said with honesty what she meant Smileand may be in shiv is marrying for his selfless love for her,as he wants anandi to be her wife and relations can go after faith is developed and many times love emerges with respect honour bonding and nedd also Tongue

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 11:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma

Anandi is selflessly trying to fulfil her late mother's wish and DS's wish but while doing so does she have to be so inconsiderate towards his feelings?Does end justify the means? 
Shiv is marrying her for his own reasons that he loves her and he wants to be with her.

i think anandi does not know that shiv loves her!!...also, u can call her insensitive if after all these she will cheat shiv for another person...like jaggya did with her! or if she will be a selfish DIL! but now when she has not cheated shiv how the insensitive word is fitting her? why everyone is assuming that she will be a bad wife and she will hurt shiv!? Confused

she told the truth only that why she wants to marry him! she would be insensitive if she did not tell him the truth now and shiv would have found out the truth after marriage!!


Edited by monamie111 - 07 August 2012 at 11:33am

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 11:45am | IP Logged
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I never meant that she would beat him with a stick, but even in case of arranged marriage, the girl doesnt say 'if i were given a choice, I would have never agreed to marry you' Instead of saying that if she had said that 'though I am not ready yet, I would try my level best to be a good wife and do justice to marriage..' it would have made more sense to me atleast.  

i think she was very clear that she is not doing it for shiv!! then why she has to said those words...that i will try to be a good wife!! Confused shiv knows it very well that a gal like anandi can never hurt him or his family members..even if she is compromising! then why to assume that she will not put shiv ahead of herself after marriage? Confused 

and i hope they will have more conversation before marriage..hope this is not their last conversation..who knows tomorrow may be she can say those lines!! Tongue LOL

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 12:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by monamie111

Originally posted by aparnauma

Anandi is selflessly trying to fulfil her late mother's wish and DS's wish but while doing so does she have to be so inconsiderate towards his feelings?Does end justify the means? 
Shiv is marrying her for his own reasons that he loves her and he wants to be with her.

i think anandi does not know that shiv loves her!!...also, u can call her insensitive if after all these she will cheat shiv for another person...like jaggya did with her! or if she will be a selfish DIL! but now when she has not cheated shiv how the insensitive word is fitting her? why everyone is assuming that she will be a bad wife and she will hurt shiv!? Confused

she told the truth only that why she wants to marry him! she would be insensitive if she did not tell him the truth now and shiv would have found out the truth after marriage!!
Anandi does not know that Shiv loves her.
When people get married because they want to share their life with somebody who is either their choice or their parents' choice.
Here she is asking him to marry her because she wants to fulfil other peoples' wishes not because she is interested in living with him.Her honesty appreciated.
Considering the fact that she doesn't know that he loves her shouldn't she say that she is aware of the difficult position she is putting him in and that she will try her best to fulfil her responsibilities towards him?Nobody here is assuming that she is going to be bad wife or an insensitive wife.





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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 12:12pm | IP Logged
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true...agree with you totallySmile

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 12:37pm | IP Logged
Actually, Shiv has given his word to DS and Kazaan Singh that Anandi is his responsibility...so he had to say YES to the proposal...he is in a bind to marry now...
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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 12:46pm | IP Logged
he loves her and he will marry her for the right reasons! they are compatible and they will  like each other and where couple have understanding love just happens - without understanding love cant stand - They bot are really compatible :-) soo who cares if he is marrying her for her mom's wish - they are bets togeher and must marry 

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 3:40pm | IP Logged
should shiv say yes to anandi's proposal?
Yes...because of the following reasons:
(1) his promise to ds
(2) his confession that he cd not convey the same to bhago...(while talking to khazan singh)
(3)his promise to khazan singh
(4) already accepted in deed by carrying bhago...

Should Anandi request shiv to marry her?

Yes...because of the following reasons:
(1) bhago was convinced by ds that shiv knows fully about anandi & still likes her & already expressed his "yes"to marriage n its anandi that need to be convinced...so bhago made anandi say Yes...
as a death wish,that anandi now feels responsibility to fulfil...
(2)anandi is not a small baby to unable to understand whether shiv loves her or not...so the question of marrying out of sympathy never arises...so she can propose him...
(3)she is now ready to face any difficulty to fulfil her mother's wish... Be it convincing inlaws or husband as requested by bhago...just as in the case of arranged marriage(like parting words before sending daughter to sasural)
(4)now that with divorce with jagya her rishta with haveli shd end & she need to come out ASAP...

What happens if shiv declines Anandi's proposal?
Shut down tv n forget bv...but if u have patience do the character study of shiv & see if he has the urge to get married to her & if he has the ability n interest to convince her even after marriage...

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