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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 6:32am | IP Logged
Originally posted by DiyaS

Originally posted by --Sari--

Originally posted by reguser



Yes, yesterday's Anji's hug though was quite irritating, it said something else about her character. Though I can't understand and accept that a grown-up needs 24 hours security, eagerly waiting to know the past. 


Pallavi - Circumstances can make you who you are. Some of us are stronger than others. One or both parents had a tragic death coz there was a gun shot that night. Loss of a parent at such a young age and under such circumstances can be traumatic.

In all likelihood, they were orphans left to fend for themselves. Chachaji threw them out ruthlessly. The only support was probably nani; dadi may have been a wreck herself...It is tough especially for young girls to handle so much pressure especially things like suicide or could have been murder. Even ASR is scarred for life, must have been something big.  



Also remember Anjali had her own set of complexes to start with, being handicapped. In one of the earlier episodes, she mentions how good Shyam was to marry a handicapped girl like her ... so her first complex, her handicap, second, her marriage broke on her wedding day, third, her mother died on the same day ... many traditional old women would immediately label her unlucky, and apparently she didn't get married for almost ten years after the haadsa ... adding more to the chip on her shoulder ...

Then Chachaji threw them out, they were left homeless, and she was supposed to look after a younger brother on top of it all ... she obviously caved under the pressure, and it was Arnav who had to grow up overnight, look after his sister and take over the role of parent.

In all the Anjali-Arnav discussions when the past comes in, Anjali is never the mother figure ... she weakens Arnav, never strengthens him ... this I have noticed from the start of the show. Both were scarred, but she more than him ... he hid his scars, she nurtured them, both his and hers ...


So true Diya...she became his world...since he lost everything else...home, parents, family honour, Dadi and who knows what else...and he had to become her rock to get her through it...

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 6:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by --Sari--


Joey - I know there were plenty, but didn't have the time or energy to re-watch. Decoding session kareka padi...I loved the last one...Ab jurmana bharne ko tayyar....PM se bhi chalega...Wink That drives me these days...I know I'm getting into twilight but that is what is fun & we do the pea-brain types, all the more fun...I don't feel I am the one with special needs...LOL



Same here! I was so distracted last night, don't know how I managed to put two words in the post. Epi requires a second watch but I might need to lean on you for some translations, shudh Hindi is not my forte, heck shudh Urdu is not my forte either. No sweat, I am special too! and not in a good way.

Koi aur mujhe yaad kar raha tha? Menty? Soapy?

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 6:36am | IP Logged
Originally posted by DiyaS

Originally posted by --Sari--

Originally posted by reguser



Yes, yesterday's Anji's hug though was quite irritating, it said something else about her character. Though I can't understand and accept that a grown-up needs 24 hours security, eagerly waiting to know the past. 


Pallavi - Circumstances can make you who you are. Some of us are stronger than others. One or both parents had a tragic death coz there was a gun shot that night. Loss of a parent at such a young age and under such circumstances can be traumatic.

In all likelihood, they were orphans left to fend for themselves. Chachaji threw them out ruthlessly. The only support was probably nani; dadi may have been a wreck herself...It is tough especially for young girls to handle so much pressure especially things like suicide or could have been murder. Even ASR is scarred for life, must have been something big.  



Also remember Anjali had her own set of complexes to start with, being handicapped. In one of the earlier episodes, she mentions how good Shyam was to marry a handicapped girl like her ... so her first complex, her handicap, second, her marriage broke on her wedding day, third, her mother died on the same day ... many traditional old women would immediately label her unlucky, and apparently she didn't get married for almost ten years after the haadsa ... adding more to the chip on her shoulder ...

Then Chachaji threw them out, they were left homeless, and she was supposed to look after a younger brother on top of it all ... she obviously caved under the pressure, and it was Arnav who had to grow up overnight, look after his sister and take over the role of parent.

In all the Anjali-Arnav discussions when the past comes in, Anjali is never the mother figure ... she weakens Arnav, never strengthens him ... this I have noticed from the start of the show. Both were scarred, but she more than him ... he hid his scars, she nurtured them, both his and hers ...

Yes, by revealing her past the reasons behind all her acts will be known. 

But the main problem for Arnav, Khushi and all the family members is, Anji doesn't want to come out of the past. Thus becomes a very difficult person to live with. Shyam might have married her with some motivation. But she is a very difficult person to live with for any normal man. 

Anji badly in need of a good counselling from a motherly figure. Nani couldn't do much. 
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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 6:37am | IP Logged
Now that Khushi's birthday and rakhi is done, what are the other celebrations we may look forward to?

*Teej (may still happenTongue)
*ASR's birthday
*Janmashtami. 

All these can be TRP gold. Par in CVs ka kya bharosa. And I'm guessing ASR has eight days left in woo-your-wife campaign. The man had better hurry up. Jaldi jaldi.

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 6:38am | IP Logged
good morning or evening or whatever floats your boat.

jumped by loads of mushyness on my way here..

shudh stuff as daadis palm would say...

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 6:39am | IP Logged
Dadi's arrival is not that bad after all. Anji is getting sympathy from people like us also.  And we are getting to see love birds together. 


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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 6:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ipkbs

good morning or evening or whatever floats your boat.

jumped by loads of mushyness on my way here..

shudh stuff as daadis palm would say...


Aww... Ippy! another day older and all the more wiser Big smile Any droppings in the main forum yet? If yes, PM me the link...she peaked my curiosity after the last one.

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 6:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ipkbs

good morning or evening or whatever floats your boat.

jumped by loads of mushyness on my way here..

shudh stuff as daadis palm would say...

Hi Ippy, 
Hope you had a great day yesterday. That dadi hand reminded me of a book I read by Lynne Truss 'Talk To The Hand'. It's about rudeness in English society. Very apt, I thought. That dadi has plain bad manners.

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