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Poll Question: is ashu forcing his wishes on nidhi?

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 3:09am | IP Logged
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incase , Ashu wanted to nag nidhi on this subject , he very well had a chance during the cake cutting on his birthday when DB raised the topic..at that moment , I observed and later appreciated Clap that Ashu did not even look at Nidhi for any emotional support or comfort , for he knew he could not count on his wife to understand his need on this matter.So , I feel he did take it in his stride , and is attempting to reconcile with Nidhi's decision . ...
But on their dinner date, his bringing the subject , I felt was a spontaneous /sincere acknowledgement of his wish in response to nidhi's offer...Ashu being "aSHU" TongueNot capable of calibrating / manipulating could not come up wit a birthday wish which he really did not cherish... It was an instinctive reaction.however, sensing Nidhi's discomfort in this regard , he should now treat the cause rather than just the symptom...Smile  Nidhi has dropped 2 hints - getting children means being seen as aged, and her belief that she cant work and prove her worth after child birth - both of which are not absolute truths. it would be nice if ashu talks to her regarding these issues and gives her clarity and assurance that she need not sacrifice anything in the process .Big smile 

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 3:21am | IP Logged
He just expressed what he would really like.. no harm in that.. Voted No... eitherways yest was the first time Ashu brought out the topic of a baby after they decided not to talk about the baby. 

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 3:45am | IP Logged
Voted for NO.
It is Ashu's only wish. He was expressing his wish. Nidhi made it clear that she doesn't want baby now. She wants to work now and she needs few years for that. She doesn't want to talk on this matter. So decision is given by Nidhi and is expected to be obeyed by Ashu. Is it not Nidhi is forcing her wishes on Ashu? It was a very tough NO from Nidhi and we are happy that Nidhi is taking her career seriously.When Ashu is requesting for a baby it is forcing! It is believed that husband - wife should share everything emotional and physical but when Ashu is sharing his innermost emotional urge to Nidhi, his wife , we cannot see the sharing but it becomes only a force! We cannot see his helplessness. He cannot be rude or impose his decision on Nidhi, then what is left with him except making an honest confession. We want to see utmost physical closeness between them and enjoying that thoroughly but how can we forget that emotional closeness more essential in long run. If one partner is go on burrying his wish, it only rooted towards depression which eventually bring emotional distance. So, it is better to open up.Atleast it brings transparency in relationship. Ashu, till now was a very introvert person who cannot express his feelings but now I am happy to see him being verbal in expressing his feelings and it is a very positive sign for any marriage.

When Nidhi forced wish to work for few years from now and big NO to motherhood is acceptable though her hubby is 43 and it is her own decision to marry a person 18yrs older to her and Ashu's wish of becoming father at 43 and only requesting for it is illogical/force?

It was a husband's honest confession. No force was felt by me.  

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 3:50am | IP Logged
Indirectly he is forcing his wish on Nidhi.

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 3:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koyelbasu

Voted for NO.
It is Ashu's only wish. He was expressing his wish. Nidhi made it clear that she doesn't want baby now. She wants to work now and she needs few years for that. She doesn't want to talk on this matter. So decision is given by Nidhi and is expected to be obeyed by Ashu. Is it not Nidhi is forcing her wishes on Ashu? It was a very tough NO from Nidhi and we are happy that Nidhi is taking her career seriously.When Ashu is requesting for a baby it is forcing! It is believed that husband - wife should share everything emotional and physical but when Ashu is sharing his innermost emotional urge to Nidhi, his wife , we cannot see the sharing but it becomes only a force! We cannot see his helplessness. He cannot be rude or impose his decision on Nidhi, then what is left with him except making an honest confession. We want to see utmost physical closeness between them and enjoying that thoroughly but how can we forget that emotional closeness more essential in long run. If one partner is go on burrying his wish, it only rooted towards depression which eventually bring emotional distance. So, it is better to open up.Atleast it brings transparency in relationship. Ashu, till now was a very introvert person who cannot express his feelings but now I am happy to see him being verbal in expressing his feelings and it is a very positive sign for any marriage.

When Nidhi forced wish to work for few years from now and big NO to motherhood is acceptable though her hubby is 43 and it is her own decision to marry a person 18yrs older to her and Ashu's wish of becoming father at 43 and only requesting for it is illogical/force?

It was a husband's honest confession. No force was felt by me.  


Perfectly worded, Koyel!

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 3:54am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koyelbasu

Voted for NO.
It is Ashu's only wish. He was expressing his wish. Nidhi made it clear that she doesn't want baby now. She wants to work now and she needs few years for that. She doesn't want to talk on this matter. So decision is given by Nidhi and is expected to be obeyed by Ashu. Is it not Nidhi is forcing her wishes on Ashu? It was a very tough NO from Nidhi and we are happy that Nidhi is taking her career seriously.When Ashu is requesting for a baby it is forcing! It is believed that husband - wife should share everything emotional and physical but when Ashu is sharing his innermost emotional urge to Nidhi, his wife , we cannot see the sharing but it becomes only a force! We cannot see his helplessness. He cannot be rude or impose his decision on Nidhi, then what is left with him except making an honest confession. We want to see utmost physical closeness between them and enjoying that thoroughly but how can we forget that emotional closeness more essential in long run. If one partner is go on burrying his wish, it only rooted towards depression which eventually bring emotional distance. So, it is better to open up.Atleast it brings transparency in relationship. Ashu, till now was a very introvert person who cannot express his feelings but now I am happy to see him being verbal in expressing his feelings and it is a very positive sign for any marriage.

When Nidhi forced wish to work for few years from now and big NO to motherhood is acceptable though her hubby is 43 and it is her own decision to marry a person 18yrs older to her and Ashu's wish of becoming father at 43 and only requesting for it is illogical/force?

It was a husband's honest confession. No force was felt by me.



Clap Wow ! Simply loved your point of view . Thanks for giving this complete new outlook.

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 3:58am | IP Logged
@ koyel : well said Clap

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Posted: 07 August 2012 at 4:34am | IP Logged
He is using sum emotional pressure but he is not forcing too...Q is if being a mother will spoil Nidhi's career?If not,why he is not explaining this wid details?

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