Originally posted by: hillydee
@ZeeZee55
Well, I am happy for the officer who stayed with his mentally ill wife, but to each his own.
Plus, I think it is wrong getting your daughter married to a man when you know she is mentally ill,and you do not inform him. This is Vikram's situation. I would never do that to anyone's son. Parents who do that should be arrested.
A mentally ill person cannot offer you a normal relationship. You do not know whether they are coming or going. You will not get their love truly, because they go in and out of rational thinking. They cannot be a normal parent to children. Mental illness is not something to play with and there are different degrees of severity. So, please find out the facts before judging Vikram or anyone in his situation.
Sometimes, I think we women go overboard in what we believe a man should accept or not accept . because we think too emotionally and love to imagine how a man should just accept everything and anything about us. That is selfish thinking.
It seems in Reva's case medication is not an option, or maybe she refuses to take it. If you have been seriously watching Reva, you would have a better understanding of what Vikram is going through and not be so one-sided. Where you think he got that cut from his forehead. Reva is a danger to not only herself but to others.
He who feels it, Knows it best. Never try to put yourself in another person's shoe, unless you have walked in it, unless you are speaking hypothetical.
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