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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 8:31pm | IP Logged

Jai,

My 0.99 cents worth of opinion (but before putting in a post , let me tell you this I haven't really followed the serial last week and haven't seen the precap for tomorrow).

Anyways, Archu the mom should have simply stayed out of this mess. Well, I am a mom too and when my 2 kids act stubborn over a toy, I buy one and tell them to share. But, when these same kids fall for the same guy, I, as a mom, should stay neutral. My stand should be 'well, please sort it out between yourselves, I am not with anyone, nor will bless anyone'. Instead what did Archu do, she said, Arjun is a good guy (when was Arjun not a good guy??? Also, his earning the challenged money or taking the bullet still doesn't nullify his 2 timings the girls, or does it??? His earning the money only proves that he can earn or do whatever he wants to, if only he puts his mind in achieving it ...like say achieving Purvi).

Archana comes and further says,  I am deciding that they should get married (meaning, he being good is only suitable for Purvi over Ovi ... well, is this acceptable of a mom'...she, by doing this is taking sides and showing/proving to Ovi that she in reality loves Purvi over Ovi and wants the best for only Purvi (She favors one girl over the other for Purvi)...this to me is wrong. A mom always wants the best for all kids..no siding happens and if in reality if a mom sides with a kid ... it always is with the weakest. Here, instead of handing the situation with care and dexterity, she jumped and announced her decision without considering Ovi's mental state in the most loveless way possible'in fact, I found the way she talked with Ovi rather crue...'my POV anyways..



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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 8:38pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Kalapi

Jai,

My 0.99 cent worth of opinion (but before putting in a post , let me tell you this I haven't really followed the serial last week and haven't seen the precap for tomorrow).

Anyways, Archu the mom should have simply stayed out of this mess. Well, I am a mom too and when my 2 kids act stubborn over a toy, I buy one and tell them to share. But, when these same kids fall for the same guy, I, as a mom, should stay neutral. My stand should be 'well, please sort it out between yourselves, I am not with anyone, nor will bless anyone'. Instead what did Archu do, she said, Arjun is a good guy (when was Arjun not a good guy??? Also, his earning the challenged money or taking the bullet still doesn't nullify his 2 timings the girls, or does it??? His earning the money only proves that he can earn or do whatever he wants to, if only he puts his mind in achieving it ...like say achieving Purvi).

Archana comes and further says,  I am deciding that they should get married (meaning, he being good is only suitable for Purvi over Ovi ' well, is this acceptable of a mom'she, by doing this is taking sides and showing/proving to Ovi that she in reality loves Purvi over Ovi and wants the best for only Purvi (She favors one girl over the other for Purvi)'this to me is wrong. A mom always wants the best for all kids..no siding happens and if in reality if a mom sides with a kid ' it always is with the weakest. Here, instead of handing the situation with care and dexterity, she jumped and announced her decision without considering Ovi's mental state in the most loveless way possible'in fact, I found the way she talked with Ovi rather crue...'my POV anyways..


Perfectly said Kalapi dear and hence I am baffled for the urgency for Archu to tell about her decision on Arvi at that particular time when Manav asked her to stay calm ans he was trying to handle the situation..Kalpi dear I am with you on why the hell Archu is dragged in this mess..In fact I have been asking the same q ,why it has to be Archu so that eventually everything wrong under the sun comes under her head..The CV's are hell bent to make Archu a absue taking machine Ouch..Kalpi the tone she used was not exactly great as well..
I think CV's just want high drama and want else according to them is high drama - Archu's pain and suffering ,taking abuse and being emotional mess..


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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 8:52pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jaishankar

Originally posted by Kalapi

 


Perfectly said Kalapi dear and hence I am baffled for the urgency for Archu to tell about her decision on Arvi at that particular time when Manav asked her to stay calm ans he was trying to handle the situation..Kalpi dear I am with you on why the hell Archu is dragged in this mess..In fact I have been asking the same q ,why it has to be Archu so that eventually everything wrong under the sun comes under her head..The CV's are hell bent to make Archu a absue taking machine Ouch..Kalpi the tone she used was not exactly great as well..
I think CV's just want high drama and want else according to them is high drama - Archu's pain and suffering ,taking abuse and being emotional mess..
 

Jai, Cvs have always painted Archu most weird…from the Shravani track, to the Soham fiasco and then the court case…I guess somehow these extremes in her characterization does appeal to Indian viewersWink.

As for timing of announcing Purvi's wedding…it never can be right either today nor 10 yrs from now, if it comes from 'Mom' Archu – because in announcing /choosing (good) Arjun for one girl over the other, she simply shows her preference of one girl over the other, and that never goes down well between even blood related siblings in the most uncomplicated and picture perfect family settingSmile….

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 9:15pm | IP Logged
Kalapi, while I agree Archana was mighty hasty in jumping the gun today, I don't think it is wise to let the two girls decide between themselves.  Arjun, unfortunately is not a toy and if the wrong girl married him, both girls would face hell. And the matter has kind of gotten volatile at this point.  
But you are right in your latter post, however right a mother may be even in the perfect family setting, kids will think you have favored one over the other if you make the choice for one child and not the other. Mine do that all the time even when it is something as silly as choosing a radio station in the car. 

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 9:30pm | IP Logged
i didnt feel anything for archana in yesterday's episode except anger.


when A is already upset and hysterical, you do not go there and rub salt in their wounds, NO THEY WILL BE TOGETHER.  A is a hypothetical case. Not targetting my liking otwards ovi or otherwise.


Damo is a loser. the granddaughter is in tears, she is going cuckoo with her delusion and is not ready to accept the truth and there he is just watching her and with archana he bcomes a savior - NO U R RIGHT ARCHANA. W*F is that  !!!!!!!!!!!!! Angry


Awesome Archana is ready to accept arjun as purvis life partner - then keep it to urself baba. let them get married, let them be happy - as much as arvi will involve in arman case utna drama badega, and thts exactly what will happen.

i loved manav when he said i dont care abt arvi let my child stay in peace and W*F with tear in eye, be strong fr ur daughter more than anything, go back to canada!
i have never felt like crying watching a moronic show of Ekta's but Ovi(shruti)'s acting gave me a lump in my throat cause am a girl and i know hw it may feel when something like that happens

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 9:34pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by nirvanlove

i didnt feel anything for archana in yesterday's episode except anger.


when A is already upset and hysterical, you do not go there and rub salt in their wounds, NO THEY WILL BE TOGETHER. A is a hypothetical case. Not targetting my liking otwards ovi or otherwise.


Damo is a loser. the granddaughter is in tears, she is going cuckoo with her delusion and is not ready to accept the truth and there he is just watching her and with archana he bcomes a savior - NO U R RIGHT ARCHANA. W*F is that !!!!!!!!!!!!! Angry


Awesome Archana is ready to accept arjun as purvis life partner - then keep it to urself baba. let them get married, let them be happy - as much as arvi will involve in arman case utna drama badega, and thts exactly what will happen.

i loved manav when he said i dont care abt arvi let my child stay in peace and W*F with tear in eye, be strong fr ur daughter more than anything, go back to canada!
i have never felt like crying watching a moronic show of Ekta's but Ovi(shruti)'s acting gave me a lump in my throat cause am a girl and i know hw it may feel when something like that happens



Nirvanlove, she could have kept quiet with you cannot write people's destiny and told Manav later about her faisla.

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 9:39pm | IP Logged
and i also agree when people mention that by yesterdays behavior she showed her preference .. not lal children are same for her. not at all. and i support purvis love(not arjun though) but there is no way archana is right in this case from any neutral angle. 

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 9:53pm | IP Logged

Archana's whole dialogue did not make sense..While telling Ovi she is not the one to write any one's destiny she herself was doing the same..How hypocritical..

As I watched the episode on TV she came across as extremely crude and callous towards her own daughter speaking that dialogue...you talk like that to your rival and not your flash and blood...Sorry..Embarrassed
CVs think this Archana character appeals to majority of viewers and I am assuming it does which baffles MOI Unhappy

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