Posted: 20 September 2012 at 3:26pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by indi
Mansi just said that they get tense when we talk about the dad. But she never said about her conversation with Anoop regarding that. she only thought about that scene. But you know so much is left to viewers speculation.
Agree Shivani wanting to support her parents financially is good, I like that too. So far, not to offend anyone, that is the only thing she is serious about. Rest of the time she too impulsive. In today's episode instead of just bringing out that picture and the heartache it had caused could have been avoided. Sahil was sharing things with Shivani and could have asked him the consequences of her plan. But no she forced Mansi and decided to bring that picture.
In my opinion there is nothing wrong in supporting parents and I would too. But one has realize that after marriage one need to seek the in laws approval too. It seems like there is no adjustment needed for the boys but only by girls, thats not true. Both have to make a lot of adjustments after marriage.
Reiterating what I already said in one of my earlier posts that this is the character we are discussing here not the human being playing that character. And hoping that no one takes offence.
... I quite agree with you. As I stated previously, the character of Shivani is sending out mixed signals ... she's impulsive and yet a responsible daughter./business woman!
As I haven't yet seen the episode yet (jay, note
, I didn't peek today
), I don't know the extent of the "force" that Shivani used on Mansi. I consider Mansi to be a clever girl, that's why I wouldn't blame Shivani here ... Mansi seems more clear headed than Shivani... why let Shivani persuade her to do something that she very well knows that her husband has already warned her about!!! Mansi and Shivani have been friends for a very long time ... time enough to know that Shivani acts without thinking of the consequences! Mansi was more than capable of evaluating the situation before acting... she is not a child ... she could have refused to do as Shivani suggested... !!!
A strong person will never let herself be bullied ... and I'm sure Mansi is strong!!! She had the choice to make and she made the wrong one!!! As adults, we would have choices to make in life , it's up to us only whether we make the right or the wrong choice. As I said before, hope she learnt her lesson.
I'm sure the way Anoop is going, sooner than later Mansi could have charmed him into telling her the story re the Dad
LOL, "I don't know the extent of the "force" that Shivani used on Mansi. I consider Mansi to be a clever girl, that's why I wouldn't blame Shivani here ."
Well she obviously did not threaten or beat her up
. But she kept telling Mansi to do it since if the dont try how would they know what is the reason. Mansi did deny that she is unsure that plan would work and did not want to do it. But Shivani did insist. So in a way it was her fault than Mansi's. Mansi is already confused with the reactions she got and with the fact that her reserved husband was one time quite cheerful and liked the attractions of the girls in his college.
True it is upto us to make the right or wrong decisions but in certain circumstances this reasoning never works. Ideally it should be like this.
Agreed Anoop may have shared sometime in the future but he may not have too. And I would go with the latter as remember in BBAT we never knew what was the reason for rift between his dad and Guddu.