Posted: 13 September 2012 at 6:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by jps01Wow, MIL was just a miserable soul today at her darling son's wedding!! How can any mother - whether she likes the DIL or not, behave this way? Sahil needs to brighten her day with something - sweets maybe!!! I did not like how she eavesdropped on Mansi and Shivani's conversation, that was really not nice!!!!jps ..
Wish we could have seen Mansi and Anoop dancing!! But must confess, that they are getting there! Slow but sure!!And the nail in the coffin, when she gave the ultimatum to Mansi in the kitchen!!! Is Rajlaxmi a control freak or just being a MIL?
. the woman was downright rude and horrible!!!! Her facial expressions, never mind the vocal expressions, were insulting. Her behaviour was atrocious!!! I could see the embarrassment on her sons and other family members' faces!!!! Bua had to keep nudging her to prevent further embarrassment!!! For goodness sake, I know she was hurt and could understand if she wore a sad expression, but she made sure everybody knew how she felt about this wedding and Shivani ... you couldn't mistake the disapproval on that face!!! OK, she has cause to be hurt, but it seems that she is only blaming one person ... Shivani!!! What about the dulhe raja, didn't he have a part to play in this scenario? She loves her son so very much, couldn't she put a little smile on her face for his sake ... it's his wedding day!!! Or she could have just done as my nani did
... don't attend the wedding (neither was anyone else from the house allowed to attend
I felt embarrassed for Shivani's parents; I'm sure they were just as hurt by their daughter's action, but they put their hurt aside and were there for their daughter!!! Raj Laxmi insulting them is not fair!!! Parents raise their children with values, but they cannot always control their actions!!!
When Mansi offered the scarf, I didn't see her as just supporting her friend; the dulhe rajah was her dewar ... she was a DIL, a SIL and a friend ... wanting the wedding to go smoothly ... what's so bad about that? Isn't that what a good daughter in law would do?
Brought up in the "old school" way by a very strict old-fashioned grandmother but living in a modern world, I can understand and sympathise with both parties POVs regarding the marriage. Some children will put their feelings first, while others will consider the parents' feelings. In this case, we see Sahil and Shivani disregarding the parents and pleasing themselves!!! My personal view is that it is their lives, they should be allowed to choose who they want to spend it with ... on the other hand, I wouldn't want to hurt my parents by going against their wishes
ANd now for my darling Anoop ... he looked too too gorgeous!!! just loved the way he looked at his wife ... such a telling smile too (All I could think of at the time was ... he should be looking at Runjhun with that smile and that delight in his eyes
!!!) Honestly, I watch this show just to see Himamnshoo's face ... I could never see enough of him !!!
Sometimes I get the impression that Himm just wants to break away from this shy character and let loose his exuberance ... liking having a good loud laugh, dancing, chatting away ... a la Gudduji
... I want to thank you again for those wonderful WUs!!! Helps so much in understanding the story ...Looking forward to today's episode ... start of the real story
... Anoop and Mansi are getting there, no worry
Have a nice day Girls!!!!
Edited by indi - 13 September 2012 at 6:10am