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Himmanshoo aka Anoop Appreciation Thread #1 (Page 53)

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 6:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Surish


Since Anoop seems to be experiencing difficulties with assertiveness and his highly erratic hair brained  mom who is unable to manage stressful situations; I suggest they both either consult a qualified counsellor, psychologist or psychotherapist 




I don't think Anoop has a problem with asserting himself ...it's only where his Mom is concerned that he gives in easily;  he does quite a job where the others are concerned!!    I think he just doesn't want to hurt his Mom's feelings ... could it be as the eldest, he's more aware of problems that she had in her own life?  He wants to make his Mom happy and he feels that by giving in to her every wish/demand, he's making her happy!!!

I think it's the first time that the Mom is facing rebelliousness from one of her children and it's a great shock to her!!    It might not be just the issue of the marriage, but more so the idea that her child is rebelling against her!!    She feels she has to put a stop to this defiance, otherwise she'll lose total control of them all!!!  Her fear that she's losing her control is really what is driving her to this state!!!   Afterall,  in her mind, Mom knows what's best for her children!!! 

Could the Mom have had a love marriage that went bad?  Where is her husband?  Is that the real reason she's so against this love marriage!  I don't think parents want their children to suffer what they did ' so in her mind, maybe she thinks she's making the right decisions for her children!!  She doesn't want them to make the same mistakes she made!!!   

In trying to shield her children from hurt, I think, unknowingly, she's hurting them more by her strict control!  Some parents feel that their children should learn from their own mistakes while others feel differently.

Then there's Sahil, he's acting so immaturely!  He knows he is already married to Shivani, yet he keeps assuring the Mom that he is willing to meet Jyoti!!  No wonder the Mom got the shock of her life!!!    Why can't Sahil sit and have  a conversation with his Mom.  Seems he's accustomed to running to Big Brother with his problems!!! 

The entire Sisodia household seems to be too busy to even have a decent conversation with each other!!!  They need to sit and have a good chat!!! 

 

 




Edited by indi - 04 September 2012 at 7:28am

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 8:20am | IP Logged
@ Bluebell, join the line and I can tell you its very long as some of us are on elephants and all!!!LOL

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Congratulations Dear Indi for becoming a Goldie.

 



pensink ... Thank you!    All you wonderful people had a great part in me becoming Goldie!!! 

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 8:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by jps01

@ Bluebell, join the line and I can tell you its very long as some of us are on elephants and all!!!LOL



jps ... What kind of welcome is that?  Frightening bluebell away in a nice way   LOL!!! 

bluebell ... don't be intimidated!!!  The line is long, but at least you have a place in it, even if it's last place   LOL!!!!  



PS:  Are you all remembering to hit the Chaska Meter and comment on Himm?  Most times I forget!


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Hey all ... At first, I thought  a few "dharampatnis"  thrown in along the way might be nice.    And then ...   Nahhh ...   won't be the same   Disapprove!!!!!  That's for one special dharampatni from one special Gunda Wink!!!!   In any case, won't fit the character of Anoop  Tongue!!!    What say you  ??? 




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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 9:50am | IP Logged
Show starts with Sahil's mom saying that I am with yu all and can help in whichever way possible even monetarily. Sahil says why are you insulting them as this was our decision. Shivani's dad says we need time to gather ourselves and Anoop's mom replies I too cannot wait as I need to find a cultured girl and get Sahil married to her I am just worried about my son. She asks Sahil to come along but he refuses, Shivani pleads but get a tight slap. shivani's dad says Shivani I need to talk to you alone and with just you. Here Anoop and rest of the family is worried as mom is not answering the phone he tries the driver's phone ad he also does not answer. And Shivani's dad asksher what mistake did we make, what wish we could not fulfil that she humiliated them this way and got married behind their backs. And Shivani says I was just telling Sahil that maybe we made a mistake and got married without thinking.
 
And now after so much has happened my heart still is saying that I cannot live without Sahil and no matter how hard I try I will keep making the same mistakes. I have always done as you have asked me to and even now if you ask me to leave SAhil I will do it but will not be able tolive with him. She says Devyani di supported me because she know our love is true as she could not get that love and she wanted me to have that happiness and love. Shivani's dad says we did what ever we could do for you and always thought that what I could not giveyou you would get that in your in laws place, but am worried the way your MIL is behaving. Sahil says who said she is all alone in that house Iwill always be with her and want to take her to my house right this minute. Shivani says do you know what u are saying and he insists that the left Shivani go with him. He says you all are elders and everything will happen as you all says ad asks do you see any hesitation in my voice etc. Sahil's mom is remembering Sahil;s words how he got married and wants to bring Shivani home and how and when she has to tell. Mom is having heart palpitations and she asks to stop the car. Anoop is able to reach the driver and he tells he was driving so could not answer and he tells the driver to directly bring her home. Bua tells we will wait but Anoop insists you all go rest. Then Netra asks Mansi where is SAhil Bhaiya and Anoop replies Bhaiya is out with some work. Shivani's parents bless her ...
 
Shivani's parents ask Sahil to take care of Shivani (At least they could have sent her in a proper dress). Shivani says Sahil what if we stay somewhere else tll matters cool down but he says no we will go today and you should get the same respect as other DILs of the house and remember your husband is with you. Bua asks Anoop it is so late your mom has not returned something is definitely wrong and then she enters and Bua asks her DIL to get water to Mami but she refuses. Then Mansi says mom tell where have you been we were so worried. She says yes now there is no need to hide anything and tells she was at Shivani's parents house and that they got married and she had gone to tell them that she does not accept this marriage. Anoop asks so you went there and as always he is blamed that were you involved too and he says I just got to know and she says oh really!when were you planning to tell me or you too ... and the bell rings and Mansi says I will go check,she opens the door  and its sahil and Shivani and all family leave to see who is there. Here Shivani's dad says dont know how her in laws are treating her and her mom replies she is not a kid and she has to handle everything. Sahil asks how is a new bride welcomed in a house can someone tell me and bua says i will get Arti and Rice Kalash but is stopped by Anoop's mom who says it is not needed.
 
Bua says it is a bad omen if we dont welcome the bride then she replied it is for DILs not runnaway girls. And Sahil says if this is how you want my new life to start so be it. and he enters with Shivani and tells this is my house and MIL may not be with you but ur husband is with you. Everyone is shocked and speechless at this gesture of Sahil. Mansi tells that Anoop and Sahil I feel you should talk to mom now. Here mom is in her room looking at her and her husband's picture. They enter and Anoop and SAhil talk toher. Sahil says that Shivani is an imp part of this house and I know you were looking at dad's photo and think how wuld papa react if he had been here. Then asks Anoop to take him as she wanted to rest. Sahil asks no I will not leave till she says something and she says yu want to hear my advise, then listen "day after tomorrow is your engagement with Jyoti and Shivani has no place here and he should go leave Shivani at her parents place". Episode ends on Sahil's shocked face.
 
Precap for tomorrow: Shivani andSahil are leaving the house and go to touch the MIL's feet and she moves back. All are shocked and sahil says from today you have only one son, remember that...
 
 
Enjoy!!

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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 10:02am | IP Logged

pensink ... thank you!!!  Wonderful WU, as usual!

So Sahil is getting some backbone!!!   It's time he realises his responsibilities!!!    Feel so very sorry for Shivani!!     Could also feel the parents' disappointment ...

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