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Himmanshoo aka Anoop Appreciation Thread #1 (Page 123)

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Posted: 05 October 2012 at 2:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Surish

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For the love of God Anoop!Please appreciate your brother's support and stand up to your mother for once!What the hell is wrong with you!Apparently you wish to remain an inconsolable crying toddler for the rest of your life!


surish  ... Hi there cowboy  LOL!!!!  Howdy to you too!!!   Always manage to bring a smile to my face  LOL!!!! 

I think in his heart Anoop knows that Sahil is supporting him and he appreciates his brother's support, it's just that he doesn't want to hurt or disrespect RL!!!     For some reason, in our culture, no matter how much the parents may hurt us, we are taught not to be rude or disrespectful ... ConfusedConfused!!!  That must be so deeply entrenched in Anoop!!!!

Anoop must be a masochist, an angel or a fool  ... such abuse for so many years ... he has probably convinced himself by now that he was responsible for the father's death!!!   He and RL both need to visit a therapist!!! 


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Posted: 05 October 2012 at 2:06pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ashavari


I just want to share a good news here. Some people who do not this show or any sony show because of subtitles, now sony also has subtitles for their shows.



ashavari ... thank you for such wonderful news!!!! 

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Posted: 05 October 2012 at 2:09pm | IP Logged

I'm glad that Sahil walked out of the hospital!!!!   Let Rajlaxmi stew in her own juices!!!!   Let's see if she'll blame that on Anoop too!!!  It's about time that she knows there are people who actually love and care for Anoop ... he doesn't need a mother like her!!!!   Except that the man himself ... Anoop ... continues to adore her Disapprove!!!!!  Well, that's reel life, and we must have a story   LOL!!!! 


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Raj Laxmi displays the traits of a narcissistic mother and Anoop, the child of a narcissistic parent  ...  he adheres to RajLaxmi's every wish and command and stifles his feelings to keep peace in their house, hence he slapping Sahil for standing up to RL.  Anoop knows that asserting his feelings, his  rights, or his thoughts can lead to much bigger problems with RajLaxmi. Like children of narcissistic parents, Anoop has learnt to stifle his feelings ...  he has learnt that his feelings are invalid, unimportant, and inconsequential.

As a narcissistic mother, RajLaxmi loves to control her children's  lives  ...  with Sahil, she makes him feel guilty that she has sacrificed her life for him and loves him all and that she cannot live without him ... she needs him!!! Remember when he was leaving the house after his marriage?   She uses emotional blackmail.  With Anoop, RL uses guilt  ... he's owes her and the family for "killing" the father ... she'll never let him forget that!!!

Raj Laxmi controls her children by dictating how they should feel and act, and the decisions to be made. They have no say in what they want in their lives;  she decides for them ... no wonder Anoop so quietly accepted when she arranged his marriage.  Children of narcissistic parents never learn to be autonomous and make their own decisions and this is so true with RL and her children!!!! 

As in narcissistic households, the Sisodia family also has a  Golden Child (Sahil)and a Scapegoat (Anoop).  Sahil can do no wrong where RL is concerned; Anoop on the other hand is blamed for everything ...  he can do no right and his achievements are dismissed!!!

Let's hope that Anoop survives Raj Laxmi and her sick mind!!!!





Edited by indi - 05 October 2012 at 2:47pm

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Posted: 05 October 2012 at 3:34pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Indi
surish  ... Hi there cowboy  LOL!!!!  Howdy to you too!!!   Always manage to bring a smile to my face  LOL!!!!  

I think in his heart Anoop knows that Sahil is supporting him and he appreciates his brother's support, it's just that he doesn't want to hurt or disrespect RL!!!     For some reason, in our culture, no matter how much the parents may hurt us, we are taught not to be rude or disrespectful ... ConfusedConfused!!!  That must be so deeply entrenched in Anoop!!!!

Anoop must be a masochist, an angel or a fool  ... such abuse for so many years ... he has probably convinced himself by now that he was responsible for the father's death!!!   He and RL both need to visit a therapist!!!  

Raj Laxmi displays the traits of a narcissistic mother and Anoop, the child of a narcissistic parent  ...  he adheres to RajLaxmi's every wish and command and stifles his feelings to keep peace in their house, hence he slapping Sahil for standing up to RL.  Anoop knows that asserting his feelings, his  rights, or his thoughts can lead to much bigger problems with RajLaxmi. Like children of narcissistic parents, Anoop has learnt to stifle his feelings ...  he has learnt that his feelings are invalid, unimportant, and inconsequential.

As a narcissistic mother, RajLaxmi loves to control her children's  lives  ...  with Sahil, she makes him feel guilty that she has sacrificed her life for him and loves him all and that she cannot live without him ... she needs him!!! Remember when he was leaving the house after his marriage?   She uses emotional blackmail.  With Anoop, RL uses guilt  ... he's owes her and the family for "killing" the father ... she'll never let him forget that!!! 

Raj Laxmi controls her children by dictating how they should feel and act, and the decisions to be made. They have no say in what they want in their lives;  she decides for them ... no wonder Anoop so quietly accepted when she arranged his marriage.  Children of narcissistic parents never learn to be autonomous and make their own decisions and this is so true with RL and her children!!!! 

As in narcissistic households, the Sisodia family also has a  Golden Child (Sahil)and a Scapegoat (Anoop).  Sahil can do no wrong where RL is concerned; Anoop on the other hand is blamed for everything ...  he can do no right and his achievements are dismissed!!!

Let's hope that Anoop survives Raj Laxmi and her sick mind!!!!


Indi 

You're absolutely right Anoop is passive often trying to please his mother, avoiding all forms of conflicts and tension! Rajlaxmi on the other hand is aggressive and take extreme pleasure in dominating, humiliating and controlling her son as well as others. Last but not least, Sahil the assertive one ensures that he gets what he desires while at the same time, taking into account the feelings, and needs of others like Anoop for example. I believe that Anoop will have to rescue his mother from any form of accident in order for her to forgive him for a crime he didn't commit. Wonder how Anoop's mother will react if he  almost suffers the same fate like his father? Will she hold him in retribution and leave him there to die?






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Posted: 05 October 2012 at 8:27pm | IP Logged

I just want to share a good news here. Some people who do not this show or any sony show because of subtitles, now sony also has subtitles for their shows.


AWESOME!  when are subtitles starting on LMAM?




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Posted: 06 October 2012 at 2:16am | IP Logged
Himanshooo was sooo great in todays episode!!!!!!Clap Issiliye socha ki yaha par hi aake ye ke lu afterall uska hi appreciation thread hain, even though im not a great fan of him i really liked him in todays episode!!!!!!!!EmbarrassedBig smile

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Posted: 08 October 2012 at 5:49am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Manveerfan123

Himanshooo was sooo great in todays episode!!!!!!Clap Issiliye socha ki yaha par hi aake ye ke lu afterall uska hi appreciation thread hain, even though im not a great fan of him i really liked him in todays episode!!!!!!!!EmbarrassedBig smile




manveerfan123 ...  Himmanshoo is a very talented actor ... he brings such life to his characters!!!!  He's just amazing and I'm sure you'll continue to enjoy him!!!! 




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