Posted: 06 August 2012 at 11:00am | IP Logged
Hmmm good poll and excellent debate.
Okay well i didnt vote in this poll because i kinda am on the fence about marriage in general.
Personal opinion i dont believe in marriage completely. What i mean is i believe in being sinlgw for as long as possible and dating and meeting new people exploring new possibilities. I feel like its absolutely stupid the idea that we meet a person and wothout having explored other possibilites you marry them cause u think "they are the one" that being said i dont like idea of areanged marriage.
As for love marriage, that also has its snags. Lets say u date x and y before u think uve found the one in z. You see Z for a while and learn plenty about then and u think wow thi person is what ive veen looking for, and u marry them. After a while you find them boring cause uve explored every nook and crany. Now what? And many times people look for someone just like them when looking for a love marriage companion, so u tend to start not liking the person anymore cause they hoghlight the same flaws you possess! Idkk thats y not in full support of love marriage either.
Hence i honestly believe in just dating. I mean yes maybe youll find someone whom you really have fallen for when dating an you want that relationship to last soo i gess marriage is okay then.
All in all im kinda modern in thought soo i believe in having fun being single ready to mingle always. But when time comes if after dating around by like 30 ish i havent found a guy im head over heels for, i dont mind settling for arranged. If i have found someone i truly love then love marriage. But overall i think no one should just marry without knowing someone and at same time i dontthink anyone should marry someone they know too well. Its kinda a tough debate and tough opinion.