Posted: 07 August 2012 at 1:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma
Originally posted by Jan50
Thanks for the update. I was expecting Jagya to slap Gawry today and walk out on her. That day will come. Before that I want G to become a complete loony, Schizo , make major mistakes professionally and gets locked up in an asylum. After that J should go wandering around and end up being washed up along juju beach, if he can't do anything better. My first choices for him is to break away from G slowly after finishing his MS. Be as cold to her as possible.
I did not like the way Anandi proposed to Shiv. She was almost as insensitive to Shiv as J iwas towards her. Why is it Shiv's duty to fulfill Bhago's wish when A has openly shown her disgust for marrying Shiv. Shiv did not come running to DS for marrying A. He only accepted her proposal for which A humiliated him with out even giving a minute's thought. I liked the look of shock in Shiv's face and no smile when he accepted. I hope he makes a statement which is curt and puts A in her place.
She could have waited and expressed her wish to get married to Shiv in a little more charming way instead of saying I need to fulfill my mother's wish. So marry me.Basically she is treating him like doormat.
Another way of putting the misery J is facing today is, he is paying for all the sins committed by DS. They alway say children pay for the good or bad karma of their forefathers. Poor Sumi is punished for the sins and brutality of her mother in law.This is in contrast to the opinion that DS is paying for her sins by seeing J wasted away. But she has another grand child so it is not such a big blow to her as it is for Sumi.
Even I did not like the way she proposed but did she have a choice in this matter?DS wants her to marry Shiv,Bhago's dying was that she wanted her to marry Shiv,Now her father wants her to marry Shiv.
They are not even giving her time to mourn her mother's death not giving her time to get over her divorce to top it all DS planned all this and went propsed to Shiv on her behalf which she very rightly refused.
With all these things happening you can't expect her to propose cheerfully.She is being forced to marry him and she asking with folded hands for the sake of her family.It is upto him whether to accept her proposal or reject it.
I agree .. and I don't think she is being insensitive to Shiv. She is not holding a gun at his head and forcing him to fulfil her mother's last wish. She is requesting him with folded hands.
And Shiv though he doesn' t like it accepts the situation . So Shiv is making his own choice here to accept her proposal.