great to have you here tamzin. .
and many thanks for the compliments. . made my day
why Imarti is like this:: this issue was covered in the kairee episodes . . the one where Ambi leaves the house after imarti lies to Ambi about Anuj-Mala relationship . . that Imarti just found that out after Anuj Ambi marrieage. . But AMbi eventually comes back, discovers true nature of Imarti when she is about to burn Kusum voice lol (koyla style) . . AMbi then consults her mother on Imarti's behavior, and is then told to uncover the backstory. . And Ambi does this by askign Vimla;s husband , ie. Imarti's brother about Imarti's back story. . Its got something to do with Imarti's husband leaving her. . and that she loved her hubby too much, , and he left Imarti for someone else, and Imarti love for sons and fear of loosing them turned to obsession of over-pride. . This was covered evry loosely in the serial, indicating that the creatives might be still working on it in detail, but thats the basics. . :)
if u wish to find out teh exact epi, i cant remember, but will find it out for you. .