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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 5:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by riti4u

this is for all redemption demands and those who thinks arnav doesnt acknowledges his wrong doings
 
- you remember the scene where khushi is looking at stars and is sad rabba veying then arnav looks at her and dialogue what he says- maine tumhe bahut dard diya hai khushi but I will win you back...so he does knw that he has hurt her... and what he is trying to do now is to correct what he did wrong...he wants her to be happy..he wants to be reason fr her smile and when he becomes that..he is relieved...and he also know khushi loves him so if he punishes himself ,instead of giving her happiness ..he will cause her more grief..and I dont belive that sorry can only be said in words...it is always reflected in his actions...even in his unshed tears that night when he wished her happy birthday...
 
- he is man of concience so he will never forget what he has done but need of hour for him is to win her heart before contract ends..and that is what he is doing... for regret and sorry he cn have time after that...
 
 

riti..
redemption or acknowledgement is still to come..i guess.
he still has to know that he brought shyam in khushi's life and ruin it...he blamed khushi that day in anger..but he did speak his mind...deep down he for a second believe that..this thoughts can resurface...in anger anytime again..so better this things get cleared before marriage..i am not in hurry of remarriage at all.

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 5:44am | IP Logged
@sarunrocks- I know what you mean but dear when he said those words...previous to that he had already confessed his feeling fr her..yes he has hurt her a lot but khushi did forgive him even bfore he cud realise what wrong he did...but I agree he did hurt her by saying those words..but again I will say if she understands this man and she understands situation in which he was when he said those words..it will be easy for her to forgive him..and I believe she has already forgiven him for that statement...one more point dear..in the story so far khushi's character has never held any grudges fr arnav even when he hated her so now when he loves her why will she hold grudge..Big smile and even I am not like khushi so i wud hav given him peace of mind bfore patch up...
@nivi- thanks fr agreeing dear...Hug

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 5:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by --Anna--

Originally posted by nivedha84

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Originally posted by riti4u

Originally posted by sarunrocks

Fourth Thread...Wow...Dancing
My view is each one will have their own way of making things right. Only one thing will count as far as the other person understands you what for you are doing it for and accepts it. And for Arnav Khushi will not demand anything so his style is accepted by her

Here comes my main question to you all. How it feels when a close person whom you started to love started to like comes and blame you that you are the one responsible for all mishaps in their life and that it was the biggest mistake to meet them.

Will that hurt heal easily. Even after knowing the other person fully even after knowing that those words were not meant for real will the heart understand all this?? Will it forgive easily.
ok fine..I have said it so many times..that it is my last comment...but everytime something pulls me back... Let me ask you sweetie..and all present here...Have you ever in your life said something hurtful to your loved ones which you never meant it...I have seen it many times..normal couples saying...I wish I hadnt meet you or I wish you were not there in my life...how much harsh it sounds but it very real dear... yes it hurts you a lot but other person does understand you to an extent that he will know that you didnt mean it... Sometimes we hurt only those people who are very close to us but we also knw that they will be ones who wont take it too heart... I will give you a personal example..-I had a very huge fight with my best frnd and I told her ..I wish we didnt became frnds..yes it did hurt her lot..but next day she was so normal with me that I had to apologise...
Riti Completely Agree with u,if u love someone so tru u never take those hurtful words to ur heart,u know they dint mean it and they'll comeback to u with all the more LoveBig smile


Divya,

Had he uttered those words and not come back to apologize - then Khushi could have taken it to heart. But he came back and said he did not mean it. She did not understand what he wanted to say that is a different case. Once had she thought that one moment he despises me so much to not want to see me and the next moment he brings up the contract to hold you back. WHY? That is where the whole answer was.

More so agree with Riti here. I personally do say stuff like this to my friends at times and to my sister as well - they know I love them a lot and they understand me so they dont create a hooplah out of it. It happens in real life. Just the understanding needs to be there. Smile





Anna actually i am not demanding a full blown redemption for ASR whatever he is doing i m fine thats why in my first para itself i stated  that redemption or repentance is left to the person who is undergoing and the person who is accepting it. I am fine with it.

This one:
My view is each one will have their own way of making things right. Only one thing will count as far as the other person understands you what for you are doing it for and accepts it. And for Arnav Khushi will not demand anything so his style is accepted by her

I just asked the question to know how it really feels to be in that situation because real life is different as nobody actually behaves like ASR nor Khushi
 

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 5:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by riyya6

Originally posted by riti4u

Originally posted by sarunrocks

Fourth Thread...Wow...Dancing
My view is each one will have their own way of making things right. Only one thing will count as far as the other person understands you what for you are doing it for and accepts it. And for Arnav Khushi will not demand anything so his style is accepted by her

Here comes my main question to you all. How it feels when a close person whom you started to love started to like comes and blame you that you are the one responsible for all mishaps in their life and that it was the biggest mistake to meet them.

Will that hurt heal easily. Even after knowing the other person fully even after knowing that those words were not meant for real will the heart understand all this?? Will it forgive easily.
ok fine..I have said it so many times..that it is my last comment...but everytime something pulls me back... Let me ask you sweetie..and all present here...Have you ever in your life said something hurtful to your loved ones which you never meant it...I have seen it many times..normal couples saying...I wish I hadnt meet you or I wish you were not there in my life...how much harsh it sounds but it very real dear... yes it hurts you a lot but other person does understand you to an extent that he will know that you didnt mean it... Sometimes we hurt only those people who are very close to us but we also knw that they will be ones who wont take it too heart... I will give you a personal example..-I had a very huge fight with my best frnd and I told her ..I wish we didnt became frnds..yes it did hurt her lot..but next day she was so normal with me that I had to apologise...
Agree with what u said but i think the main problem here is ASR is trying his best way... to work things out but what abt all those that he did to Khushi... He may be a one word man n im not telling him to repent like typical SP Hero but i think ASR approach is not that right..Ouch  ... i personally feel there should be a f/b on things he had done to khushi n sense of regret...
 
guys can anyone tell me, that terence scene it was in his head for so long, suddenly all dissappear...LOL
 
Loving a person does not mean that u have right to hurt n treat that person bad... If ASR really loves Khushi he should regret abt all that he has done to her...
 
n i personally feel fight between frens & husband& Wife / Lovers the momentum is diff...
 
It hurts badly when someone you love Hurts you...


The regret is there and that is why he is making this marriage work baby. Whatever you do you cannot change the character. He tried being sweet to her - did it work? No. He tried wishing her in the morning did it work? still no. He had to come back to ASR mode and use a combi of both - ASR and ARnav and is that working!? YES!!!

Riyya, Khushi has forgiven him. That is where everything ends. Had Khushi not forgiven him - we might have had a stretched repentance track. But balike - when Khushi Kumari Gupta has no problems with the way her man is making upto her - why go in the past and what is not gonna come (maybe hopefully a breakdown) - stress? Big smile



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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 5:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Shastradhari

Originally posted by riti4u

this is for all redemption demands and those who thinks arnav doesnt acknowledges his wrong doings
 
- you remember the scene where khushi is looking at stars and is sad rabba veying then arnav looks at her and dialogue what he says- maine tumhe bahut dard diya hai khushi but I will win you back...so he does knw that he has hurt her... and what he is trying to do now is to correct what he did wrong...he wants her to be happy..he wants to be reason fr her smile and when he becomes that..he is relieved...and he also know khushi loves him so if he punishes himself ,instead of giving her happiness ..he will cause her more grief..and I dont belive that sorry can only be said in words...it is always reflected in his actions...even in his unshed tears that night when he wished her happy birthday...
 
- he is man of concience so he will never forget what he has done but need of hour for him is to win her heart before contract ends..and that is what he is doing... for regret and sorry he cn have time after that...
 
 

riti..
redemption or acknowledgement is still to come..i guess.
he still has to know that he brought shyam in khushi's life and ruin it...he blamed khushi that day in anger..but he did speak his mind...deep down he for a second believe that..this thoughts can resurface...in anger anytime again..so better this things get cleared before marriage..i am not in hurry of remarriage at all.
sorry to butt in... he correcting things is fine... u see u mention the star scene, khushi does not know what he is thinking... he does it in ASR way n that poor khushi gets confused... one day he kisses me... one day he mention contract... even though they had telepathy convo n all i think personally they dont really know each other... ASr in his style n Khushi in her style...LOL

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 5:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by riyya6

Originally posted by nivedha84

Originally posted by riyya6

Thumbs Upwe r really in forth thread... i wonder what we discuss until 4th thread... congratz all... when can we see 5th thread LOL 

Leme guess when ASR completes the Almost Kiss,During ARHI remarriage/SRWink
what the ROFL good guess... but now with dadi returning in 4th thread... dadi returning back to ashram might give us 5th thread too... besides what u have highlighted LOL

 

Dadi is here to stay riyya,she wont return to aashram.Wink

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 5:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Shastradhari

Originally posted by riti4u

this is for all redemption demands and those who thinks arnav doesnt acknowledges his wrong doings
 
- you remember the scene where khushi is looking at stars and is sad rabba veying then arnav looks at her and dialogue what he says- maine tumhe bahut dard diya hai khushi but I will win you back...so he does knw that he has hurt her... and what he is trying to do now is to correct what he did wrong...he wants her to be happy..he wants to be reason fr her smile and when he becomes that..he is relieved...and he also know khushi loves him so if he punishes himself ,instead of giving her happiness ..he will cause her more grief..and I dont belive that sorry can only be said in words...it is always reflected in his actions...even in his unshed tears that night when he wished her happy birthday...
 
- he is man of concience so he will never forget what he has done but need of hour for him is to win her heart before contract ends..and that is what he is doing... for regret and sorry he cn have time after that...
 
 

riti..
redemption or acknowledgement is still to come..i guess.
he still has to know that he brought shyam in khushi's life and ruin it...he blamed khushi that day in anger..but he did speak his mind...deep down he for a second believe that..this thoughts can resurface...in anger anytime again..so better this things get cleared before marriage..i am not in hurry of remarriage at all.
yes I do agree with one thing dear..that khushi shud have said abt shyam and he shud hav known that fact...about anger resurfacing...LOL he needs solid temper management...

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Posted: 06 August 2012 at 5:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sharmibalan

Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by sharmibalan

Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by Shastradhari

Sree07:

i am with you..
i would have been satisfied if they have shown proper redemption track from arnav...like you mentioned...

Now, with this track..i would have been satisfied if arnav had at least acknowledged the hurt he has caused to khushi in flashbacks..but bitwa is not even showing acknowledgement...as a viewer i strongly demand it still


Shas,
 
Is Arnav a Loquacious Man ??
 
Nope...Why would he be...Shocked
 
Khushi is...LOLLOLLOL


So right..so do not expect Khushi type reactions in Arnav n vice versa..
 
I never expected...thatConfusedOuch
 
And Sathya...What sweet am i for u...(You named Trin...Ladoo & Jelabi)...What am I for uCry


I was not telling U re .. I was saying  to the girls who wanted him to state it..ASR is not made of such stuff..he will do so in monologue..but open acknowledgement will come about only asa desperate measure...

Gajar Ka Halwa !!

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