A much needed post, especially when THE one thing becomes the centrifugal force in your life, starts high jacking your normal thought patterns and corrupts it with just manifesting itself all over your mind, blurring away the other REAL aspects of life. And each time you happen to get a little away from it ..the force acting on you gets you back to the 'rhythm of madness'.
I have not made many posts here, but I couldn't resist this topic, as it is according to me it's the need of the hour. And I am very happy to note in all this insanity...sanity seems to coexist...All the problem starts with any kind of obsession -from mild to wildest..you have already entered the territory of Fanaticism -knowingly or unknowingly .any form of fanaticism is harmful whether for self (like spending too much time itself) or targeting others..then THE thing start's driving you
Mild to Wildest
When you spend unearthly hours making and reading posts, watching repeat videos of the show, prioritizing this show over many other pressing matters or the daily routine itself, start mincing each and every track, dissecting each and every move of the lead actors, slamming the support ones, calling names, sending hate mails, using abusive language, call writers , CVs, PH names, stating this soap should never end, start comparing your prospective husband and existing ones to Arnav and Barun !!!???? Comparing the lead actors' with real life partners is all treading into sickness zone.I love Rabave between the lead but I am unable to understand the fanatic frenzy when a adorable male actor goes shirtless??? What is it ? I thought men and women were from different planets..
Are we not here just too SMITTEN ( to the power of infinity) with our own PERCEPTION!!! What is the reality here ???!!!!!! I am not here for one instant questioning about how good Sanaya or Barun as a human being really are ??? But I what I want to point out here is our 'pure perception' something that exists only in our 'minds'..based on only what we have been told and shown selectively..not even...experienced...it is all a mind game !!!! Our mind is attracted to the fantasy that we have imagined for ourselves and the hook here is IPKKND!!!
But I am sure even the creators of the hook are not only just laughing mad on us with our afflicted 'irrational behaviour' but we are also terribly 'scaring' them mad with our 'raging' discussions and many-er times acid tongued harsh feedbacks lashed at the writers , creatives, directors, production house!!!!! And this 'scaring' can be influencing even on them too , including the lead actors...especially when you are micro detailing their moves and chemistry (assuming they are keeping a tab of every move of ours)' .Also one has to understand that it's not a FILM which usually has a shorter shelf life, proclaimed hit or fail and done with ..here in a SOAP we are talking about day in and day out programming, stretching the successful one's into yeas , the incredulous time spent on it.. to give our daily fix ..for both the creators, actors and the viewers...it slowly starts (or atleast has the potential to) working on our systems and minds...but I guess the maturity and the onus really lies on us whether to make it a nice refreshing Cuppa of Coffee or daily shot of Heroin.!!! Then that's called dangerous living! Whatever we do - the choice is 'ours' and that affects , impacts you and others in this ecosystem..!!!
P.S: Views expressed are just my own, we all have a right to have our views and face the consequences !!!
A much needed post, especially when THE one thing
becomes the centrifugal force in your life, starts high jacking your normal
thought patterns and corrupts it with just manifesting itself all over your
mind, blurring away the other REAL aspects of life. And each time
you happen to get a little away from it ..the force acting
on you gets you back to the 'rhythm of madness'.
All the problem starts with any kind of obsession -from
mild to wildest..you have already entered the territory of Fanaticism -knowingly
or unknowingly .any form of fanaticism is harmful whether for self (like spending too
much time itself) or targeting others..then THE thing
start's driving you
Mild to Wildest
When you spend unearthly hours making and
reading posts, watching repeat videos of the show, prioritizing this show over
many other pressing matters or the daily routine itself, start mincing each and
every track, dissecting each and every move of the lead actors, slamming the
support ones, calling names, sending hate mails, using abusive language, call
writers , CVs, PH names, stating this soap should never end, start comparing
your prospective husband and existing ones to Arnav and Barun !!!???? Comparing
the lead actors' with real life partners is all treading into sickness
zone.I love Rabave between the lead but I am unable to understand the fanatic
frenzy when a adorable male actor goes shirtless??? What is it
? I thought men and women were from different planets..
Are we not here just too SMITTEN ( to the power
of infinity) with our own PERCEPTION!!! What is the reality here ???!!!!!! I am
not here for one instant questioning about how good Sanaya or Barun as a human
being really are ??? But I what I want to point out here is our 'pure
perception' something that exists only in our 'minds'</i>..based on only what we have been told and shown selectively..not even...experienced...it is all a mind game !!!! Our mind is attracted to the fantasy
that we have imagined for ourselves and the hook here is IPKKND!!!
But I am sure even the creators of the hook are not
only just laughing mad on us with our afflicted 'irrational behaviour' but
we are also terribly 'scaring' them mad with our 'raging' discussions and
many-er times acid tongued harsh feedbacks lashed at the writers , creatives, directors, production house!!!!! And
this 'scaring' can be influencing even on them too , including the lead
actors...especially when you are micro detailing their moves and chemistry
(assuming they are keeping a tab of every move of ours)' .Also
one has to understand that it's not a FILM which usually has a
shorter shelf life, proclaimed hit or fail and done with ..here
in a SOAP we are talking about day in and day out programming, stretching the
successful one's into yeas , the incredulous time spent on it.. to
give our daily fix ..for both the creators, actors and the viewers...it
slowly starts (or atleast has the potential to) working on our systems and
minds...but I guess the maturity and the onus really lies on us whether to make
it a nice refreshing Cuppa of Coffee or daily shot of Heroin.!!!
Then that's called dangerous living! Whatever we do - the choice is 'ours' and that
affects , impacts you and others in this ecosystem..!!!
P.S: Views expressed are just my own, we all have a right to have our views and face the consequences !!!
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