Posted: 30 July 2012 at 7:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Laila2009
From what I gather he appears to have made the best out of this bad marriage. He "loved" his wife if that is what you call love but he was not "in love" with her. I view it as going through the formalities of a marriage. When she died, he probably missed her but I imagine he also this is as a chance to "free" himself from all the hardships of dealing with someone who is mentally ill and with whom he does not love.
Reva's love for him is not a healthy type of love; she seems unruly, poessessive and insecure in her love. I didn't even find the scene between the two of them the least bit romantic. I didn't even like Reva as a person and this has nothing to do with her being mentally ill. She seemed erratic, somewhat manic, and her thoughts and emotions were fleeting all over the place. The fact that TVS was physically intimate with her was understandable as there might have been a time during the earlier stages when she might have had some moments of lucidity and normality.
I don't see a Reva-Vikram-Sugni triangle at all. I can't see Sugni wanting TVS after finding out the truth. If she has an ounce of self-respect, she would walk away - not only for deceivng her but for destroying her relationshpi with her mother.
[/QUOTE] Great points Laila , I am just playing devils advocate...lol...It is true he was probably relived when she passed on...You know him having an arranged marriage dose not add in to his character, maybe he was also fed up of being alone so agreed to it, must have been a doozer to find out the girl was mental...THANKS JIJI!
Reva dose love him, to death, yes its not the devotional kind. I attributed her manic, erratic behavior to whatever it is she is suffering from, schizophrenia, bipolar, multiple personality disorder , on Indian TV/Movies there is only one mental illness and that is "MAD". so we really not sure what her real personality is! (devils advocate again!)
I at a cross roads at what Sugni will do, I know the old Sugni, would have caused some fireworks, she would make TVS pay for playing with her emptions and distroying her relatonship with her mom, but this new rona dona one...no idea! She might go jump off a cliff..then what is the point if the main lead is dead? or she might look at t as her "destiny" and stay (yuck)
I am hoping against hope they help him fix it and redeem himself ...lets see what happens this week!