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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by coolgal49

Sorry guys, do not agree with the general consensus that Khushi leaving RM was a good decision. I do not agree.

If one looks objectively, The Raizada family has suffered a huge betrayal - Anjali being betrayed by her husband is much bigger than Khushi not being trusted! Ofcourse, one will doubt Khushi - she is the new comer and she did not have proof of what she was accusing Shyam for. Remember, ASR TRUSTED her against Shyam - That is the key!

Regarding Anjali being the most important person in Arnav's life - YES, why not? Anjali has been more than a mother to Arnav - Their equation is totally different. Ask any man - For him his mother is the most important person in the world, then comes the wife! 

Anjali and Arnav have gone through hardships when they were young! If he had placed Khushi first, my respect for him would have died instantly. 

Khushi and Arnav still have to grow as husband and wife - Yes Khushi figured it out that he was kidnapped, and saved his life and risked hers, and that's what made Arnav trust her without any proof. That is growth in my opinion.

But at this stage, when she knows that Arnav needs all the support, it was her duty to stay back and give him the mental support that he so required. But what does she choose to do - Make an excuse and walk out! 

Arnav and Anjali's conversation was the best part! Yes, It is Khushi who accused Shyam of all he had done - So obviously Anjali would feel insecure as she has no one but her brother to lean on. 
and the reassurance that he gives her was fantastic!!! Yes, Arnav was right that he did not love Khushi before marriage - They were merely attracted to each other - Love is much more that - Love was Khushi risking everything for Arnav's safety. Love was Arnav's trust in Khushi's words against Shyam's. 

My two cents worth - They have a lot to grow and most importantly - Older relationships cannot be sidelined for new ones. The balance between all is what counts and Arnav was spot on today! 

My two cents worth! 




@Bold So Will the mother be angry on her son if she finds him happy with his wife because of the reason that she is not happy in her life. And about hardships and sufferings who was manhandled, who was humiliated by the crowd, who was dropped down from the top floor of a cabin, who was called a thief , who was called a home wrecker , who is being disrespected everytime it is only Khushi and no one else

@ Italics so u r telling she should stay in that RM house and get humiliated by them always for the sake of ASR, so she should always sacrifice for him right


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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Punkin22

Rima, fantastic posting.  What a great discussion.  There are post asking why is Khushi leaving now?? And you answered each question perfectly.  I'm glad that Khushi has lefted RM because all the things we have begged for and wished for our Khush,i now may begin to happen.
 
  1. Reason for marriage, contract must come out.  I believe Shyam will do that.
  2. Anjali, Mamiji, Akash, Payal and Nani need to understand the sacrifice that was made by Khushi.
  3. Arnav must be made to understand the damage to Khushi, physically, mentally, spiritually.
  4. Khushi needs to get her joy back.
  5. The ladies of GH need to know the cost for Khushi.
  6. RM and GH need a get together and discuss and speak ALL truth out on table.
  7. There needs to be another wedding that contains every dream Khushi ever had.
 
So, that is my wish list Rima. How many to you think we will get?   I have fingers crossed we will see most of these...
 
 
 
I am bloodthirsty. I want it all.
 
People are saying why she left/ well people would want khushi to lay like a doormat for everyone especially arnav to walk all over her

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by rima

Originally posted by coolgal49

Sorry guys, do not agree with the general consensus that Khushi leaving RM was a good decision. I do not agree.

If one looks objectively, The Raizada family has suffered a huge betrayal - Anjali being betrayed by her husband is much bigger than Khushi not being trusted! Ofcourse, one will doubt Khushi - she is the new comer and she did not have proof of what she was accusing Shyam for. Remember, ASR TRUSTED her against Shyam - That is the key!

Regarding Anjali being the most important person in Arnav's life - YES, why not? Anjali has been more than a mother to Arnav - Their equation is totally different. Ask any man - For him his mother is the most important person in the world, then comes the wife! 

Anjali and Arnav have gone through hardships when they were young! If he had placed Khushi first, my respect for him would have died instantly. 

Khushi and Arnav still have to grow as husband and wife - Yes Khushi figured it out that he was kidnapped, and saved his life and risked hers, and that's what made Arnav trust her without any proof. That is growth in my opinion.

But at this stage, when she knows that Arnav needs all the support, it was her duty to stay back and give him the mental support that he so required. But what does she choose to do - Make an excuse and walk out! 

Arnav and Anjali's conversation was the best part! Yes, It is Khushi who accused Shyam of all he had done - So obviously Anjali would feel insecure as she has no one but her brother to lean on. 
and the reassurance that he gives her was fantastic!!! Yes, Arnav was right that he did not love Khushi before marriage - They were merely attracted to each other - Love is much more that - Love was Khushi risking everything for Arnav's safety. Love was Arnav's trust in Khushi's words against Shyam's. 

My two cents worth - They have a lot to grow and most importantly - Older relationships cannot be sidelined for new ones. The balance between all is what counts and Arnav was spot on today! 

My two cents worth! 



sorry to differ here.
 
older relationships do not have to be sidelined. but both have their place and asr is not giving it.
 
if the raizada fmily has suffered, it is Khushi who has taken the beating. why should she live on in humiliation.
 
if arnav has not given her the respect of a lifelong marriage why should Khushi stay on without the dignity of marriage.
 
she has done enough and it is pay back time.
 
that's my two cents on this

Perfect rima.. This is what I too thought

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Shilpa.Agarwal

Originally posted by coolgal49

Sorry guys, do not agree with the general consensus that Khushi leaving RM was a good decision. I do not agree.

If one looks objectively, The Raizada family has suffered a huge betrayal - Anjali being betrayed by her husband is much bigger than Khushi not being trusted! Ofcourse, one will doubt Khushi - she is the new comer and she did not have proof of what she was accusing Shyam for. Remember, ASR TRUSTED her against Shyam - That is the key!

Regarding Anjali being the most important person in Arnav's life - YES, why not? Anjali has been more than a mother to Arnav - Their equation is totally different. Ask any man - For him his mother is the most important person in the world, then comes the wife! 

Anjali and Arnav have gone through hardships when they were young! If he had placed Khushi first, my respect for him would have died instantly. 

Khushi and Arnav still have to grow as husband and wife - Yes Khushi figured it out that he was kidnapped, and saved his life and risked hers, and that's what made Arnav trust her without any proof. That is growth in my opinion.

But at this stage, when she knows that Arnav needs all the support, it was her duty to stay back and give him the mental support that he so required. But what does she choose to do - Make an excuse and walk out! 

Arnav and Anjali's conversation was the best part! Yes, It is Khushi who accused Shyam of all he had done - So obviously Anjali would feel insecure as she has no one but her brother to lean on. 
and the reassurance that he gives her was fantastic!!! Yes, Arnav was right that he did not love Khushi before marriage - They were merely attracted to each other - Love is much more that - Love was Khushi risking everything for Arnav's safety. Love was Arnav's trust in Khushi's words against Shyam's. 

My two cents worth - They have a lot to grow and most importantly - Older relationships cannot be sidelined for new ones. The balance between all is what counts and Arnav was spot on today! 

My two cents worth! 



i totally agree wid d part that they have 2 grow together...if arnav expecting khushi to accept him (inspite of all her past torture) on the basis of a bet is wrong then khushi also could have understood d circumstances to keep her  emotions aside at this point of time...cos arnav needs his wife, he needs the support, the love in his crisis...but then how much who will sacrifice and adjust and to what extent, in what way...all these things need to be worked out in a marriage...that is why arshi need to grow!
disagree. arnav has not even told her he will make her his permanent wife.
 
arnav still keeps his di first.
 
and khushi should live in humiliation? funny logic

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:06pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by bidz

Almost looks like a 180 degree turn from Friday. Looks like DKS track has been dropped and wooing and remarriage track has started. Thank god for small mercies. I wonder if its a last minute change since Mishti also mentioned that they are aware that we weren't happy with the Anjali track.
they must have visited IF over weekend and seen the furySmile

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:08pm | IP Logged
good night guys. it is pretty late. have office tomorrow. take care amd thanks for the comments

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:11pm | IP Logged
Great post!!! Ur absolutely right!!!! Khushi deserves all the love and happiness!!!! She deserves to be the most important person in his life! She deserves to be respected, trusted, and honored not only by arnav but by the entire Raizada family members!!! She deserves to be Raizada bahu and all the love from arnav!!! In conclusion she deserves so much more than she got!!! And mostly a BIG FAT WEDDING!!!!Smile

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:12pm | IP Logged
Thanks for your reply Rima,could you please translate the words you wrote in Hindi?(me french)

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