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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 11:56am | IP Logged

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 11:57am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Doc_Manaal

Originally posted by ASRsweetKKG

exactly loved this post...
thank god 2 see tat finally our forum is happy without any bashing posts...so i am scared 2 say this..but i think  ur's thread is the place where i can frankly sat my view...
actually i was happy 2 see the +ve side of anjali...but she was complaining & blabbering through out with Arnav...
when he said tat she is the most IMP person in his life..& no one can beat tat...so suddenly she became happy & hugged & kissed him...wat does tat mean???
she was sad when she felt tat chotte loves & cares khushiji more than her ...she became happy when he said tat the marriage was not out of love (we know its lie & he was madly love with her b4 MU & marriage too...but i didnt like when he said tat after marriage only he felt love 4 her...somehow i felt bad & hurt after hearing tat particular dialogue)...but just bcoz of his Di...tat made her happy...& she talked with khushi now only bcoz asr said tat Di is on the top...still 4 me anajli's sudden change is not at all convincing...
not bashing...complaining a...anything...
of course arhi scenes was cute & sweet...i loved it 2 its core...


Hey Swati I am Manaal..
Ditto on the red ones.. Anjali is the most conniving, manipulative, pathetically selfish and delusional character ever.. I never liked her in this serial, infact I hate her with all my guts..
And Arnav-Anjali interaction today was puke-worthy today.. Arnav was and is the biggest coward to even explain the truth to his unhealthy clingy sister..
his trying to pacify her left a bitter taste in my mouth.. And Anjali was as usual her in her clingy and sefish best avatar..
the over pampered delusional bimbo is only pacified for a while when she learnt ASR still now gives her priority.. Her relationship with Chhote with all her hands running over his cheeks was utter creepy and unhealthy..
I felt horribly sad for Khushi when the poor girl was suffocated with all the hurtings inwardly, not even able to share it.. I was seeing the scene of Khushi leaving RM with a lump in my throat and teary eyes..
Arnav needs a very big time grovelling and I hope this time Guptas give him a piece of their mind to destroy their daughter's life when he will try to woo her and resist his plan of re-marriage to Khushi...


it felt so good reading this doc manaal


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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 11:57am | IP Logged
Originally posted by coolgal49

Sorry guys, do not agree with the general consensus that Khushi leaving RM was a good decision. I do not agree.

If one looks objectively, The Raizada family has suffered a huge betrayal - Anjali being betrayed by her husband is much bigger than Khushi not being trusted! Ofcourse, one will doubt Khushi - she is the new comer and she did not have proof of what she was accusing Shyam for. Remember, ASR TRUSTED her against Shyam - That is the key!

Regarding Anjali being the most important person in Arnav's life - YES, why not? Anjali has been more than a mother to Arnav - Their equation is totally different. Ask any man - For him his mother is the most important person in the world, then comes the wife! 

Anjali and Arnav have gone through hardships when they were young! If he had placed Khushi first, my respect for him would have died instantly. 

Khushi and Arnav still have to grow as husband and wife - Yes Khushi figured it out that he was kidnapped, and saved his life and risked hers, and that's what made Arnav trust her without any proof. That is growth in my opinion.

But at this stage, when she knows that Arnav needs all the support, it was her duty to stay back and give him the mental support that he so required. But what does she choose to do - Make an excuse and walk out! 

Arnav and Anjali's conversation was the best part! Yes, It is Khushi who accused Shyam of all he had done - So obviously Anjali would feel insecure as she has no one but her brother to lean on. 
and the reassurance that he gives her was fantastic!!! Yes, Arnav was right that he did not love Khushi before marriage - They were merely attracted to each other - Love is much more that - Love was Khushi risking everything for Arnav's safety. Love was Arnav's trust in Khushi's words against Shyam's. 

My two cents worth - They have a lot to grow and most importantly - Older relationships cannot be sidelined for new ones. The balance between all is what counts and Arnav was spot on today! 

My two cents worth! 



sorry to differ here.
 
older relationships do not have to be sidelined. but both have their place and asr is not giving it.
 
if the raizada fmily has suffered, it is Khushi who has taken the beating. why should she live on in humiliation.
 
if arnav has not given her the respect of a lifelong marriage why should Khushi stay on without the dignity of marriage.
 
she has done enough and it is pay back time.
 
that's my two cents on this

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 11:58am | IP Logged
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Congrats rima you are a IF sizzlerz, Kalakuringa ponga. Wish i will reach there one day
 
Congrats Rima...Love ur posts...Keep them coming...Smile
thanks buddy for reading themSmile
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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 11:59am | IP Logged
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@ rima OK I think this is how it goes in the future,
Khushi left because 6 months contract is over and SHE IS NO LONGER Mrs ASR anymore. She did not say anything cause she knows Arnav would be mad and would do anything to STOP her from going. SHE ALSO DID NOT HEARD THE PART where Anjali assured Arnav that she is happy because he found his soul mate. 
SHE DOES KNOW THAT Anjali always wam\nted her and Arnav together. She also saw Anjali talked to her but she did not hear Anjali Arnav convo BUT SHE also know that Arnav forgot about the contract and in this situation she should not bring that up.
SHE LEFT. Arnav would know very soon and he might go crazy to bring her back. Remember he already confessed that HE WONT BE ABLE TO LIVE WITHOUT KHUSHI TO DI.
Now the contract part might come up along with social stigma.It has to come up soon since RM members would expect Khushi to return sooner or later.
Arnavs redemption and remarriage. 
I think the remarriage is going to be a GALA affair but before that loads of drama including the part where Arnav would go HALF MAD. 
There is a good chance that after the contract marriage fiasco comes up the Guptas are going to go against Arnav Khushi marriage initially.
RM people wont do much as Arnav already gave them a hint taht he married Khushi to save Anji and her baby.
bout Shyam I guess he would be back soon and he would be shown redeeming himself only to STRIKE LATER when right opportunity comes.


i really like the way u made the story
quite realistic though

Glad you liked it
This is the first time Khushi thought about herself IF she left bevcause the contract is over. She did not think about staying back and support Arnav because she knows that their after today she is no longer Mrs ASR and IF she stays its going to be illigal like living together. She could not bring up the contract because she knows ASR would do ANYTHING to stop and and in this condition that wont be good for the family. They are already heartbroken after Anjali fiasco and IF they come to know about the contract marriage it can be disastrous.
She left but she is going to come back as TRUE Mrs ASR. Isnt that something we all want?

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 11:59am | IP Logged
Rima, fantastic posting.  What a great discussion.  There are post asking why is Khushi leaving now?? And you answered each question perfectly.  I'm glad that Khushi has lefted RM because all the things we have begged for and wished for our Khush,i now may begin to happen.
 
  1. Reason for marriage, contract must come out.  I believe Shyam will do that.
  2. Anjali, Mamiji, Akash, Payal and Nani need to understand the sacrifice that was made by Khushi.
  3. Arnav must be made to understand the damage to Khushi, physically, mentally, spiritually.
  4. Khushi needs to get her joy back.
  5. The ladies of GH need to know the cost for Khushi.
  6. RM and GH need a get together and discuss and speak ALL truth out on table.
  7. There needs to be another wedding that contains every dream Khushi ever had.
 
So, that is my wish list Rima. How many to you think we will get?   I have fingers crossed we will see most of these...
 
 
 

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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:00pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by coolgal49

Sorry guys, do not agree with the general consensus that Khushi leaving RM was a good decision. I do not agree.

If one looks objectively, The Raizada family has suffered a huge betrayal - Anjali being betrayed by her husband is much bigger than Khushi not being trusted! Ofcourse, one will doubt Khushi - she is the new comer and she did not have proof of what she was accusing Shyam for. Remember, ASR TRUSTED her against Shyam - That is the key!

Regarding Anjali being the most important person in Arnav's life - YES, why not? Anjali has been more than a mother to Arnav - Their equation is totally different. Ask any man - For him his mother is the most important person in the world, then comes the wife! 

Anjali and Arnav have gone through hardships when they were young! If he had placed Khushi first, my respect for him would have died instantly. 

Khushi and Arnav still have to grow as husband and wife - Yes Khushi figured it out that he was kidnapped, and saved his life and risked hers, and that's what made Arnav trust her without any proof. That is growth in my opinion.

But at this stage, when she knows that Arnav needs all the support, it was her duty to stay back and give him the mental support that he so required. But what does she choose to do - Make an excuse and walk out! 

Arnav and Anjali's conversation was the best part! Yes, It is Khushi who accused Shyam of all he had done - So obviously Anjali would feel insecure as she has no one but her brother to lean on. 
and the reassurance that he gives her was fantastic!!! Yes, Arnav was right that he did not love Khushi before marriage - They were merely attracted to each other - Love is much more that - Love was Khushi risking everything for Arnav's safety. Love was Arnav's trust in Khushi's words against Shyam's. 

My two cents worth - They have a lot to grow and most importantly - Older relationships cannot be sidelined for new ones. The balance between all is what counts and Arnav was spot on today! 

My two cents worth! 



i totally agree wid d part that they have 2 grow together...if arnav expecting khushi to accept him (inspite of all her past torture) on the basis of a bet is wrong then khushi also could have understood d circumstances to keep her emotions aside at this point of time...cos arnav needs his wife, he needs the support, the love in his crisis...cos in a marriage there is no point blaming each other as working out a solution is ultimately most imp...in that sense the female is expected to give more...but then there is a limit, which khushi shud have the right to set...how long can u expect her to suppress her wounds, her grief...sometimes one just can't control anymore and khushi has the right to cry and not be happy or content for once??basically  how much who will sacrifice and adjust and to what extent, in what way...all these things need to be worked out in a marriage...that is why arshi need to grow!


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Posted: 23 July 2012 at 12:00pm | IP Logged
awesome post ..

I want to see Khushi decide what she want and do what she want ..
till when She do things for others and her life decisions are taken by others !!
She worked in RM under Anjali blackmailing ..
She stayed with RM after la & Arnav engagement against her well just for Nani and La ..
She engaged to Shyam under Buaji force ..
She married Arnav under his blackmailing ..
and She lives these beautiful moments only after she risked her life and by that Arnav believed her .. and it was Arnav decision ..
even the Hut scene was against her well but she obey him because she love him ..

Its the time for Khushi to decide what she want and do what she wants without any forces ..
Till when she will wait for other to take the decision in behalf of her !

But one thing is annoying me .. I don't want to be tough on CVs ..
but it will be considered as an inconsistent in Khushi's character .. specially after her monologue that she is cold and avoid Arnav because every thing is sad because of her .. and now when every body is happy .. She leaved !
this show

I hope that their will be a valid reason and justification for Khushi's leave in tomorrow episode  ..

anyways .. I hope Khushi demands her rights this time ..

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